I'm pretty annoyed right now, there is this mum on facebook, I went to school with her for 3 years before she got pregnant with her first at 14, she now has 3 kids which are highly monitered by social work because she is a party animal, like she goes out more than 4 times a week and she once left her eldest child who is only 6 to look after her younger child, the youngest being 2 and a half. Anyway she posted online how her dippet social worker doesn't know what she is talking about because she doesn't even have kids. Now we live in a small ish town and I know the social workers sister and I know that she can't actually have kids.
Anyway I commented
"I know your upset, but she is doing her job. And please do not say that, not everyone can pop out kids like you."
She then replied
"Yu dont no fck aw abut kids coz you have nun eiver, u will neva no what its like 2 luv til you hve felt a bby grow inside u so till thn shut up."
WHY do people think that you dont know what love is until you push a baby out, how does that make those who can't carry kids feel?!?!?? This girl irritates me so much! I work with children and have done as a student/staff for 4 years, in my personal life I have helped to raise a child who is not mine but I love with all my heart, I would adopt him if he needed me too. So for someone who abandons her children to party it is so hard for me to hear that you can only know love if you carry a child.
And I was shocked when people who are my friends were agreeing with her I just can't believe how HEARTLESS people are, how would they feel if they weren't fertile and all anyone says is,
"you don't know love till you carry a baby"
Then i started noticing the expression everywhere!! Those facebook picture with messeges you share, people say it a lot and now i just feel terrible. I could not imagine how hard it is for someone who can't have kids to hear that.