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mummyjadey
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why do your mates or close cousins stop seeing you because you have had kids i dont get it
ive noticed a mixture of reposnses since having Elliot, two have kind of backed off and havent texted me/rang me much and seem a bit put out. Its as if its too much hassle arranging to meet me now? one has been the opposite, shes crazy over Elliot and asks when she can come over and she us again (shes broody big time lol), sends little presents etc too. A couple of others have their own kids, one has older kids (one at school, one at nursery) and has to squash in a part time job so we find it hard to see each other, the other has a baby 2 months older then mine but she leaves her baby a lot so she can go out partying and almost pretends baby doesnt exist on those nights (a night out is good, dont get me wrong)...she actually worries me with her behaviour (but we wont go into that right now).
Overall though most have backed off, making me feel a tad lonely at times but i guess it'll be different when/if they have kids of their own.
keely.
yeh i dont drive either lol and it is hard and its hard for me to make mates im quiet and shy but when you get to know me im loud lol but i dont know anyone in this area well on my street
yeh i dont drive either lol and it is hard and its hard for me to make mates im quiet and shy but when you get to know me im loud lol but i dont know anyone in this area well on my street
yeh i'm the same once u get to know me i'm really loud and annoying lol but if u dont know me i shy and keep myself to myself