why female orgasm can help when TTC (warning -graphic! lol)

[bethany-wood]

I came across it ages ago when finding help about TTC. This is why the female orgasm plays a huge role in conceiving just as much as the male orgasm does..
If your OH ejaculates before you hit the big "O" and you get there after he does your cervix will dip into the "pool" and suck it up... it's a bit grim, and a weird thought but hey


Every bit of knowledge helps right

Oh and if you orgasm before he does you may be sucking CM up and pre-cum, CM is acidic, sperm don't like that as much.. so try to orgasm after your OH's

LoL

Theres a youtube link but everytime i try and post it on here it shows the video not the link dont want to cause offence to those who don't wanna see it! LOL :/

EDIT: Oh well we're all adults right lol i'll post the vid. weird but interesting lol.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cVw0Ikj6YPc


xox

 

[bethany-wood]

dp

 

[BellaBlu]

goodness.. lol. gotta love the background music. Interesting post hun! thanks

 

[bethany-wood]

goodness.. lol. gotta love the background music. Interesting post hun! thanks

LOL
no problem. i found it ages ago so thought i would share. i never knew female "O" did anything.. so maybe this will educate others too

x

 

[ducky1502]

I've read a lot about this recently. I have to 'O' before sex, otherwise it hurts (sorry TMI). But on the times I don't 'O' beforehand there's usually been a lot of foreplay so there's the same amount of 'ladyjuice' either way lol!

 

[BellaBlu]

The only thing with this that bugs me is I usually "O" about a minute before DH.. I wonder if that's bad. .. we've tried timing it perfectly but it's not easy.. lol

 

[grrlmom]

I came across it ages ago when finding help about TTC. This is why the female orgasm plays a huge role in conceiving just as much as the male orgasm does..
If your OH ejaculates before you hit the big "O" and you get there after he does your cervix will dip into the "pool" and suck it up... it's a bit grim, and a weird thought but hey


Every bit of knowledge helps right

Oh and if you orgasm before he does you may be sucking CM up and pre-cum, CM is acidic, sperm don't like that as much.. so try to orgasm after your OH's

LoL

Theres a youtube link but everytime i try and post it on here it shows the video not the link dont want to cause offence to those who don't wanna see it! LOL :/

I don't know... I think this whole "cervical dipping and sucking" scenario has been pretty much debunked; I discussed that in a thread about a week ago, that had to do with tilted uteruses (uteri? lol) and how doctors used to think this common condition made it harder to get pregnant (for the reason you just mentioned above), but now they no longer believe that.

I do know that I got pregnant with my children very easily, at a young age, before I'd ever experienced an orgasm (I was a late bloomer in some ways, I guess! )

And I do not now orgasm during intercourse; never have.The only orgasms I have are from masturbation or from oral sex. I have them easily... but not from intercourse. Ever.

I do not expect this to be a problem.
I may or may not be able to get pregnant, at my age... but I am completely confident that if I don't, it won't be because of a lack of orgasm during intercourse.

 

[bethany-wood]

I came across it ages ago when finding help about TTC. This is why the female orgasm plays a huge role in conceiving just as much as the male orgasm does..
If your OH ejaculates before you hit the big "O" and you get there after he does your cervix will dip into the "pool" and suck it up... it's a bit grim, and a weird thought but hey


Every bit of knowledge helps right

Oh and if you orgasm before he does you may be sucking CM up and pre-cum, CM is acidic, sperm don't like that as much.. so try to orgasm after your OH's

LoL

Theres a youtube link but everytime i try and post it on here it shows the video not the link dont want to cause offence to those who don't wanna see it! LOL :/

I don't know... I think this whole "cervical dipping and sucking" scenario has been pretty much debunked; I discussed that in a thread about a week ago, that had to do with tilted uteruses (uteri? lol) and how doctors used to think this common condition made it harder to get pregnant (for the reason you just mentioned above), but now they no longer believe that.

I do know that I got pregnant with my children very easily, at a young age, before I'd ever experienced an orgasm (I was a late bloomer in some ways, I guess! )

And I do not now orgasm during intercourse; never have.The only orgasms I have are from masturbation or from oral sex. I have them easily... but not from intercourse. Ever.

I do not expect this to be a problem.
I may or may not be able to get pregnant, at my age... but I am completely confident that if I don't, it won't be because of a lack of orgasm during intercourse.

Hmm i dunno, my uterus is normal and my cervix does that lol if you sit still while O-ing you can feel it..
I think it only helps though, loads of women find it hard to O and still get pregnant..
Only when i Orgasmed just after my OH did in the whole 13 cycles of TTC did i conceive though..

What harm can it do to O after he does though.. when you try for ages you'll try anything lol

xx

 

[bethany-wood]

The only thing with this that bugs me is I usually "O" about a minute before DH.. I wonder if that's bad. .. we've tried timing it perfectly but it's not easy.. lol

Rarely do i O after he does.. but i do try, i find it hard for someone else to make me O i do my best afterwards though and the first time i did it was the first time i conceived.

So i'll try it again this month

But it's bloody difficult to O at the same time...

xx

 

[bethany-wood]

I've read a lot about this recently. I have to 'O' before sex, otherwise it hurts (sorry TMI). But on the times I don't 'O' beforehand there's usually been a lot of foreplay so there's the same amount of 'ladyjuice' either way lol!

lol i think O-ing after your OH only helps with TTC.. it doesnt make 100% sure you will conceive..
What matters most is that you don't think about TTC and have fun! lol.

I'm trying to O after OH now purely because when i did before i conceived after so long of TTC.. same thing has happened to many women i talk to online.

I'm doing it this cycle too so we will see what happens

xxx

 

[grrlmom]

I came across it ages ago when finding help about TTC. This is why the female orgasm plays a huge role in conceiving just as much as the male orgasm does..
If your OH ejaculates before you hit the big "O" and you get there after he does your cervix will dip into the "pool" and suck it up... it's a bit grim, and a weird thought but hey


Every bit of knowledge helps right

Oh and if you orgasm before he does you may be sucking CM up and pre-cum, CM is acidic, sperm don't like that as much.. so try to orgasm after your OH's

LoL

Theres a youtube link but everytime i try and post it on here it shows the video not the link dont want to cause offence to those who don't wanna see it! LOL :/

I don't know... I think this whole "cervical dipping and sucking" scenario has been pretty much debunked; I discussed that in a thread about a week ago, that had to do with tilted uteruses (uteri? lol) and how doctors used to think this common condition made it harder to get pregnant (for the reason you just mentioned above), but now they no longer believe that.

I do know that I got pregnant with my children very easily, at a young age, before I'd ever experienced an orgasm (I was a late bloomer in some ways, I guess! )

And I do not now orgasm during intercourse; never have.The only orgasms I have are from masturbation or from oral sex. I have them easily... but not from intercourse. Ever.

I do not expect this to be a problem.
I may or may not be able to get pregnant, at my age... but I am completely confident that if I don't, it won't be because of a lack of orgasm during intercourse.

Hmm i dunno, my uterus is normal and my cervix does that lol if you sit still while O-ing you can feel it..
I think it only helps though, loads of women find it hard to O and still get pregnant..
Only when i Orgasmed just after my OH did in the whole 13 cycles of TTC did i conceive though..

What harm can it do to O after he does though.. when you try for ages you'll try anything lol

xx

Tilted uteruses are "normal" as well.
It's a normal and perfectly functional anatomical variation. About one in four women has it.
It's just where your uterus sits at a slightly different angle in your body.
Your cervix is at a slightly different angle as well (an angle from which it is not likely to be able to "dip down" into pooled semen).
Doctors (until about the 1960s) used to believe that a tilted uterus made it harder for a woman to get pregnant, because they thought- as you posted- that pregnancy occurred when the cervix dipped down into pooled sperm in the back of the vaginal vault and sucked it up into the uterus.
Now that has been pretty definitively debunked, and they no longer believe that is how pregnancy occurs.

After all, women can get pregnant in all manner of positions, not just flat on their backs; there's no evidence that any particular position results in more pregnancies. I'm not sure semen would "pool" anywhere if, for instance, the woman was on top, or if they were standing, or doing it doggy.

 

[bethany-wood]

I came across it ages ago when finding help about TTC. This is why the female orgasm plays a huge role in conceiving just as much as the male orgasm does..
If your OH ejaculates before you hit the big "O" and you get there after he does your cervix will dip into the "pool" and suck it up... it's a bit grim, and a weird thought but hey


Every bit of knowledge helps right

Oh and if you orgasm before he does you may be sucking CM up and pre-cum, CM is acidic, sperm don't like that as much.. so try to orgasm after your OH's

LoL

Theres a youtube link but everytime i try and post it on here it shows the video not the link dont want to cause offence to those who don't wanna see it! LOL :/

I don't know... I think this whole "cervical dipping and sucking" scenario has been pretty much debunked; I discussed that in a thread about a week ago, that had to do with tilted uteruses (uteri? lol) and how doctors used to think this common condition made it harder to get pregnant (for the reason you just mentioned above), but now they no longer believe that.

I do know that I got pregnant with my children very easily, at a young age, before I'd ever experienced an orgasm (I was a late bloomer in some ways, I guess! )

And I do not now orgasm during intercourse; never have.The only orgasms I have are from masturbation or from oral sex. I have them easily... but not from intercourse. Ever.

I do not expect this to be a problem.
I may or may not be able to get pregnant, at my age... but I am completely confident that if I don't, it won't be because of a lack of orgasm during intercourse.

Hmm i dunno, my uterus is normal and my cervix does that lol if you sit still while O-ing you can feel it..
I think it only helps though, loads of women find it hard to O and still get pregnant..
Only when i Orgasmed just after my OH did in the whole 13 cycles of TTC did i conceive though..

What harm can it do to O after he does though.. when you try for ages you'll try anything lol

xx

Tilted uteruses are "normal" as well.
It's a normal and perfectly functional anatomical variation. About one in four women has it.
It's just where your uterus sits at a slightly different angle in your body.
Your cervix is at a slightly different angle as well (an angle from which it is not likely to be able to "dip down" into pooled semen).
Doctors (until about the 1960s) used to believe that a tilted uterus made it harder for a woman to get pregnant, because they thought- as you posted- that pregnancy occurred when the cervix dipped down into pooled sperm in the back of the vaginal vault and sucked it up into the uterus.
Now that has been pretty definitively debunked, and they no longer believe that is how pregnancy occurs.

Yep i know, what i meant is that mine sits upright. I worked on ward 5 (a gyno ward with my mum whos a sexual health and a gyno nurse for a few years so heard about my fair share of uterus's)
The cervix can point against the wall, straight down, or even sort of point upwards.
Female orgasm can help in some peoples cases(not for everyone though) it all depends on where you cervix is and where it hits when you orgasm.
Sperm will sit in the pool if you are on your back. but the cervix wont always orgasm and hit that spot.

But it doesn't mean you'll fall pregnant, it can help though. I mean the odds in a healthy couple doing everything right is only 25% chance a month.

After this long of TTC .. it's worth a try lol

xxx

 

[grrlmom]

I suppose anything's "worth a try".
This seems harmless. Have at it.

 

[PhoenixGurl]

I have a tilted uterus and that never stopped me with 3 children!

 

[bethany-wood]

I suppose anything's "worth a try".
This seems harmless. Have at it.

Yeh it gets to the point where TTC sends you a bit loopy.. start putting syringes of pre-seed up there. Putting your bum in the air. Handstands .
Gets to the point where you'll try anything lol
xx

 

[bethany-wood]

I have a tilted uterus and that never stopped me with 3 children!

it doesn't always stop you.
it's all chances.
i know a healthy couple who are doing everything right! No fertility issues and have still not conceived after over 6 years of TTC.
it's luck and chance.

xx

 

[grrlmom]

I suppose anything's "worth a try".
This seems harmless. Have at it.

Yeh it gets to the point where TTC sends you a bit loopy.. start putting syringes of pre-seed up there. Putting your bum in the air. Handstands .
Gets to the point where you'll try anything lol
xx

Lol. Try not wanting to be pregnant.
It's the only thing that ever worked for me.
Does the trick every time.

 

[bethany-wood]

I suppose anything's "worth a try".
This seems harmless. Have at it.

Yeh it gets to the point where TTC sends you a bit loopy.. start putting syringes of pre-seed up there. Putting your bum in the air. Handstands .
Gets to the point where you'll try anything lol
xx

Lol. Try not wanting to be pregnant.
It's the only thing that ever worked for me.

lol i swear that is all that works!
i did that last cycle.
didn't think about TTC. infact had enough of it and gave up.
and before i knew it i was late with a infront of me.
i guess that's pushed me, because i know i can conceive now.

xxx

 

[shaerichelle]

this is good for me lol

 

[Kellie Marie]

Wow I didnt know this......I always O BEFORE OH but funny enough last month I "O" after him and BAM......(My signature) lol x Good luck girlies x