Why is this so hard!

[Lirpa11]

Geesh why is it so hard to make a baby! We do the BD, I eat the right foods, take the prenatals, stopped alcohol, now just started temping! Why doesn't it just happen like with everyone else I know and their "accidents" they weren't expecting! Why must we be constantly trying and trying!!! Omg I am going insane here

Just want to cry but I don't want to as I'm trying not to be stressed and worrying as that can hinder my chances as well

8 DPO today and temps have slowly declined for the past three day so guessing AF will eventually be here why can't we just get this right!!!

Sorry just wanted a vent. Thx for listening

 

[newlywed2013]

I posted a thread a lot like this a few weeks ago, then I turned up pregnant that cycle

Don't give up!

 

[AmandaFelton]

I'm in the same boat, and kinda hating myself for getting my hopes up only to be let down. I just gotta keep hoping. And support from the ladies here helps some. My fingers are crossed for you.

Abd holding in tears seems more stressful to me. I'm a crybaby, I let it all out. Good luck hunny

 

[cookette]

My temps were constantly up and down, it was like a freaking mountain range, and then got my bfp at 9dpo. Never give up!

 

[Lirpa11]

Thanks ladies! I hope I do get a BFP. I tested today (8dpo) ANd yesterday (7dpo) and nothing at all no faint line or anything...

Really hoping this is it as DH works away and that makes timing bd harder as he may be away when o happens.

Other people we know just wind up pregnant out of nowhere!

Please let this be my month or cycle!!

 

[babyvaughan]

It's really hard. I have been ttc for 3 years! I never imagined it being THIS hard, well hard at all. I'm young I should be so fertile, my dh should be really potent. But it's not been a walk in the park. Some cycle's I can be positive but this too is a hard one for me. I did miss my period yesterday but I know it will come today or tomorrow.

My BB's are sore, and I've been moody my normal for my AF

I was surprised it didn't come as expected since I know its coming.

I have gone through testing, surgery, eating well, vitamins. PRAYING but no baby
Everyone around me having babies, a few abortion's is devasting!

 

[newlywed2013]

I didn't implant until 11dpo and didnt test positive until 13 (day after I missed my period)

 

[Lirpa11]

I was just about to ask that newly wed! I tested today and another Bfn 9Dpo today and AF was originally due tomorrow, but I didn't o until CD19 so FF pushed AF back by just over a week. Not going to test for awhile and wait.

Temps did go back up today which was good.

 

[babyvaughan]

BFN for me

 

[chefalyy]

I.hope you ladies don't mind if I jump in!

I was having this conversation last week with a couple co workers. Everyone I know that has children now were not planned and I'm so frustrated that dh and I have been trying for almost 6 months now and I get all these symptoms and I still get af.

I'm 5 dpo today so about 9 days to go for testing. Nothing we all can get our bfp if we haven't yet!

Congrats to both you ladies who recently got a bfp!!

 

[Jennuuh]

I was just about to ask that newly wed! I tested today and another Bfn 9Dpo today and AF was originally due tomorrow, but I didn't o until CD19 so FF pushed AF back by just over a week. Not going to test for awhile and wait.

Temps did go back up today which was good.

I was always told never to test before 10DPO - and even 10DPO is cutting it a little early. Implantation doesn't usually happen until between 7DPO and 11DPO. You would usually get your positive two days after that.

Don't give up!