Why wont he leave us alone?

[lou_w34]

xxx

 

[Aidedhoney]

Hugs hun xx

You have to do what you feel comfortable with! Sorry noy much help having a rough time myself x

 

[Laura2919]

Oh Hun, If you dont feel comfortable then tell him that whatever you have in place is fine for now. He has to understand that you both feel right in the choices you make.

The twins dad have them 2 days a week and only have them overnight if I need him too, Otherwise I have them. He has no choice but to deal with that.

Hope you can come to an agreement. Men are just far too dificult!

 

[lou_w34]

Ive already told him, no way to staying overnight, she doesnt even no him, plus she cant stay too far from me as i cant exactly chop off a boob for him to give her lol

He is just so demanding, i think i have been more than fair, only last week he was pretending it wasnt even him when i text, and he hasnt turned up at all on our arranged days since she was 12 days old.

Hope your ok aswell aidedhoney

xx

 

[sweetlullaby]

 

[Aidedhoney]

Thanks Lou...............xx

 

[Laura2919]

Lol That made me giggle about chopping off a boob!! But your right you cant.. And it wouldnt be fair on her because she dont know him. Maybe when he has established a relationship properly with her then you might consider it.. If he sees her then you cant say fairer than that right now!

Bloody men!

 

[teal]

What is he thinking wanting her overnight when he hasn't bothered since she was 12 days old.

I hope you're ok xx

 

[lou_w34]

I would deff consider it, but not at the moment at all, never infact since she hasnt a clue who he is.

He doesnt think lol, not too sure if he even has two brain cells to rub together!

But on the plus side i have seen a picture of his new gf.... cheered me up no end love it when they downgrade

xx

 

[Laura2919]

Haha thats good!! My ex's floozy is a right minger. Im no oil painting but sheeeezzzzz.. ugly tree and every branch springs to mind xx

 

[littlekitten8]

Oh dear this has cheered me right up lol. Chopping off boobs...ugly trees...lol. But in all seriousness what the hell was he thinking? Are these men really as thick as they make out?! FOB is currently saying he doesn't want the new OH to meet James until he has met him. And that even after he has met him he doesn't want OH to see James until he has seen him a few times! Hello?! You havn't bothered with him for 3 and a half months!!

 

[scottishgal89]

haha that made me laugh about the new gf!
i think ur ex lives in a wee fantasy world to be honest.
it he hasnt seen lo since 12days old then whys he asking for that?
jeeeez. what an arse.
i swear he'll just be trying to get to u.
when u said no what did he say?
xx

 

[lou_w34]

Oh dear hat sounds so silly! Does he know james has already seen him? lol

And he didnt say much.... just tried too make me feel sorry for him, so i asked him why he had not turned up too any of the vists we had arranged he just dodged the question and got arsey about the fact that i called the csa, asking 'why i wanted money all of a sudden'... like i want it too buy myself shoes or something!!! the cheek of it! lol

xxx

 

[scottishgal89]

the cheek eh

 

[tinkabells]

Men are tosspots, i think they must watch a soap or anything on tv and then think, no i want her overnight, im sorry how does he think he will cope when she crying because a stranger is holding her, he smells different and as for the boobs!!! haha

They just dont think well they do but with a mind that is just set outwards haha xxx

 

[expecting09]

Oh Lou! What is his problem?! Has he even managed to keep to a arranged visit yet? Men... GOD!! x