will he ever be happy?

[babylovex]

My LO is 20weeks and we have had a few very up and down weeks!!
When he was 16weeks it started .. he was very unsettled and just refused a bottle.. he would be hysterical to the point where i couldnt give him a bottle .... so doctor said he had reflux.. had gaviscon..didnt work.. had rantidine ...didnt work ... changed his bottles to doc brown and he was really happy ...
neway .. when we solved that he got a cold.. then he got a throat infection .. and now he has a chest infection ... so tbh the last 5 weeks or so i have had a very unsettled and unhappy baby!

i look at my friend babys and they r al so happy and content and smile at every1 and my LO just seems to cry and it breaks my heart ... i just want him to be happy!

also i think my OH feels it as he is norm worse when he gets in from work so for the past 5 weeks he hasnt seen him happy!

please some1 tell me it gets better ....

 

[starangel27]

i hope it gets better my baby is the same at 11 weeks he is so unsettled and basically 95% of the time he is awake he is crying..well screaming ive been told hes just one of those babys?? as its not colic.

 

[babylovex]

aww bless u . my LO was really gd and happy untill 16 weeks and since then its just one thing after another!! gets u down tho .. i just want him to be happy!! he has a chest infection at the mo so is on another course of antibiotics x

 

[stevie123]

awww hun i could have written this. my lo is 18 weeks, and has been like this for the past few weeks. he cries a lot when awake and i just dont know what to do with him. he is also not sleeping well anymore and wakes several times in the night. i just want a happy baby. i want to enjoy being a mom, and these precious first few months. i feel sad too when i see other babies that are happy, and it embarases me when people come round and hes so unhappy.
i dont know when it gets better but just wanted to say youre not alone x

 

[babylovex]

aww bless u .. its nice to hear im not alone.. although its not nice for u either!!
the thing is i live at home and OH house so when we r at OH's i get comments like he doesnt want to be put down and maybe he just likes to cry (i mean its heart breaking.. he has real tears and is screaming in pain) so tbh i havent really enjoyed the last few weeks im hoping it gets better when he can move or do somethink lol!!!
its horrible tho as i feel i am constantly looking at other babies hu sit there smiling at every1 and my LO looks at people and crys lol