firstly wanna say im sorry hunny.
I think wether u see anything varies from woman to woman, if the sac is complete or if its already collapsed.
I started to bleed lighltly and then had a very heavy bleed where i felt i need to push, a lot of clots came away and inside a large clot i saw my babys sac. I was then very emotional and put the sac into a little box and have since buried it. the sac was clearly visable and was just about a inch maybe more and I was 6 weeks 6 days.
I was worried what i saw would really distress me as in my previous miscarriage id had a erpc procedure. But.. I didnt look in the sac as i knew it contained my baby that was enough and I was able to have a real sense of closure with this miscarriage. Just go with it hun, if the sac is visable it will all happen very quickly and most women let it happen on the loo - my coping mechanism was to madly try and find babba which i did. This is just my story, I have two angel babies, one that i have buried one that i havnet but the loss is still the same.
thinking of you, take it easy xx