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Will this ever happen???
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ces2008
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I'm not sure Ill be able to do IVF at all. IUI is expensive in itself. IVF may be impossible for us money wise. Stupid issurance not covering fertility treatments/meds. I feel like insurances are punishing couples for not being able to concieve.
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From what I hear insurance in the States is not very good. Even here some treatments and procedures may be covered however the medication would not be.
Since we have really yet to try any medications we have been saving up for the last couple of years so have enough for IVF if it comes to that, but again we would have to be referred to even begin to start this. I am just sooooo annoyed right now at the time it has taken to even get a referral and now the wait for the referral itself. Sucks.
On top of it my cousin just told me privately that she is finally pregnant. She has also been struggling with infertility and has done lots of things like clomid and injections and it finally took, which is fantastic and I am very excited for her. I am just more depressed about me right now I cant even feel happy for her. Then I got my period the next day, like hours after she told me she was pregnant. It is all self loathing this weekend I tell ya.
Since we have really yet to try any medications we have been saving up for the last couple of years so have enough for IVF if it comes to that, but again we would have to be referred to even begin to start this. I am just sooooo annoyed right now at the time it has taken to even get a referral and now the wait for the referral itself. Sucks.
On top of it my cousin just told me privately that she is finally pregnant. She has also been struggling with infertility and has done lots of things like clomid and injections and it finally took, which is fantastic and I am very excited for her. I am just more depressed about me right now I cant even feel happy for her. Then I got my period the next day, like hours after she told me she was pregnant. It is all self loathing this weekend I tell ya.
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I'm on Clomid #3 and I have been TTC for 27 months. I got pregnant when I was WAY young and lost it. Thought a huge weight was lifted back then. Now Not so sure. I'm SO the kind of person who can just make things happen when I want them to happen. I think Clomid makes me crazy! I'm super sensitive to drugs, and it's making me ovulate, and making my cycle shorter (went from 37 day to a 29 day), and I can't tell if I'm feeling crazy because I'm taking the drugs or I feel like I'm trying so hard and it isn't working. Who knows.
Seriously has to work this time... I am moving on to something more expensive if it doesn't work!!
GOOD luck! This whole thing sucks. I think of all the people who this is working for who aren't really ready.. OK! Im ready and I will do such a good job I just need it to work!!!
Seriously has to work this time... I am moving on to something more expensive if it doesn't work!!
GOOD luck! This whole thing sucks. I think of all the people who this is working for who aren't really ready.. OK! Im ready and I will do such a good job I just need it to work!!!
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I did 5 rounds of clomid before I was finally like, ok...this is enough! My body could not take it anymore and now I am scared that I will have cervical cancer later on in life or something.
Anyways, what have they diagnosed you with?
Anyways, what have they diagnosed you with?
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Me? I'm nothing... No diagnosis. Everything looks fine
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Have you ever considered IVF? Or talked to anyone about it? We will be starting next month. We are going through a doctor in the Dallas/ Fort Worth area! We are super excited
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It does happen, I think it was around about month 35/36 that we finally conceived. Completely unexpected, didn't even bother testing when I was late, just assumed my body was playing tricks on me!! Don't give up hope xxx
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That is great news and does give hope!
I have decided to try Soy this month again. Tried it a few months ago and no pregnancy but taking the 200mg does this time days 4 - 8. Not sure if it does anything I do ovulate already but hope that it will mature my egg and get me knocked up!!!
I have decided to try Soy this month again. Tried it a few months ago and no pregnancy but taking the 200mg does this time days 4 - 8. Not sure if it does anything I do ovulate already but hope that it will mature my egg and get me knocked up!!!
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Its been a bad couple days 
Friday, after BDing, I used a Soft Cup like I always do. Suddenly I started having horrible pelvic pain. It subsided a little Saturday, but then I started lightly bleeding bright red. Now, the pelvic pain is getting worse again.
On top of all that, I woke up to news that my sisters dog passed away in the middle of the night She was like my furniece! Im so sad!!! Im exremely sad for my sister, and her kids who are 7, 6, almost 5, and 2. I keep crying!
Sorry for the little rant. Had to get it off my chest!
Friday, after BDing, I used a Soft Cup like I always do. Suddenly I started having horrible pelvic pain. It subsided a little Saturday, but then I started lightly bleeding bright red. Now, the pelvic pain is getting worse again.
On top of all that, I woke up to news that my sisters dog passed away in the middle of the night
She was like my furniece! Im so sad!!! Im exremely sad for my sister, and her kids who are 7, 6, almost 5, and 2. I keep crying!Sorry for the little rant. Had to get it off my chest!
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Sorry Ces that sounds really horrible, why are you bleeding?
It it keeps happening i would go to the hospital
It it keeps happening i would go to the hospital
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IDK why Im bleeding or having pelvic pain. I have a pantyliner in, but Im not bleeding enough for any to get on it. I am going to see my Primary Thursday morning about it. The pain is getting really really bad again. If I didnt have to work, I would prob go to the ER, but for now Ive gotta work through til my appt
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Well if the pain gets worse you should go to the dr.
Do you normally get cysts? it sounds like it could be a cyst bursting but again if it gets worse and is longer than a day you should go to the er. regardless of having to work. health is much more important than a job.
Speaking of Jobs I hate my job today
Do you normally get cysts? it sounds like it could be a cyst bursting but again if it gets worse and is longer than a day you should go to the er. regardless of having to work. health is much more important than a job.
Speaking of Jobs I hate my job today
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I see my primary in a couple hours. I have had cysts before. 1 that partially ruptured, then kept healing and rupturing again so I had to have surgery to remove it. 1 that totally ruptured. Im thinking thats what it is actually. Which is why Im not rushing to the ER! Thanks tho! Ill update after my appt!
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Good luck hun hope the drs appointment goes well.
We finally started Bding for this cycle and I am so depressed about it.
I feel like this is just not going to happen and every single time we try that I am dissapointing myself and my husband. I cant stop thinking how horrible it is going to be when i get my af in a few weeks. Is that not horrible or is that normal? Dreading the month while trying at the same time.
We finally started Bding for this cycle and I am so depressed about it.
I feel like this is just not going to happen and every single time we try that I am dissapointing myself and my husband. I cant stop thinking how horrible it is going to be when i get my af in a few weeks. Is that not horrible or is that normal? Dreading the month while trying at the same time.
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I was right. Its most likely a cyst. Having an ultrasound tomorrow.
I understand how you feel. Im the same way month after month. I feel like I just keep letting DH down. That Im a failure as a wife cuz I cant do the one thing I should be able to do.
Doesnt help that my entire family is A bunch of fertile mertiles!
I understand how you feel. Im the same way month after month. I feel like I just keep letting DH down. That Im a failure as a wife cuz I cant do the one thing I should be able to do.
Doesnt help that my entire family is A bunch of fertile mertiles!
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How was the ultrasound?
I ended up going to an acupuncture appointment in the afternoon and it really helped releave some tension. I just have to be in the here and now - which is really hard to do with trying to plan a pregnancy. We got three days of trying to get his in this weekend and then hubby is gone on a work trip so FX i ovulate on time this cycle or we will have missed it entirely!
Hope you have a wonderful weekend.
I ended up going to an acupuncture appointment in the afternoon and it really helped releave some tension. I just have to be in the here and now - which is really hard to do with trying to plan a pregnancy. We got three days of trying to get his in this weekend and then hubby is gone on a work trip so FX i ovulate on time this cycle or we will have missed it entirely!
Hope you have a wonderful weekend.
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Well, I def have a cyst. I have a cyst the size of a golf ball on my Right Ovary. I have to call my OBGYN Monday to see what they say. Its about the same size as the one he removed in 2011. I'm so frustrated! I'm still having so much pain from it. GRRRR. What next?????? So this is number 3 that I know about.
