Will this pass?

MommyToBe92

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Hi ladies, i'm 25 weeks 4 days expecting a boy on 4th May also classed as low risk pregnancy, lately I've been feeling so worried about something going wrong. I love being pregnant and love the fact i'll be someones mommy but I sometimes find myself getting upset thinking of the worst. I know it's bad and I shouldnt think like this but these thoughts take over my mind sometimes. Like when i havent felt him kick for a couple of hours i'll quickly lie on my left side/ drink something cold just so i can have reassurance he's okay in there. I feel like i'm sometimes being slightly nurotic (bad spelling i think lol)
Please tell me i'm not the only one who gets days/feelings like this? :help:
 
I lost my first born at 18weeks, my love, his family and I completely worried until our son started to have regular movements, and I started noticing his routine. I always worry about my son, he has 11 weeks or so to go. Specially when I just get a shot ( like yesterday ) I just watch for any movement that isn't "normal" as long as I atleast feel him rolling around I'm pretty happy.

Maybe I'm a little different because we lost our daughter, but I think it's normal to worry but aslong as he's still rolling around or whatever you're fine. :p
 
It does ease up and pretty much go away, although it depends on your nature. Some people in the third tri still stress regularly. For me the biggest fear went away after the "viability day" was reached: they're considered viable at 24 weeks. When I could feel him move with frequency at 19 weeks (pretty early compared to many) it was reassuring; when I reached 28 weeks and the doctors would actually care if he was moving regularly, it was a HUGE relief. So all my fears disappeared entirely at 28 weeks: he moved well at 19, I'd seen he was forming well at 20, he was viable at 24, and the doctors cared about his movement at 28. Each milestone was important. At 31, as long as I know his movement patterns, life is easy :)
 
its normal hon, especially if you know of people where things have gone wrong, however its not going to help you or your baby by stressing. My suggestion to you would be to look up / download relaxation or hypnobirthing apps its helped me loads and believe me im a control freak and complete worrier
 

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