wish i hadnt now...

[spencerbear]

Me and my OH split up about 4 months ago, just after i found out i was pregnant. He has regularly being seeing our little girl, once a week. As my older kids were away this week at their dads, i thought i would be nice and let him stay over with our girl (sleeping on the sofa). It has been lovely, only problem is its brought up all my feelings for him to the surface and i know he actually hates me and just puts up for her. Spent last night crying myself to sleep because of it. I really am hoping its the hormones causing this....


Sorry to moan but just had to tell someone and im on my own here x

 

[cocokitten]

aw hun, im not a single parent or a parent for that matter, but
sorry i don't know the background but are you certain thats how he really feels?

 

[SingleMumOf3]

it does get easier honey honestly. Everytime i saw my ex husband after we seperated it brought back all the feelings i had. its a little bit strange actually because one day i saw him and just felt nothing. and it will be the same for u aswell. i no it seems like it wont but trust me it really does get easier. to the point where ull think "what did i ever see in him"

if u need anyone to talk 2 feel free 2 PM me

 

[LOZANDEVIE]

I dont see FOB anymore nor does he our daughter but, sometimes my feelings spark up out of nowhere,reguardless of what he's put me through and what hes done to hurt me. I think my hormones play a big part in it because some days i hate him so much. hugs: xxx

 

[Kate&Lucas]

Your hormones will be all over the place atm, and 4 months isn't a very long time to get someone out of your system.

I've only seen FOB once since we split, and I didn't feel anything, but I've still been unable to get close to someone else because I burst out crying (which is a passion killer to say the least! )
Just think, you broke up for a reason, whatever that may be. As SingleMumOf3 said, you'll get to the point where you look back and feel nothing but it takes time.

Hope you feel better

 

[Laura2919]

I dont know the background but I am sure its just because you have felt really alone and emotional. Your pregnant so you would feel like that. I do hope you start to feel better soon!