Wish people would just be happy for us

[Abigail8673]

So I got married when I was 18, my husband was 27. Im 19 now. We waited for each otehr till marriage we are really reglious (im the only member of my church in my family). and im just pissed off with my family. My husband is militray, works really hard, we have a three bedroom house, things are tight because ive had a really rough pregnany and cannot work but we get by just fine. and no one is even happy for us. We decided a month after we got married to try for a baby, we lost him at 10 weeks and it was devasting, 3 days later i got pregnant again. i am now 23 weeks. but i cant talk about baby things, no one is happy, they all roll their eyes and gossip behind my back. Im so fed up with it!!! they freak out and send me hate mail about everything and its just getting to the point where we have to cut them off because im so stressed out and they dont care! I dont mean to offend anyone in there stituation but I have a husband, and a house, and the money, and the means to have a baby. I dont live at home, i have an education and career, I am better off then almost 90% of girls that are pregnant and my age. Im just mad that no one is happy for me (that sounds selfish but its how i feel) my oldest sister who is 30 has 4 kids a shitty marriage my parents babysit for free EVERY day, give her money, food, cars, everything and everyone freaking worships the ground she walks on, it makes me mad because i feel like im already a more indepentant and better mom then her

 

[xforuiholdonx]

I'm 20, married and have lived on my own with my husband side 17 (graduated highschool six days after I turned 17)... This is our second child and my mom was PISSED about it though she has not supported me financially in years. Sometimes it's harder for people to let go. I've also had an mmc... At 12+4. If you ever need to chat, I'm here.

 

[teenmommy15]

Congrats on your pregnancy im bethany im 15 and im due June 18 with a baby girl my mom was way more understanding and supports me alot but my boyfriends family makes it so difficult and it continuously stresses me out but even if its unfortunate you do have to cut people off i had to since i got pregnant you cant stress out in pregnancy its very bad. it doesnt matter what they think because you know your successful and thats all that matters.

 

[xx~Lor~xx]

That's really tough may be write a letter to them and explain how they are making you feel. It sounds silly, but maybe they don't even realise what they are doing and how it is affecting you.