Trying4BFP
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Wednesday, I found out that I was miscarrying at 7 weeks. I was at work (I work in a hospital) so I went straight to the ED after noticing I passed a couple palm sized clots. They confirmed there was no heartbeat, and I was scheduled for a D&C that morning because my blood pressure had dropped dramatically and the amount of pain I was in.
The first two days after the procedure, I felt like I was hit by a semi. My entire body was in pain. Once the physical pain was gone, I feel like I am left with this huge whole in my chest. I try telling myself that it was very early, and things could have been worst. But after years of trying on our own, and months of receiving help from a fertility specialist, I am finding it so hard to cope.
I know I probably just need to give myself time to heal, physically and emotionally, but I keep wishing for this just to be over. I have a great support system, but no one that I know has had a miscarriage before. They all mean well but say the wrong things, and I just feel myself slipping into a depression I don't want to be in.
I was just wondering if anyone has any suggestions on how to cope.
The first two days after the procedure, I felt like I was hit by a semi. My entire body was in pain. Once the physical pain was gone, I feel like I am left with this huge whole in my chest. I try telling myself that it was very early, and things could have been worst. But after years of trying on our own, and months of receiving help from a fertility specialist, I am finding it so hard to cope.
I know I probably just need to give myself time to heal, physically and emotionally, but I keep wishing for this just to be over. I have a great support system, but no one that I know has had a miscarriage before. They all mean well but say the wrong things, and I just feel myself slipping into a depression I don't want to be in.
I was just wondering if anyone has any suggestions on how to cope.