Wizzy's Story (:

[xXx Vamp xXx]

I'd have got the test too hunni, but you know, fair enough giving your body time to work out naturally. In the past I'd had times I thought I may have been expecting and my period then took longer to come because I thought it was a possibility, if that makes sense. Finally figured out I had to give my body permission not to be (as I was actively trying to be a mom at the time). I found that once I'd said it was okay not to be I found out the day after.

 

[Wizzy]

Ok, Does anyone here support abortion?

As you know im 17 and my OH is 15. He knows my periods are late and all that. But tonight we had been talking. Basically to put it simply and bluntly he said "its me or a baby" its up to you. He couldnt cope and said he would most likely walk out. But I couldnt cope with an abortion. Whatchu guys think?


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[xXx Vamp xXx]

I'll talk to you on msn about this hun xXx

 

[ella170]

Ok, Does anyone here support abortion?

As you know im 17 and my OH is 15. He knows my periods are late and all that. But tonight we had been talking. Basically to put it simply and bluntly he said "its me or a baby" its up to you. He couldnt cope and said he would most likely walk out. But I couldnt cope with an abortion. Whatchu guys think?


x

i don't support abortion, but i wouldn't put someone down for having one (unless it was for a stupid reason) because i completly understand why any teenager would want one.
f*** what your OH wants- it's not his body and he played a part in making it so who does he think he is telling you to get rid of something which is 50% his fault? about him saying he will walk out- it's really just blackmail to make u have an abortion...whether he would or not you won't know unless you keep it, but don't make decisions which are as serious as this, just based on your OH- think about yourself and the LO!

 

[xXDonnaXx]

I don't support abortion either. It's your decision at the end of the day, nobody can " Force " you into getting one. As for your OH, if he's being like that then he's not worth taking into consideration. You were both involved in producing a baby. So he should be a man and stick by his son/daughter.. I hope you do what's best for you and your little one. Have you done a test yet hunni?

 

[polo_princess]

I dont agree with having an abortion on the basis of someone deciding after theyve got someone pregnant that theyre not ready to be a father ... he really should of thought about that before having sex with you.

Look at the situation from all angles ... could you cope as a single parent? Could you manage if he said he did want to be a part of the babies life? Only you can decide whats best for you and the baby.

Good Luck!!

 

[Wizzy]

I got a 99p test today. It called SureSign. Negitive.

 

[AppleBlossom]

if it was a 99p one I wouldnt take the first answer as solid. I would take another one just to be sure.

Also I am against abortion unless there is a good enough reason for someone to have one. An immature boy who obviously can't face up to his responsibilities telling you to get one is not a good enough reason. It's your body and your decision. Good luck with whatever happens hun

 

[Wizzy]

Yeah, thats what I thought.

I wouldnt get one.

 

[alice&bump]

At the end of the day hun it's your decision. I wouldn't have one myself, but i know poeple that have and it was the best decision for them. But i do have to say tho that people need to think before they get their knobs out sometimes lol! Its entirely your decision and you're the only one that can say whats best for you. If your OH doesnt stick around then you'll still get all the support you need off poeple xx

 

[xXx Vamp xXx]

Heya sweetheart, I'm glad you got the test. If you've still not come on in another 3 or 4 days re-test. how are you doing?

 

[Wizzy]

Im just like ehh. Lol. Still no periods, but sore boobs. You?

 

[dizzy65]

i will say wut every one else is just test it will make u feel better.. good luck

 

[andi01]

Wait a week or so and test again; it will ease your mind

 

[xXx Vamp xXx]

I spoke to her last night and she said if she's not on by 27th (2 weeks late then) she'll go and ask her docs about having her bloods done xXx

 

[Ayomen]

Ok, Does anyone here support abortion?

As you know im 17 and my OH is 15. He knows my periods are late and all that. But tonight we had been talking. Basically to put it simply and bluntly he said "its me or a baby" its up to you. He couldnt cope and said he would most likely walk out. But I couldnt cope with an abortion. Whatchu guys think?


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Assuming you are pregnant in this case... which I know you're hoping you're not.

This is a very difficult decision to make. If you do have an abortion, make sure both you and the father want it, it is his baby after all as well but if he's walking out, he looses his right to have an opinion. Discuss it carefully with people you trust. Avoid anyone religious, they will give you nothing but bible verses, and avoid feminists and extreme liberals as they will just give you endless "pro-choice" chanting. Think carefully about asking your parents as they may push your decision the way they want it, but ask them if they are supportive.

I'm both Pro-Life and Pro-Choice.... it's whether I'm pro or anti abortion that matters and I say it depends on the situation. In your situation, if you're both really not ready. I would have the abortion. However don't do it just based on my advice, decide for yourself, make sure you really don't want this baby. Once you make the decision you can't go back and undo it, having another baby is not going to be the same.

Good luck, and I wish you the best.

 

[Wizzy]

Hey guys
I've not been on in a while, but still no periods.
I havnt had any blood tests either.
But ive now taken two urine tests both taken mid-day and accoding to my friends mum they would'nt show if i was pregnant as they wer'nt taken with first pee.

The first one was a wee cheapie. And the second was at this clinc place, but it was the same idea, urine test. But i didnt think to bring a sample so i had to pee then and there and that was after lunch.

Whatchu's think?

 

[TashaAndBump]

Were they negative? If I understand correctly you're over 2 weeks late now? I reckon they would be showing positive, if you were pregnant, by this point (it's only very early on in pregnancy that the hormone is most prominent first thing in the morning...) However there is always the odd negative that should be positive... I was getting negatives at 8 weeks with my first pregnancy (but I was miscarrying) and the HCG only showed up in bloods...

I would recommend going to your doctors in any case, to do bloods but also to investigate the other reasons that might be behind your missing periods.

Best of luck, hun x

 

[sam's mum]

But ive now taken two urine tests both taken mid-day and accoding to my friends mum they would'nt show if i was pregnant as they wer'nt taken with first pee.

If you test very early on (around the time your period is due or just before) it's best to use first morning urine because it's most concentrated. Once your body starts producing more hCG (the hormone detected by the test), you should still get a positive result even if you take a test late in the day - 3 days after my period was due I took a test in the evening and it came up with a strong positive line straight away.

For some people, hCG levels are a bit lower than average and a pregnancy may not show up on these tests for the first couple of weeks though - it's unusual, but if you still think you may be pregnant you should go to the doctor for blood tests instead x

[edit: was writing my reply when you wrote yours tasha - didn't mean to just repeat everything you said!]

 

[TashaAndBump]

If you test very early on (around the time your period is due or just before) it's best to use first morning urine because it's most concentrated. Once your body starts producing more hCG (the hormone detected by the test), you should still get a positive result even if you take a test late in the day - 3 days after my period was due I took a test in the evening and it came up with a strong positive line straight away.

For some people, hCG levels are a bit lower than average and a pregnancy may not show up on these tests for the first couple of weeks though - it's unusual, but if you still think you may be pregnant you should go to the doctor for blood tests instead x

[edit: was writing my reply when you wrote yours tasha - didn't mean to just repeat everything you said!]

Lol 'course you didn't hehe

Good reply btw!