Madwolf3
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Ok, so I'm pregnant with my second child. I'll turn 21 just before he's born, and I want my tubes tied when the OB does a c-section (unless I choose a VBAC). My doctor says I can't have it done because you have to sign the consent form 30 days prior to the procedure, and I turn 21 only 2 WEEKS before my c-section. Does that seem ridiculous that he won't do it? I don't know if it's just HIS policy, or if it's the hospital's policy. But I feel like throwing a fit about it. PLEASE understand- I KNOW what I'm doing. I know the potential consequences of doing this so young. I'm aware of the difficulties of reversing it later. We only want 2 kids, and it'd be VERY financially irresponsible to have another kid in AT LEAST the next 5 years or more because we can barely afford the ones we have. AND I'm high-risk, every pregnancy, and I don't want to put my body through all this again. We'll have our two, that's enough for me. YES we can have hubby fixed- BUT my health insurance will cover the procedure if I do it, whereas my husband doesn't have health insurance so we'll have to somehow pay for it out of pocket, AND we'll still have to try to be careful until we're sure the vasectomy took. ARGH! Sorry, I know this is random.