worred about the sex...

[feeble]

I lost my little girl in September at 23 weeks.

I am pregnant again now which i am very happy about, but i am nervous, i really think i am having a little boy again, i feel just like i did with J and though thats fine and i am not too worried, i know i am going to have to go through and take out all the beautiful little girl clothes i bought for my baby which i had hoped to use

i know that i have given away massive piles of baby boy clothes, thinking that we were having a girl and wouldnt need them

my OH has told me (finally) that he thinks its a little boy, he knew with both the kids what sex they were and now he has called boy. I actually nearly cried last night, not because i will have another boy (how blessed to have two children of any sex) but because of the logistics of having to deal with all the pretty girlie stuff i bought

 

[Mrskg]

Feeble I've just been talking to you on another thread x I am so very sorry for you loss how heartbreaking xx I wouldn't rush into sorting things out just now just take your time an you never know Dh might just be wrong x but I think right now you are still grieving and coming to terms with a new pregnancy the baby things can wait for now x big hugs xxx

 

[feeble]

yes they can wait... i am overthinking it i reckon, i have until probably April to find out what the sex is...

maybe march if we are lucky and they tell us at our 16 week scan...

 

[Mrskg]

Yeah I think that's a good idea xxx

 

[hayley x]

So sorry about the loss of your little girl

When my son died I gave away most of his things as I found out we were having a little girl and kept a box full of the clothes he never wore, but they were things that I'd hoped to see on another son of ours one day. I'm so pleased I kept them as his baby brother is wearing them now!

Even if this baby is a boy, theres nothing to suggest you wont have another girl one day xxx