Would it be wrong too ....(pictures now attatched)

[jenny25]

Would it be wrong to post pictures of my son who passed even though he was born at 24+3 they've been packed away for over 6 years now and i dunno if i should i wanted to talk about him but for some reason i feel its wrong and i dunno what too do x

 

[little1]

hello,

im new to all this and just wanted to say i think if u want to talk about it you should and why not put the pictures on here.

Im having a hard time at the moment too, at risk of premature delivery

X

 

[Aidedhoney]

Hey hun, you should do what gives you comfort, if it will bring you comfort to speak about your son then do it.

xxxx

 

[coccyx]

Yes , if you feel it would help, know i would like to see your baby.

 

[honey08]

of course u can post ur pics hun, this is the section to do so ......... so sry for ur loss

 

[AlwaysPraying]

I think if it's something you think will help you, then you should do it. For me, if you added an obvious indication in the title, so people could choose to look or not would help those that might be hesitant.

 

[Donelle]

I don't think it would be wrong, those pictures are there for you to cherish forever, and if you feel like bringng them back out you should and it would be a privilage for us to see your special pictures.

 

[hayley x]

I agree, if you feel you want to show people then show him off to your hearts content!! He is your baby, your special little Angel! I think like has been mentioned, make it clear in the title so people can choose to see the photos. I would feel priveledged to see your little boy xx xx

 

[Jkelmum]

If it,s going to help u sweetie then show them

 

[Pineapple luv]

there's nothing at all wrong with it!! He's still your son! And you still love him! you post pics if you want to

 

[kiwi_gal]

oh sweetie....go ahead and talk about him and share his pictures, we would be honored to see your special memories of him

 

[FEDup1981]

If thats what u want to do hun, and it makes u feel better then u do it. xxx

 

[borntobeamum]

I share all the comments above, if you want to show your pictures then this is where to do it.

We would be honoured to see your baby, if you want to and are ready.

XX

 

[todteach]

Like all the other ladies have said: whenever you feel you are ready hun. Sending you big . xox

 

[Mynxie]

sweetie, if you want to post your pictures, you post them hun

 

[jenny25]

Thank you for all your lovely msgs to be honest ive not really spoke about him for a very long time and things have happened thats made me pretty upset , my ex best friend is now dating my sons father and she had been telling total strangers that my son was her's and my ex's which deeply hurt me as she should know what ive gone through as she had a still birth at 28+ weeks , i've moved 400 miles away so im not even near my son's resting place which hurts me cause i cant visit it to seek comfort from the pain she has caused me and i truely dont know why she would do something like this , so maybe thats brought reason for me wanting to talk about him and seek comfort with people who have been through the same thing xxx

here is a couple of pictures of him and me with his father my apologies if they are too graphic for people

i have a 4 year old son now and i was wondering in your opinion should i mention too him that he had a older brother or should i wait till he is older so he can understand ?

Jen x

 

[AlwaysPraying]

Your pictures are beautiful, your baby is beautiful. Thank you for sharing. Mine was lost at almost 15 weeks and I wonder what he may have looked like, so it's nice for me to see maybe an idea of it.

As far as your ex and the girl. I think it's terrible what she's doing. If you can take something good out of it (like talking) then that's the best thing you can do.

As far as sharing with your other son? I'm not sure, I don't have other kids. But I do know that I will tell my future children about their big brother one day. These little ones that are lost so soon are not any less entitled to all the love of the world, which includes stories, memories and family.

 

[Las78]

Oh hun, he is just adorable, thanks for sharing your pictures with us. Did you name him? - I hope you don't mind me asking.

I'm so sorry about what your ex best friend and sons father have done, I too think it's terrible!

I have a 7 year old and 2 year old. My 7 year old knew I was pregnant and I'd promised to take her along to my 20w scan so I had to tell her that we lost the baby although we just explained it very basically and didn't talk about it unless she asked. She was very matter of fact about it and I don't think really understands it all and I am happy to keep it that way however I will explain it to her when she is older as I will with my younger daughter because he is still their brother and I want them to know. I also want to be open with my kids so that god forbid it should happen to them they know I will be here for them and understand (my mother was not here for me which is why I particularly want it this way). I do think it's important for children to know of their siblings even if they are not here with us however I do think that it's better to wait until they are that little bit older and can understand.

I hope you're doing ok hun x

 

[dan-o]

He is absoluletly beautiful, thankyou so much for sharing a piece of you heart with us.

I'm so sorry this woman is doing this to you, I hope she will come to her senses & apologise for her disgusting behaviour one day.

 

[Tabs]

He's such a beautiful boy hunny, thank you so much for sharing your pictures. I feel very honoured to have seen him.

I can't even imagine how you must feel.