Would it be wrong too ....(pictures now attatched)

[natalie7]

beautifull cant imagine what you went through it must change your life

 

[Sovereign]

Thankyou for sharing the pics of your little boy. He is beautiful x

 

[Aidedhoney]

Hes lovely thanks for sharing xxx

 

[Barneyboo]

So beautiful x x x

 

[AP]

Thankk you for sharing honey, he is beautiful x

 

[Naya69]

hes so beatifull cant imagin the pain you went through. and as far as your ex best mate i done understand how people can be so cruel to each other you dont need friends like tht one of my friends did the same thing shes now going out with my ex boyfriend.

as for telling your son about his big bro maybe you can try to talk to him now but tell him the full story when hes older and when he can understand more xxxx

 

[hayley x]

Aww hes absolutely gorgeous, he looks so perfect!! Im so sorry to hear about your sons father and his girlfriend I was sickened to read that, hes YOUR son why would someone be so cruel to tell people anything other than that? And to have to move 400 miles from your sons resting place must be tearing you apart I visit my sons grave 3 times a day as its a great comfort to me. As for telling your son, I plan to tell any future children as their growing up (but I plan to visit his grave and that will be my way of involving them with their big brother if that makes sense?) you have to do what you feel is right. You seem so strong, please keep talking about your gorgeous boy, your bound to be proud of him and want to tell everyone about him xxx

 

[MeToo]

What a beautiful angel. x

 

[embo216]

Hes so beautiful hun- Thank you for sharing your lovely little boy with us.

 

[babystar]

 

[Aidan's Mummy]

He is beautiful sweetheart. Such a handsome angel. Never be scared to show he pictures because you are scared of what people think. They should be honoured to see such beauty and perfection
xx

 

[babytots]

aww hes beautiful hunni thank you for sharing your photos.

i'm sorry your ex and your best friend did what they did she sounds horrid and such a cow to have driven you 400 miles away from your son with her behaviour.

as for your son i really cant advise as my 2 daughters were too young to understand about jessica but when they are older i will tell them about their baby sister. perhaps show your son the photos and tell him about his big brother who is now in the sky. then when hes older explain it properly. x

 

[borntobeamum]

what a georgous little angel you have.

That is so horrid what your ex-friend done, that is unforgivable.

With regards to telling other sibilings. I lost gillian 3 weeks ago and my 3 year old knew that she was getting a baby sister. she does understand that she isnt here any more, and still talks about her, she says she is a star in the sky.

You will know the right time to tell your boy about his brother, dont feel you need to do it to soon, just when you are ready. As he grows he will understand more and more and im sure his big brother is watching over him all the time.

sending you love and hugs, thanks for sharing your pics with us all.

xxxx

 

[T'elle]

What a gorgeous little Angel you have there!! your so brave hunni and you should show him to the world, he's beautiful!!! Wishing you all the happiness and strength in the world R.I.P Little man!! x.x.x

 

[Mamafy]

Such beautiful pictures

In regard to your son, I'd simply explain it then maybe in a couple of years you could maybe show him his brothers pictures when he is more able to understand xxx

 

[jenny25]

Thank you guys i do have more pictures but i prefer not to show those ones because it was when he got christened the following day and i think i would keep those ones personal too me but i think you guys are right i will explain too him when he is a little older about his older brother paul just thinking he'd be 6 just now amazes me the time has gone so fast feels like only yesterday , my heart goes out to people who have lost a child personally i didnt think it would ever happen to me ive never know about it until its actually happened you never think you would burry your child before yourself and its one of the hardest things too do, im going back to scotland next month too visit his grave and spend sometime visiting family my head believe it or not is in a mess at the moment i feel as if everything is going wrong and i cant be happy sometimes

 

[tootsy1987]

Hunny he is absolutley beautiful! thankyou soo much for sharing your treasures of your beautiful little boy with us! im soo sorry for what you are having to go through and just want to send big huggs your way! what a nasty vicious peice of work your ex best friend and ex are! you are a much better person than them and although you cant get to the resting place of your little boy i am sure he is looking down and feeling soo proud of his beautiful, strong and brave mummy!

Huge hugs sweetheart xxxxx

 

[Frankie]

beautiful pictures x

 

[kiwi_gal]

ohh sweetie, he is beautiful.....thank you for sharing something so special with us...

 

[DiddyDons]

aw so beautiful and tiny. thanks for sharing