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A few months ago OH and I talked about going South in February as our Christmas gift to one another.
Well then we made the decision to start TTC.. so I figured those plans were esentially squashed.
But he just said he wanted us to go speak to a travel agent after work today. I asked him What of I get pregnant before then? Im hoping I will be pregnant by Feb?
He said.. "The good news is, not only can you still lay on a beach while youre pregnant, but even if you got pregnant RIGHT now you will still only be like 12 weeks so you will also still be looking HOT in your bikini, so why wouldnt will still go?"
Im not saying hes wrong . Im just thinking that 1. thats a few thousand bucks we could use on the baby (although I guess wr COULD spare it and still afford everything we will need) and 2. If I was a few weeks pregnant Ill probably be suffering mornong sickness and be extremely tired. and 3. what if something happened and I needws medical attention while on a foreign country?
He said "Its our vacation we can do whayever the eff we want. If your pregnant we will lay oon the beach and ill fan you and feed you grapes if thats what you want!"
lol so what do you think .. would you still do it?
Well then we made the decision to start TTC.. so I figured those plans were esentially squashed.
But he just said he wanted us to go speak to a travel agent after work today. I asked him What of I get pregnant before then? Im hoping I will be pregnant by Feb?
He said.. "The good news is, not only can you still lay on a beach while youre pregnant, but even if you got pregnant RIGHT now you will still only be like 12 weeks so you will also still be looking HOT in your bikini, so why wouldnt will still go?"
Im not saying hes wrong . Im just thinking that 1. thats a few thousand bucks we could use on the baby (although I guess wr COULD spare it and still afford everything we will need) and 2. If I was a few weeks pregnant Ill probably be suffering mornong sickness and be extremely tired. and 3. what if something happened and I needws medical attention while on a foreign country?
He said "Its our vacation we can do whayever the eff we want. If your pregnant we will lay oon the beach and ill fan you and feed you grapes if thats what you want!"
lol so what do you think .. would you still do it?
) and doesn't always conform to what we want. Go out and live!
Since I have a history with ectopics this was really scary and crucial. I thought about canceling and if the trip had been to a foreign country I probably would have at that moment but since it was a town I was familiar with we went. I had to go see my sister's obgyn twice while there (not so much fun) and they still didn't find the pregnancy. We got back and everything was fine but it was a bit nerve wracking.
