Wow! How would YOU reply to this?

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One of my old friends, who I dont talk to much anymore, was one of the only people who knew I was pregnant. She has me on facebook and I often talk about my stubborn puppy and how hard he is to train. So out of the blue she messaged me this:

Hey so im reading all your posts about Coby (i think you should have chosen a different name) and i'm not trying to mean at all, im just sharing my opinion. Basically if you can't take care of a dog, and need help, how were you going to take care of a baby?

WOW! I am so insulted that I didn't even know what to say. I ended up saying I've never owned a dog, and so it is a little harder for me to train him and I do like his name. I didnt even reply to the baby part :nope:
 
Id probably tell her to bugger off, thats abit of an insensitive comment considering what you have gone through :hugs:

Puppies/dogs can be hard to train, it doesn't mean you wont be a great mummy one day :flower: xxx
 
I would reply

For one I don't train my baby liek I have to train a dog. I love a nuture my baby and no one knows how to be a mum. I will make mistakes but thats what motherhood is about. Learning and understanding and most of love. I can give my baby all of this. So take your judgemental attitude elsewhere as I have no time for your nonsense

I would message that back. What a bitch hun
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Yeah. When she replies im going to tell her that all of my friends are entitled to their opinions, but shes not a friend so she doesn't have the right to critique my life from the side lines. I have never known a girl so insensitive, she should know how much that would hurt someone! :cry:
 
She really isn't a true friend hun. When your time comes you will make an amaizing mother. And none of us are perfect mothers :hugs:
xx
 
if she thinks having a dog is ANYTHING like having a baby she's a moron.
 
also, to quote a very good song.. "we already have two cats that we treat like kids, but i'm not going to pretend that's anything like this"
 
Oh she sounds bloody horrible.

Delete her hun, she has no right to send that message to you, as if looking after a baby & a dog are the same :dohh:

I hope you're okay hun :hugs:

xxx
 
I couldn't have said it better than aob did. That is absolute crap. :hugs:
 
oh my god what a bitch, basically hun if i was you, the exact words i would use are 'FUCK OFF' :haha:

shes out of order there, dogs are hard to train, babies dont need 'training'
looking after a puppy and looking after a baby are completly different things.

ignore her hun, sounds like shes just trying to get at you, too bored with her own life.

:hugs: xx
 
What an idiot! Id tell her to fuck off and delete her..

:hugs:

xx
 
Reply:


Dear f*ckwit

In reply to your most insulting message via facebook and not my face (if it where my face you would be minus your face) to answer your question, a baby is not like a dog its an actual human like me and you (ok maybe not you) only smaller and probably a hell of a lot more character and with than you will ever have, and that goes for the puppy also.

Should you wish to ask me any more redundant questions that deserve nothing less than a punch in the tits feel free to ask I always have time for slow poeple I feel sorry for.

Sincerely up yours



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What a bitch.
I love how some people think their opinions matter.

She must be having a bad day!!

Chin up hun, dogs are bloody hard work!!
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