write your promise to...... *3 BFP's lisa..dreamqueen..midgetem*

[rachel_f_]

It could be god, it could be allah... Whoever it is, write a promise to them, for them to bless you with your long awaited BFP... I'm personally writing mine to the universe, as iv been reading a book called "the secret" by rhonda byrne, this book teaches you to ask, think and receive. It says that the universe responds to your thoughts, by sending "like" actions back... For example if you sit thinking "I'm never going to get pregnant" guess what the universe sends back? Yep... You're never going to get pregnant... Because its the law of attraction.

So I'll start by thinking and believing that I will be preganant by christmas

And just for fun, here are my promises in return for my special xmas BFP!!

I promise to smile through morning sickness, and never curse! I promise to limit sending OH for chocolate waffles to twice daiy, I promise to embrace every stretch mark and wobbly bits and allow OH to have at least 10% input into the name of our baby ;-) I promise to never moan about night feeds or dirty nappies, and lastly, I promise to bring up my special baby to be honest and respectful.



Please tell god/the universe what you would like, and BELIEVE you are going to receive it, and make your promises ladies xxxxxxxx

 

[NavyWife84]

I love, love, love this forum!!!

I believe that I will be pregnant by New Years! We will start the new year on a positive note and 2012 will be the BEST year of our (mine and DH's) lives!!!

My promise is to God as I have strayed from Him and doubted Him in the past, but in my infertility it is Him that is helping me get through this.

I promise to embrace every moment of my pregnancy. I will know that my weight gain, stretch marks, morning sickness, swollen ankles, crazy hormonal emotions, etc. will all be for the good of the wonderful blessing growing inside of me. I will not complain about any of it, as it drives me crazy when those who have been blessed do nothing but complain! I promise not to curse my DH in the delivery room, but to thank him for being there through our struggles with infertility and through our pregnancy. I promise to raise my children with the morals and values that I believe in and teach them to live their lives to the fullest. I promise to raise them to be understanding individuals and never jump to conclusions about others. They will know and understand that everyone has a story that people might not know about and you never know when or what someone is struggling with. If they live their lives knowing that, they will have a lower risk of hurting someone else.

And on the lighter side...I promise to let my husband take control when it comes to the sports our children play (we are both sports freaks, but I will let Daddy have his glory)...that is if our children are interested in sports I promise to allow my MIL as much access to our children as possible, until she drives me completely crazy! I promise not to argue with my husband about who has changed more diapers, cleaned up more spit up, done more laundry, gotten less sleep, etc...as I know it will ultimately be me!

 

[rachel_f_]

Good luck navywife!!!! Good and positive thoughts and baby dust coming your way!!! Remember to wake up everymorning and be thankful for what you have and in return, god/the universe, will bring about more things for you to be thankful for xxxxx

 

[no_regrets_91]

I love this...

Dear Universe,
If you can give me a bfp by the end of 2011 I promise i will start seeing myself as a person not just as a broken women. I promise i will embrace everything that pregnancy throws at me. I promise to love every stretch mark and know I am more beautiful with every pound I gain. I promise to smile every time I have morning sickness. I promise to do all in my power to be healthy while I carry my little one. I promise to include my husband in all that I can as I know that he wants this just as bad as I do. I promise to take care of our baby as best as I know how. I promise to love the lo and to raise him to be respectful and to appreciate what he has and to help those that have less. I promise to never complain about waking in the middle of the night, about dirty dipers, about never going out. I promise that once I get my baby I will be complete. Thank you for listening.

Amanda

 

[rachel_f_]

Amanda. You WILL get pregnant before 2011... BELIEVE it! don't doubt the universe, it can't understand mixed thoughts! Belive you wil be, picture yourself with the end result, and don't let any doubt enter your mind!!! Please get the book "the secret" by rhonda byrne... It will change your word!! Lots of love and baby dust xxxxxx

 

[LizMcD]

Nice one Rachel I love this thread! I have just bought the secret too and can't wait to read it....

I am also a believer in positive thoughts so here's my promise to the universe. I promise to be the best parent I can be, to give my baby all the love, support and nurturing I can and to love it with all my heart. I will change my life to be the best mummy, I promise to support my hubby in being the best daddy too.

It's not a Case of 'if' but 'when' for us ladies. We WILL have our babies and must focus on believing this and imagining ourselves as mummys. Some good advice I was given was to imagine urself pregnant, buying baby clthes, cradling ur baby etc - think believe and receive xx

 

[rachel_f_]

Lizmcd!! U are spot on!! You have to believe and be thankful that you have received!! Its an amazing book! Get reading girl!! And good luck!! Xxxxxx

 

[snd80]

Here it goes…

I pray to the Good Lord, that I will finally get my every heart’s desire and become pregnant by the end of this year. I pray that my hubby will have his azoospermia cured by something simple like hormones the end of this month, and I can start living a normal, happy life, and not one of infinite sadness caused by infertility. I know in my hardest of hard times through all this I have almost denounced you, and for that I am sorry, but I have never really walked away from you… If you just give me the chance, I will prove to you that I am worthy!!!

I promise with all my being that I will be the best mother I can be, never ever moan or cry at all the unpleasant things that come with pregnancy, but instead embrace them in knowing that it is what we have been working for over the past 10 years, and it will be worth it! I promise to raise it in your image with all the morals my parents taught me… to love, honor and respect all others and never turn your nose up to anyone until you’ve walked a mile in their shoes. I promise to change all the dirty diapers, do all the feedings… whatever it takes Lord, as long as you grant me my happiness! And I promise to never ask for anything else afterwards!!!! Amen.

 

[Armywife84]

Dear Baby Gods,

I promise that I will get pregnant before my husband deploys. Whenever that may be, since it was supposed to be this month but now it's up in the air. Thank goodness, that it allows me a little more time to try.

I promise that I will:
- love and cherish my child from the day I get that positive pee stick.
-love how ever many beans are in my belly, whatever sex they are, or if they turn out to have complications.
-not complain at all during my pregnancy.
-enjoy every kick, punch, going to the bathroom a million times, and watching my belly get bigger and bigger.
-protect and shield my child from any harm.
-let other people hold my newborn for a minute, even though I never want to let him/her go.
-get up at every cry and let my husband sleep.
-not go broke buying adorable baby clothes and set aside some $ for their college fund.

Let's get my this year!

 

[rachel_f_]

Good luck girls... Don't let a moment of doubt enter your mind!! It WILL happen!! Xxxx

 

[cooch]

Dear God,

Please grant my husband and me our healthy baby so that we can raise him/her to be a healthy amazing adult. I will not complain once about any pregnancy symptoms as it is a step closer to our dream. BFP by December 2011. Thank you.

xxx

 

[midget em]

Thank you Rachel for this thread I'm trying to be positive this month already so a bit more can only be a good thing.

Dear Universe and Baby Gods
If you give me my BFP this month (or at these before Christmas) I promise to love every minute of my pregnancy including the morning sickness (I know you know how much I hate being sick!) I promise to embrace every single day and be thankfull for each day my baby and belly grows bigger and stronger.
I promise to work together with my hubby to bring our child up to be a honest kind and caring. We'll make their lives fun and exciting and I'll turn away when Daddy wants to do things I don't approve of. We'll be the best parents we can be encouraging and supporting their dreams all the way.
Please Baby Gods give us our BFP x

 

[rachel_f_]

Midget em your bfp is on its way!! Think those pregnant thoughts!!!! And imagine yourself with you huge bump!!! Xxxx

 

[zanDark]

What a lovely and positive thread!

I promise to be happy every day of my pregnancy even if things get difficult and I get huge I promise to smile and be grateful for my lovely miracle baby and I promise to raise him/her giving them all the love and positive energy in the world. I promise to be the best wife and mother I can be.

I will come back to this thread in the next couple of months to say that it worked, and jump for joy at all the "OMG it worked!!!" the other wonderful ladies will be posting as well

 

[rachel_f_]

Keep thinking them things zandark!!!! and this post is going to be FULL of BFP's and happy mummys to be xxxxx

 

[SpicyWolf]

Aw, what a great thread! Thank you, the universe for the BFP we will get before Christmas! I promise to love every minute of being pregnant, even the morning sickness, aches, pains, weight gain and any other symptom as well I promise to never stop being thankful and remember how very blessed we are. We promise to love our baby and raise him or her to be loving, compassionate and accepting of others

 

[fisher640]

Please universe, let me be pregnant this month so I can have a BFP by DH's 37th birthday and a health baby by my 31st birthday and cancel my fertility specialist appointment. I'm looking forward to finishing grad school just in time to hold my beautiful healthy baby next summer. I already have plans to enjoy the fall season with with a baby at the pumpkin patch and for walks around the lake and plans to shower the baby with the most adorable knitted hats and sweaters next winter.

I promise to embrace the boob soreness and morning sickness, weight gain and stretch marks. I promise to raise an intelligent, respectful, empathetic and independent child and adult. I promise I will let my life slow down with a child the way it is meant to be enjoyed and not stress about all the small things. I promise to look at my child, hug and kiss my child and never forget how lucky we were to finally have him/her in our lives. I promise I will never tell another infertility patient to 'just relax'...

 

[Lisa2701]

I've read most of "the secret", should really rake it out again ...

I WILL get pregnant before I have been TTC for 2 years (December)! I WILL be pregnant before i have to go see the FS!

I WILL love every extra inch put on my waist, every kick, every punch, and every squirm! I will smile when I am up during the night going to the bathroom, I will be grateful for the morning sickness, back ache, sleepless night, and ache in my hips and my baby can use my ribs like a xylophone and I won't moan.

I WILL ALWAYS appreciate how blessed I am to have children. I will always love my children and put their needs before ANYONE elses. I will always be the best mother I can be and encourage my children to be the best version of them that they can be. I will love and cherish my children with or without disability, and support them in the best way I know how. I will kiss every scraped knee and hug away any tears. I will not moan at the sleepless nights, dirty nappies, or the inevitable fact that I will be pee'd, poo'd and thrown up on at some point. I will always encourage my children to be close as siblings. I will give my children ALL opportunities in life that I possibly can, and give them guidance in life no matter what age they are. i will protect them with my life and I'd give my last breath to ensure their safety and happiness!

Well ladies... I will see you all in first tri latest x-mas

 

[rachel_f_]

Cmon girls!!! Write your promises!! Xxx

 

[rachel_f_]

Any more promises girls?! I want this to be a lucky BFP thread!!! Xxx