WTT with a view to TTC in Sept/Oct/Nov - looking for a TTC buddy!

[Soniamillie01]

I know almost. Crazy isn't it? I can't believe I have 4 months left!

Next week will come around so quick, especially as I have my scan Wednesday! X

 

[miss malteser]

And I am starting to get very impatient that I am still just preventing ovulation...I want to get to the good stuff....every other day monitoring and stimming shots....come onnnnnnn stimming!!! I am sure things will start to move along faster after my appt. next thursday!

You have been amazingly patient up to now!!! I can understand how everyone is so excited for their gender scans but really, without wanting to offend anyone at all, I think all your appointments now are so much more important because they are taking you one step closer to getting what you want...a BFP!!! For us pregnant ladies, obviously all the appts are important and very exciting (especially when the gender is confirmed!) but the biggest hurdle is already out of the way so the appts are really just to confirm how things are going (in major problem free pregnancies obviously). Roll on next Thursday!!


On another note, DH and I are barely speaking which isn´t like us at all. All week long we have fiestas which basically means a week of lunches, dinners and going out every night which obviously is a big no no for me at the minute. Anyway DH really fancied going out last night which I said was fine as long as he controlled the drinking as there is no way he´s coming to the hospital drunk! Anyway, I got a call at 8am this morning to go and pick him up and he was slurring so badly. I couldn´t believe he had drank so much. If I had gone into labour last night he would probably have missed it. Maybe I´m being overly sensitive about it as I do still have 19 days to go but still, he´s not normally like that and he´s so excited about the birth that I´m really surprised that he went ahead and risked missing it just for a few drinks. As I said, maybe I´m being far too dramatic but if I can go for 9 months without a drink surely he can limit what he drinks just for one night!

Men!!

 

[almosthere]

thank you so much miss m-your words really mean a lot to me!! and yes, I am so sick of being patient-I want my bfp and I want it now!! hahahaa

And I think you are in the right to be upset about dh getting so drunk he can hardly speak! I have no idea, but throwing out a guess as to maybe he is getting nervous/wanting to get his drunk nigthso ut of the way before baby comes? BUT it is time to grow up and be in daddy mode by now right??? hehe

My DH had 4 drinks the other night....3 were hard liq (he is such a light weight with hard alch-he usually just drinks beer!). which pist me off a bit, as he is the one with the infertility issue, and the one month he decides to get drunk is the one month he really needs to prepare his swimmers to be as healthy as possible!

 

[almosthere]

p.s. def having hot flashes right now from the lupron, it is finally starting to kick in, oh man!

 

[miss malteser]

I don´t think its as much nerves as he´s just a lightweight and thinks he can drink far more than he actually can! Anyway I´ve had to forgive him as it´s not like him at all to do something like that and it´s our first wedding anniversary today and we can´t spend it not speaking!

 

[PreshFest]

Miss M, my husband did the same thing when I was about due with my daughter. Made me so mad!! Luckily my DD wasn't born until 41+2, so he was safe lol. I'm certain he won't do it this time, though. Helping your wife through labor is no joke and he will want to feel good for it. I can't imagine being hungover while meeting your baby for the first time!

3 sleeps until gender scan!

 

[almosthere]

I am glad to hear both men won't be drinking so close to the DD....I will have a lot to say with my DH if that happens...specially with preggo hormones rumbling through me! hahaha

 

[Soniamillie01]

5 sleeps for me!

 

[PreshFest]

We took some cute pics tonight to send out for the big reveal on Monday! They are fairly subtle, so unless you know what's happening Monday, you wouldn't know what they mean. Only a few people know to check Facebook for this subtle clue lol. But they are SO cute! No belly in them, sadly tho...

So excited to hear about Sonia and Jem!!

 

[Emz1982_in_uk]

Jem - here is a link to my birth story
https://babyandbump.momtastic.com/b...-story-those-scared-anxious-intervention.html

Glad everybody is ok. Can't wait to hear your gender reveals.

Just for fun I think Sonia - Boy
Jem - girl
Presh - girl

Exciting

 

[Soniamillie01]

Thanks Emz - I think boy too but maybe secretly hoping they surprise me x

 

[miss malteser]

I´ve heard its meant to be pretty warm this weekend in England. How are you all coping with the heat? Maz, you´ve not long to go at all. You must be feeling it.

Just to make you feel a little bit better it´s absolutely boiling here and as you´ll see this week isn´t going to get much better!https://www.aemet.es/en/eltiempo/prediccion/municipios/olite-erriberri-id31191

 

[mazndave]

Jem - here is a link to my birth story
https://babyandbump.momtastic.com/bir...ervention.html

Glad everybody is ok. Can't wait to hear your gender reveals.

Just for fun I think Sonia - Boy
Jem - girl
Presh - girl

Exciting

I'm going with the other way round! Girl for Sonia and boys for Jem and Presh!

I´ve heard its meant to be pretty warm this weekend in England. How are you all coping with the heat? Maz, you´ve not long to go at all. You must be feeling it.

Just to make you feel a little bit better it´s absolutely boiling here and as you´ll see this week isn´t going to get much better!https://www.aemet.es/en/eltiempo/pred...iberri-id31191

Bloomin heck, don't envy you with that heat! Normally I love a bit of sun and the hotter the better when I'm on holiday, but at the minute I welcome the rain and I'm looking forward to Autumn/Winter! Where I am it's muggy more than anything, and I constantly feel like a melting mess. Always think people will be staring at my sweaty pink face!

Any signs of an appearance for you any time soon? Had my first parentcraft class today, which made it feel much more real and imminent!! Got a tour of the delivery suite and was disappointed we didn't get to hear any screaming! It was surprisingly quiet. We also got shown a fresh placenta which was certainly a different experience! Next week we get to tour the post natal ward and watch a newborn being bathed and changed etc, which I'm really looking forward to.

xx

 

[Soniamillie01]

Maz. Wow not heard that the show you a placenta! Bet that was an experience! Sounds like a good tour though.

I am not coping too well in the heat. I too normally love it but just feel so uncomfortable all the time and over heat. Was worried today as hadn't felt baby move and it's now like he / she is having a party in my womb! We have my niece staying tonight and she is currently crashed in our bed so got to move her now as I need to crash too.

I've been trying to mentally visualise the worst parts, or what I think will be the worst parts of labour and think they may be working in helping me to realise and prepare for things.

How early did you ladies do your hospital bags?

 

[Soniamillie01]

Jem - are you excited? X

 

[Jembug]

Yes, extremely!!! But more worried about the health, I keep thinking 'am I lucky enough to have three healthy babies?'

I'm leaving at 11 and it's at 11:40.
Hope little one is ok, I'm still not certain I've felt movement?
Eeeeek, will update soon xx

 

[Emz1982_in_uk]

Jem good luck hun x

 

[miss malteser]

I'm going with the other way round! Girl for Sonia and boys for Jem and Presh!


Any signs of an appearance for you any time soon? Had my first parentcraft class today, which made it feel much more real and imminent!! Got a tour of the delivery suite and was disappointed we didn't get to hear any screaming! It was surprisingly quiet. We also got shown a fresh placenta which was certainly a different experience! Next week we get to tour the post natal ward and watch a newborn being bathed and changed etc, which I'm really looking forward to.

xx

I also think a girl for Sonia and boys for Jem and Presh!

Apart from losing my mucus plug earlier on in the week and LOTS of Braxton Hicks I can´t say that much else seems to be happening. I´m getting so impatient and the heat is really killing me! Come on Emma!!!

That´s great that you get to see the hospital. My first visit will be when I´m in labour so no idea what to expect. We didn´t get told anything about bathing, changing, etc a baby either. TBH our classes weren´t that useful!

Good luck Jem!

 

[miss malteser]

How early did you ladies do your hospital bags?

My MIL gave birth prematurely so was nagging at me to get it done from 30 weeks. I finally did most of it at about 32-33 weeks just so she´d shut up but there´s still some bits and pieces that I´ll have to chuck in just before we go and all the baby clothes are just laid out on a bed as I didn´t fancy leaving them in the bag for 7 weeks. They´d be so creased and probably not smell too fresh either!

 

[Jembug]

It's a healthy little girl!!! So my instincts was wrong.
She looked beautiful and even sucking her thumb!
I'm excite now but my poor husband! Ha ha ha, four girls under one roof!

It's a secret on Facebook.
Catchup later xxx