WTT with a view to TTC in Sept/Oct/Nov - looking for a TTC buddy!

[sunshine82]

Thank you Elz

Good luck to you this cycle my lovely, I'm right here waiting with you.
I had the exact same feeling that I would be the last bfp too and I'm prob still going to be- wishing you loads of baby dust for this tww

It's hard going isn't it?!

I'm trying to keep positive but think 14dpo I'd get a pos if I was- wth is with the symptoms though- cant all be in my head! Lol!
I got smiley on Thurs 11th they say ov anytime in next 48hrs then don't they? We bd thur, fri and sat- I suppose if ovd sat night then could have a teeny chance but I doubt it? Any hope?!!!

 

[Soniamillie01]

There is still hope especially as AF hasn't arrived

 

[sunshine82]

Thanks Sonia! X

 

[Emz1982_in_uk]

Sunshine, you're definitely not out yet. Don't give up x

Elz, I hope you are ok and I'm really hoping you get your BFP soon x

 

[Soniamillie01]

Jem - are you going to have the whoopin cough jab? When I went to midwife yesterday she sprang it on me, I said I wanted more info about risks etc of not having it / having it and we went through them and I decided to have it. Have to say my arm is now killing, it wasn't a normal injection in the arm it was one of those punch the needle in the muscle needed x

 

[shradha]

Sunshine- as long as AF hasn't shown her face....you still have hope....I have my fingers crossed..... don't stress out....

 

[Jembug]

Sunshine and Elz don't give up, af is still not here! I didn't a bfp until my Af was six days late in my first pregnancy, although I didn't know what cycle day I was- the doctor said I was nearly six weeks pregnant at that point! So there is still hope.
Thinking about you both and you ladies will have babies, promise you xxx

I got a leaflet from my docs about it after my flu jab... I'm going to have it at 28 weeks it's highly recommended! And Demi had a terrible cough at four weeks and was hospitalized with it and that was frightening enough let alone the possibility of whopping cough!

Sending lots of love to you lovely ladies xxxxx

 

[Elz]

Thanks for the support girls, means a lot!

 

[sunshine82]

Thank you Jem xxxx

 

[Soniamillie01]

I've not had the flu jab, just the whooping cough one x

 

[almosthere]

Elz-I cannot remember, did you or dh gets tests done yet?

And sunshine so sorry-hoping this is still if for you though!!

Just woke up from a nap, I was shattered after waking up early-the nap was oh so nice =) lol

 

[sunshine82]

Thanks almost

Bfn fmu this morning apprx 15dpo. Bbs sorer than ever though! I reckon af right around the corner! I did order a cb fertility monitor yesterday - so expensive but hopefully worth it- I loved opk'ing this cycle it's reassuring!
If this isn't our month I hope af stays away for three more days as that means we have a chance next cycle as oh leaves this weds and come bk on 15th Nov.
But it would also mean 35 day cycle too which is gd for me and classed as 'normal' lol!
I'm torn between wanting af now as that means smiley opk was true and a lovely cycle length and wanting it to hold off a few more days to try next month! Iyswim!

How is everyone! Thanks for all your support xxx

 

[Jembug]

Oh thats so annoying and frustrating.... I have 35 day cycles too and I ovulate on around day 20... And I did the deed on day 19(twice) and I didn't get my positive until late day 20/21.... And thats how I got pregnant this time. Hope that helps a little if your cycles are simular to mine?
Xxxx

 

[almosthere]

Bump!! ---hope all are doing well!!! Who is due next?!!!! =)

 

[almosthere]

is it jem, sonia, presh?! sorry if I missed anyone I swear I already have pregnancy brain omgsh! LOL

 

[sunshine82]

Thanks Jem! Yeah it's hard to juggle cycles and offshore patterns!
Me and oh had a lovely chat and he wants me to stress less which is understandable - ttc has sort of taken over a bit recently!
So we have decided to take the more relaxed approach and it happens when it happens and can't control ovulating when oh offshore so to just enjoy those months for what they are.
I feel fine I just feel positive for our next try whether it lines up for next cycle we yet to know!

I second what almost asked who is due next all quite close eh

We just been out to Toby for Sunday carvery feel stuffed now! Ate waayy too much lol! Relaxing with oh on sofa in front tv this avvy now!

Hope everyone's well xxx

 

[almosthere]

glad to hear you are going to take more of a relaxed approach-DH and I also got to the point where TTC took over our lives-way too early in the process too I would say, because of opks, and my emotions every time I saw a bfn!

 

[Soniamillie01]

It's hard for it not to take over sometimes but a relaxed approach may help.

I think I may be due next? Me and presh are quite close together I think and Jem is about 24 weeks so end jan / beg feb I guess. I have 9 weeks left although midwife measured me at 32 weeks so we shall see x

 

[Jembug]

Nearly Sonia, I think there is three weeks between me and Presh? So I'm 26 weeks yesterday... So the order was right

I washed the washing with a nappy today!
And just got in from a walk with the girls and Isla had dog pooh on her wellies and so it all managed to get on my leg
To top it off I'm working a night shift tonight, boo hoo! But I'm only doing tonight and Tomoz and then NVQ weds, so one night less.

Glad your feeling a bit better sunshine xx

 

[Soniamillie01]

Oh no Jem that doesn't sound nice, and top off with a night shift

It is all getting very close now and this 'you're going to be early' feeling is really growing in intensity! Scary!

DH is a little better than he had been as decided to quit his job. Yes it's not ideal but I couldn't see him continue there and be treating like he was. He is still signed off and is going to go in on Monday and hand his notice in, get his tools etc. he had an interview last week, just a driving job but they offered it to him on the spot so has just got to pass a driving assessment Tuesday and hopefully he'll then get it all confirmed.