WTT with a view to TTC in Sept/Oct/Nov - looking for a TTC buddy!

[Soniamillie01]

Not at the moment as the spotting was only the once and not after sex.

Ah bumma but still very early.

 

[Elz]

Happy St David's Day ladies! I’m finally back online after 3 long weeks without internet!! lol

Hope you're all doing well, I can't believe how fast time is going and that some of you are on your 12 or 20 week scans already!!

I’m on to cycle 7 Eventhough I had good vibes last cycle – tested 12DPO...BFN, tested 15DPO (and AF 1 day late)...BFN, then AF showed up a day later, 2 days late! Gutting! So lets hope this cycle is a bit more promising! I'm on CD5 now, and AF just finishing so all systems go! lol I think the time I will (hopefully) get pregnant will be the time I won't have any 'good feelings' or symptoms and it will be a total surprise.

Any more updates from anybody? X

 

[Soniamillie01]

Welcome back Elz! I hope this is your month (and mine, and almosthere's) x

 

[miss malteser]

That all sounds positive Sonia and good to know that if you haven´t got your BFP by June they´ll start to look more closely at why. Most people have to wait at least a year! FXd that you´ll be 3 months gone by then anyway!

 

[Soniamillie01]

Fx! Nothing new for me really, same discomfort and slight cramps, feeling tired and head cold ish but other than that nothing else. X

 

[almosthere]

another bfn for me at 10/11 dpo...boo

I feel totally normal, aside from being super tired and going to bed early every night this past week-but i also have cut off my night time tea which could be why I am falling right to sleep and sooner. not feeling pregnant and feeling very out today

 

[Soniamillie01]

Sorry to hear that you got another bfn almosthere.

I am now 8/9 dpo and caved and tested - also a bfn.
I've had tummy ache all day and back ache - kind of the feeling I used to get when of bcp before AF would arrive but haven't had it at all since coming off it, AF would literally just turn up. Hoping that's a positive sign but not holding out much hope I guess, although I know 8/9 dpo is too early to test. Still been having creamy cm and boobs are really tender and heavy. I'm due on Wednesday so guess I'll just see if she turns up - well will try to wait

 

[almosthere]

sonia, I am also due on Wed or Thursday...my cycles are so wacky I never really know, but based on an earlier ovulation...

just broke down crying as I just saw someones ultrasound photos on facebook...I hate myself for crying at someone else's joy, but I just wish it was me posting those photos...

 

[Soniamillie01]

Oh hon, I know how you feel. We're not out yet, I know you said you don't feel any different but AF hasn't arrived yet - it will be our turn very soon and when it is you'll have the best feelings being able to do that and tell everyone in your own special way.

I am on Facebook too so if you ever wanted to chat on there let me know.

I'm due on the same days as you, amazes me that our cycles still stay so close together. I hope we fall at the same time too. All my symptoms have got up and left today so just on count down now, still have a little hope but not much.

 

[almosthere]

are you waiting for af at this point or going to test again this week?

 

[Soniamillie01]

Well I am going to try and wait! She says! Easier said than done as we all know.

I am either 9 or 10 dpo today, 10 if I go by my positive opk and manual FF override or 9 if I go by when FF had me ovulating at. I changed it as on the day FF had me ovulating on I had no pains and all cm had gone.

So based on ovulating at cd13 (my positive opk) AF would be due Tuesday, if go with cd14 then AF would be due Friday - I definitely cannot wait that long!

I've had the same dull back ache and on off tummy aches today as yesterday which I used to get when on bcp literally the day before AF would arrive. I've kept thinking today that she was here as have a very wet feeling but nothing. These feelings are making me think that AF is due to arrive either later today or tomorrow which would put me at a 24 day cycle, 11 day LP.

IF she stays away I will try and hold out until atleast Wednesday when AF would be due if go by ovulating in cd13 for testing.

 

[almosthere]

I got my pos opk on cd13 this time around too! haha...but I am assuming I ovulated on CD14 so the day after my pos opk...

I am very busy today and wont be home until DH is from work unless he works late, so no testing for me today!

 

[mazndave]

Hiya,

Sonia and Almost, you're not out until the witch arrives, so keep on thinking positive!! And Sonia, I also had the very wet feeling with back and tummy ache before I got my bfp, and I carried on having it afterwards too. It really did feel like I was about to come on, and obviously I never! Symptom spotting is so difficult though, as they are just too similar either way. Why can't something obvious happen like our wee turns blue or something!!

I had my early scan today and it was ace! I was so nervous before having this, worrying about mmc or ectopics, but pumpkin was where it should be and measuring right on track. It's 2.3 cm at the minute, with a good strong heartbeat. Saw it's little arm and leg buds wriggling, it looked like a little gummy bear!

Where has Miss Broody disappeared too, I want to know if she's pink or blue?!! Don't leave us hanging MissB.....

xx

 

[Soniamillie01]

Ah glad to hear that everything looked ok and your little pumpkin is growing on track!

 

[almosthere]

WSS! So glad to hear your lil pumpkin is growing wonderfully! Hope Sonia and I are next to plant our pumpkin seed! And I also wish our wee turned pretty colors so we would know, or smell like roses or something obvious! lol

An Sonia, I feel like you are pregnant! Just a feeling, hoping I am right!!!

 

[Soniamillie01]

I hope you are right too, I did have this feeling that I could have been but that's now gone completely. Had a bit of blood in cm earlier so think AF could be on her way, that or very late implantation. If she is coming I wish she'd just show up now so the wait / torment is over. Will need to move my smear if she is on her way.

DH has finally given up smoking, he didn't smoke much and had given up previously for years but then started again but has now decided that's it, so has stoppe again. Is now about 2 weeks in. That will help with some healthier swimmers!

 

[almosthere]

eek, wonderful news about the smoking, this should help you to conceive!

 

[Soniamillie01]

Hopefully, he didn't really smoke a lot and never in the house / around me but should be a helping hand. I'm really going to concentrate on continuing to loss weight too, every little helps.

 

[miss malteser]

Great news about DH stopping smoking Sonia. It´s one of the first things they recommend when TTC. Maybe that´s what he meant when he said you were going to "really start trying"! I wouldn´t assume that the "feeling" that AF is on her way means that you´re out. I got periood pains every day from just before AF was due until about 8 weeks and still get them sometimes now.

Maz, good to hear about your scan. The relief when you see LO is indescribable isn´t it? I couldn´t wait to have my scan so I could see everything was fine and start to enjoy the pregnancy. That lasted for about 3 days and now I need that reassurance again! It´s going to be a long 8 weeks...

 

[BabyBumpHope]

Sonia and almost - good luck girls. I really hope it's your month. I honestly think you two are going to get your BFPs the same month. Your cycles reflect one another! And I agree - I had AF type cramps from getting BFP til last week too. It's really quite confusing when it's there cos you convince yourself that it's AF on her way.

Maz - yey for your pumpkin I wish I could have an early scan but can't really afford it at the moment I've got my dating scan on 28th but it seems like so far away! I just want some sort of sign that my lil pumpkin is ok and growing well. It's horrible not knowing. If I win the lotto I think I'll buy myself a portable scanner! Haha. Only joking!

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