WTT with a view to TTC in Sept/Oct/Nov - looking for a TTC buddy!

[Emz1982_in_uk]

Sounds promising miss sunshine, fingers crossed for you!

And for me, well spotting has continued so assuming its AF. I've had a really tough day today, one of my closest work colleagues left for maternity leave and the other, who I am closer with also left today as she has been made redundant. She had a great job to go onto but really hit me hard, lots of tears today

I really hoped that this would be my month, of course I hope that every month but guess it was the realisation that it would be another year before I had a baby of didn't fall this cycle,
I.e. 2013. Finding that quite tough x

sorry to hear you've had a pants day x

 

[almosthere]

I am out, bright red AF-and of course right after I got my BFN it came....so here is to cycle 8-hoping it is a lucky one and brings me a January 2013 bundle of Joy! FX for those of you still in the tww!!!

 

[Emz1982_in_uk]

almost. Lots of for your next cycle

 

[Soniamillie01]

Thanks Emz. I'm a little better today but not looking forward to the next few weeks at work, going to be tough.

Almosthere - I seriously am starting to think you and I were twins in a previous life! AF arrived, full flow for me this morning, so on to the next cycle! I'm not sure whether I'm going to temp / OPK this month as didn't really like not knowing where I was x

 

[Elz]

Sorry to hear you're both out Sonia and Almost! With me being 4 days late we're a lot closer in cycle days now! I'm on CD3 today so fingers crossed this is the cycle for us all!! x

 

[sunshine82]

Sorry to hear af arrived for you Sonia and Almost lots of babydust for next cycle. It will be a good month I can feel it. Hope you have a better day Sonia xx

 

[Soniamillie01]

Thanks all x

 

[almosthere]

ahh sonia I am so glad we have met on bnb, can't wait to fall together and share our stories! AF is very odd for me this cycle. Not really flowing out, but had the bright red yesterday evening and now no more bright read and just EXTREMELY light spotting, like brown-so not sure if it is going to really kick in for another few days, or if this is really cd2...just a waiting game. And I agree that it stinks not knowing where I am-I ended up wasting lots of preg tests because I thought I could start testing when I probably couldnt haha. So I may opk or try this out one more time with no temping or opks

 

[Soniamillie01]

Same for me! AF stop start x

 

[PreshFest]

Sonia and Almost, I'm so sorry. This has got to be so frustrating for you both! Really hoping this cycle is it for you two....

 

[almosthere]

Thakn you preshfest, it is frustrating that it is taking so long and that my doctor won't do further testing until September. However, I have seen a fertility specialist and just may give her a call if this 8th try is a miss which I really hope it is not. Pretty sure I am going to buy opks and make sure we don't miss our window! How are you feeling Presh? Is this your cycle?!

 

[PreshFest]

I feel fine! I've had a little bit of nausea which makes me think I'm def not prego. I'm only 7dpo so symptoms are not possible right now. With all my pregnancies I've had zero symptoms in the tww. I think my boobs might be a tiny bit sore but I can't tell if it's in my head or not. Af due Thursday, but I Od late so I think it will come late too. In any case I'll know next wknd for sure. But I'm still not obsessing over it so yay!

I say def do opks.. So then you know you timed it right

 

[almosthere]

Based on my LP and cycle days, and spotting, haha-i am positive we times it perfectly this last month-but it will be nice to know where I am at an to have an offical 100 percent correct tww countdown! I had a dream I was pregnant last night even thought I had spotting/af...which is weird because I dont really have a flow/af this time, its cd 3 and super light like dont need a tampon and hardly even need a pad-all brown...only bright red the first day when i wiped and that was just once....sooooo weird......i wonder if my dream is trying to tell me something! wishful thinking i am sure...haha

 

[sunshine82]

Hi

Almost you never know they say dreaming of pregnancy can be a sign! Im pretty sure i was reading in a book some women have spotting. Can you test again? Get a blood test at doctors? I'd go do doc just to check what it could be. Anyhow Gl!

As for me still pretty unsure of how many dpo I am I would guess around 8/9 and still feeling a bit off - the constant side pain has eased but could not sleep last night with really bad lower back pain. I feel sick and keep getting upset tummy type cramps along with little af cramps and intermittent bbs pain and shoots / tingles.

I really don't feel right but I'm going to put it down to bug as have had stuffy nose and sore throat in mornings- or it may be impending af as i can often get af symptoms early- just don't want get my hopes up for them to be crushed :-/

Hope all of ya lovelies have a great week x

 

[miss malteser]

Thanks for all your comments about last week. When I look at DHs friends who have lost their son, loosing my job unexpectedly seems pretty irrelevant in comparison. Even so, it´s going to be pretty difficult as I´ve not been out of a job since i was a student and I´m definitely not someone who enjoys being at home all day - not until the baby arrives anyway! Never mind, these things happen eh!

Elz, Sonia and Almost - so sorry to hear that you´re all out this month. Bring on those 2013 babies!!

Sunshine and Presh - FX that you´re going to give us some good news in the next couple of weeks!

x

 

[PreshFest]

I'm certain I'm out! Major pms today! Ughh!! I hate feeling like this. Going to be a loooong day.

 

[almosthere]

i am had major pms since stopping bcps preshfest-im such a moody biatch! lol.

anyhow, sunshine, i would test again, BUT right when I thought af would be over because of how light it was-it turned from light brown spotting to full blown af-worst i have ever had in my life-back ache, super painful cramps even my face showed the pain as a co worker asked if I was okay because apparently it looked like i was about to cry! ahh! I am hoping my period getting normal means baby soon! hasnt been this red and heavy since before birth control pills!

 

[PreshFest]

So I've had pretty much constant nausea the past 4 days. I tested this morning, though, and BFN. I'm only 9dpo, though... But I would think if there's enough hormone to make you nauseous, there will be enough hormone for a positive test. So, again, I still think I'm out. This has happened to me once before and I wasn't pregnant then, either. But it's driving me crazy! It's just a constant reminder that I'm in my 2ww and it's messing with my head!

I hope the rest of you are getting on well! Is there anyone in their 2ww or testing soon?

 

[Soniamillie01]

Sorry to hear your feeling nauseous presh I agree that if enough to make nauseous than should be enough for testing.

I'm now cd5 and AF is still here, normally done by now

 

[PreshFest]

This is so annoying. I went back and looked at my notes and in October I had nausea starting from 7dpo until after AF came. Wasn't pregnant. In November I had nausea starting at 6dpo and I was pregnant. Such tricky business!

I think I'm going to go ahead and test tomorrow at 10dpo. Might as well succumb to the 2WW/POAS madness, right?!?!?!