Young and lost

[PPnSDT]

I am about to be 25. I had a miscarriage 3 weeks ago and I just don't know how to deal with it, I didn't even know I was pregnant. My husband doesn't want to talk about it anymore but I still hurt emotionally. I am tired of my husband not being able to touch me (I am down to spotting, not even filling up a liner) I want him to understand how much it's destroying me to not being able to be so physical. It's okay for him, he just rubs one out or I play the nice wife and do it for him.....I just don't know how to talk to him about it. I want to scream and cry and throw things.

 

[jesswishing]

Sorry to hear about your miscarriage. If you're really craving intimacy and there's no medical reason why you have to abstain, I say go for it! The tiny amount of blood won't even be noticed, and you can always offer to have a shower together afterwards. Then maybe after you do the deed you might feel relaxed enough to talk to him about your feelings - he needs to be supportive!