Your ideal man?

[Pyrrhic]

I know a lot of us have had problems with FOBs recently So I thought it might cheer us up to describe our ideal man. Whatever you want, just imagine he could be real

(Non single ladies feel free to jump in too )

For me....

I'd love someone taller than me, so over 5'10. Dark hair, lovely eyes and broad shoulders and arms. Love a rugby player build! Someone educated and driven in life. Passionate about their pastimes. Someone who loves the outdoors and wants to get out and do something like hillwalking or rock climbing at weekends. Equally though, they would love lie-ins on a Sunday and brekkie in bed! Must, must love dogs and be able to put up with my animals. Someone who can challenge me intellectually, but is also caring and loving and wants to spend his life being happy with me. Not afraid to cook or clean, believes in romance and chivalry and saying sorry after an arguement. Being awesome in bed would be good too

ETA: Also someone who will put up with watching girly films with me, and will just do small acts of kindness. Like buy me some chocolate when I've had a bad day, or buy me flowers 'just because' or rings me to tell me random things he's been up to through his day. Someone impulsive who can keep up with me and likes the idea of turning up to an airport with just a passport and a debit card. Above all, someone with good values such as honesty, integrity and loyalty.

Your turn girls

 

[Kacie]

I know a lot of us have had problems with FOBs recently So I thought it might cheer us up to describe our ideal man. Whatever you want, just imagine he could be real

For me....

I'd love someone taller than me, so over 5'10. Dark hair, lovely eyes and broad shoulders and arms. Love a rugby player build! Someone educated and driven in life. Passionate about their pastimes. Someone who loves the outdoors and wants to get out and do something like hillwalking or rock climbing at weekends. Equally though, they would love lie-ins on a Sunday and brekkie in bed! Must, must love dogs and be able to put up with my animals. Someone who can challenge me intellectually, but is also caring and loving and wants to spend his life being happy with me. Not afraid to cook or clean, believes in romance and chivalry and saying sorry after an arguement. Being awesome in bed would be good too

Your turn girls

oooh I could go with all of these! But I will add the obvious.. he would have to absolutely dote on my daughter!

main things..
love my daughter
be taller than me
love dogs
tell me he loves me only when he means it (which, of course, would be all the time )
always kiss like it's the first time
have his own opinions
non smoker! (definite after ex being a stubbon smoker)
make me laugh every single day
oh and have really nice arms!


Thanks rafwife, this has really cheared me up
xxx

 

[daisy74]

Ok so if I wasnt with DH my ideal man would be
around 6 foor,dark hair
blue eyes
some muscles
nice abs
OMG if I keep going on I will need a fan
LOL

 

[AppleBlossom]

Tall (has to be 6 foot or over even though I'm only 5'2 hehe) dark hair and eyes. Has to be sturdy lol as in not skinny but not overweight. Must be intelligent and have a wicked sense of humour. Also be romantic and friendly and can get on with anyone. Adores Grace like she's his own. Would give up a night out with mates to sit in and slob out with me. Has ambition and drive and works hard. Can cook, clean and iron. Being opinionated is a must! Have to do that amazing thing where they brush your hair back and kiss you really gently on the head I could literally go on forever. I will meet him because he has to exist somewhere!

 

[sweetlullaby]

Ohhh I like this thread is cheering me up rightly!

Ok my ideal man......

Appearance - Is tall (6" ish) Dark hair with a slight kink/curl to it. Lovely brown eyes that crinkle when they laugh/smile. Has really strong arms. A gorgeous smile.

Personality - A wicked sense of Humour but also a quiet serious side. Not afraid to show they care or are upset or hurt. Can talk and talk for hours on end about films/pastimes/memories/music/ambitions in conversation with me. Has an eduction. A good job they enjoy. A sense of adventure. Looks after me when Im sick. Doesn't care if I look like crap!

Loves my LO like he is his own. Can drive and loves to go on wee country drives!

Ok im going to shut up now
It's weird though looking through what I've typed.... I've basically described someone I know and care about a lot but left out their bad parts

 

[Pyrrhic]

Have to do that amazing thing where they brush your hair back and kiss you really gently on the head

Ooooh I love that *swoons*

 

[AppleBlossom]

Ahhh *sigh* one day!

 

[Pyrrhic]

I am convinced that these men exist somewhere!! They must all be kept in a cave or something.

 

[bloodbinds]

Adam


*sigh*

 

[expecting09]

I've found my ideal man, well looks wise! Pity he only wants one thing

Tall, muscly, dark hair, romantic, spontaneous, love me for me even if I look like shit, random acts of kindness, honest, hardworking Never gonna happen! haha

 

[lou_w34]

Ummmm...

Tall, nice eyes, Kind, Loves LO like she is his own, take us both on shopping trips and holidays to really hot places and spoil us heehee

Oh one more thing, they would never lie to me!! (Unless of course they planned me a surprise party... they could lie for things like that lol)

If only eh???

xx

 

[surprisebaby]

i don't mind blonde or brown hair. i do like blue eyes. i like 5 foot 10 and above. my ideal man will have a career and be ambitious and not mind being a provider whilst i stay at home looking after the children... he will be funny, good looking (to me) intelligent, educated, caring, fun, have a nice voice, and be rich or potential to get money! he will take me out and treat my children as though they were his own. He would also be stylish and sophisticated! obviously be faithful and only have eyes for me and there will be chemistry too. not much to ask for then! xx

ooh i like this thread. i want this man!!

 

[TattiesMum]

LOL ... I can tell you are all young

My ideal man is childless, has no relatives, is 98, of sound mind, very, very, very rich and happy to make me the chief beneficiary in his will

 

[andbabymakes3]

Over 6 foot - even though I'm only 5'2! I looooove tall men.
Broad shoulders - rugby boys are my fave
Ideally dark haired, although will make an exception for Mr Perfect!
Intelligent
Witty
Opinionated
Strong willed
Passionate
Kind
Driven
Good in bed (shallow, I know, but it's important!) + good kisser
Financially secure
Spontaneous
Open
Honest
NOT jealous
Someone who can be my best friend, as well as everything else
Good cook
Nice hands and feet

Cor, don't want much do I?!

 

[Kacie]

LOL ... I can tell you are all young

My ideal man is childless, has no relatives, is 98, of sound mind, very, very, very rich and happy to make me the chief beneficiary in his will

lol

 

[Aidedhoney]

OOOOOOOOOOOO lol

Brill thread.............lol

 

[LittleMadam]

LOL ... I can tell you are all young

My ideal man is childless, has no relatives, is 98, of sound mind, very, very, very rich and happy to make me the chief beneficiary in his will

Can't help but agree with Tattie. Great thread!

xxx

 

[Surreal]

Right now, with all I've gone through... my ideal man has been defined *perfectly* by Christopher Titus: Looking for loving, caring man... who can take a bullet!

The past year, and my previous marriage... has made me sour to the opposite sex. Not necessarily to men in general since I have male friends. just relationships...

And, for life's little ironies -- I'm having a baby boy!

 

[Panda_Ally]

My ideal man, Looks dont matter. must have nice eyes tho. I woiuld like someone ambitious, full of passion for life and lots of get up and go. A good listener and likes to talk and share stories. good with kids, a single dad would be good. Someone who would let me have my freedom but b there for me when i need them. educated able to have a decent convo with mea and also they must LOVe food, cooking, eating out etc cos thats my fave thing to do!! hes out there somewhere

 

[hopeandpray]

Most importantly he would be honest, love children, be ambitious, strong, brave, capable of being selfless. somebody with a strong sense of who he is and what he believes.
and if i get to be super fussy . . over 6 foot, not overweight, nice eyes and no ass chin my ex had an ass chin and i think it was a warning that he was an ass