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Your Last Name - How did you tell FOB?
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his reaction....well he was horrified....it was everything I could have hoped for and more! 
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I was straight with him from the start.
When we were together there was talk of LO getting his surname but after what he did to me and after we broke up, there was no question.
He was SO angry about it. He would send me abuse about it right up until the day she was born.
Still didn't change my mind.
LO hasn't seen him for 9months now and it was her birthday recently. He's obviously still in denial as it was only her first name written on the envelopes from his family
When we were together there was talk of LO getting his surname but after what he did to me and after we broke up, there was no question.
He was SO angry about it. He would send me abuse about it right up until the day she was born.
Still didn't change my mind.
LO hasn't seen him for 9months now and it was her birthday recently. He's obviously still in denial as it was only her first name written on the envelopes from his family
thursday
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I haven't told him but I think he knows.. At least I hope he does. If he thinks that the baby will have his last name, he's nuts! LOL. I'm not planning on telling him, I'm just going to do it. It's not like he's going to be here for the birth or anything, he lives across the country and has already told me he's not going to come out for the birth but he will "try to call" after the baby is born. He doesn't even know the gender.
Bethanymh
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my god tracey, what a nutter!! think in this case its a bloody good thing he is staying out your little boy's life if thats his attitude
my ex didnt bother turning up at the registrar so he had no input. im glad because my surname is much nicer
plus i called DD Tabitha, which is what i wanted to call our 1st DD and he wouldnt let me because he hated it....well got my way this time, hope he is pissed off
My baby girl is going to be called Tabitha (mr FOB will hate it as well) and she will have my surname
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Ersurgeongirl
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After he cheated and left me, yeah... Baby is going to have my last name. He knows this. I made it very clear to him that he's not a man and barely a father and doesn't deserve to have a son named after him
I told mine through a text message (that is the only way we communicate). He texted sometime after my gender scan (boy) and asked if the name we had chosen while we were still together was the name I was sticking with. I told him the first and middle name (FOB's middle name!) would be the same but he would have my last name. Needless to say, he was pissed off, but I know if the baby was a girl he wouldn't give a rats ass, and I didn't base my decision out of spite. I think it is in the best interest of my DD8 and my son.
Funny my FOB was the same but wouldnt give a rat's ass if it was a boy, however it was a girl but we ended up breaking contact all together anyway.. Weird how things work out sometimes
We had discussed whilst i was pregnant and agreed LO would have his last name, then when he decided to disappear on me and totally ignore my calls and texts i decided she would have my last name. He came along to the birth registration (after getting back in touch around my due date) and i hadnt told him she was having my last name, then when i said it, he just stared in anger at me. Revenge is sweet 
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I had a conversation with FOB, his other two daughters don't have his last name. and we were together and happy and TTC and I said "It'll be your first kid with your last name!" ... then shit hit the fan. She is now taking my last name. Neener neener neener.
RaRalalala
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I didn't tell him but difference is he's really more interested in drinking than he is his daughter
BrokenfoREVer
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I jsut told him in the middle of an argument that I was giving LO my surname & that was that. Ofc he kicked of big style but I just reminded him that he had zero legal power to stop me (in the uk, the mother has the final say) & that if he didn't like it, he didn't have to come register him with me.
He was more bothered about getting his name on LO's BC than anything else.
Biggest mistake evah!
He was more bothered about getting his name on LO's BC than anything else.
Biggest mistake evah!
RaRalalala
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I jsut told him in the middle of an argument that I was giving LO my surname & that was that. Ofc he kicked of big style but I just reminded him that he had zero legal power to stop me (in the uk, the mother has the final say) & that if he didn't like it, he didn't have to come register him with me.
He was more bothered about getting his name on LO's BC than anything else.
Biggest mistake evah!
That's why I didn't even tell FOB when I was registering LO, he wasn't getting on it because I know exactly how much of a twat he is
