Your Life Without Bnb

[AyaChan]

How would your life be if you had never come across bnb?

I don't think I would have coped so well with everything if it hadnt been for your girlies.

I might also have a life outside the computer, but I doubt it

 

[LovingYou]

Life? I would have one without bnb!

I'm on here 24/7 and I feel like I have more friends on here than I've ever had.

I love every single one of you girls!

 

[divershona]

life without bnb ... hmmmmmmm i duno tbh, id probably have found another site where i would be sat 24/7 stalking peoples threads and stuff lol but who knows?

 

[aob1013]

BnB has actually been the biggest support throughout my pregnancy, better than my OH and my family, although they do come close xx

 

[Eabha'sMum]

^^ same... i think even better than talking to mw and stuff, cos on here, the annonimity of sitting behind a computer you can aask even the silliest, personal, stupidist, question EVER! lol... it is an unreal support xx

 

[rainbows_x]

I probably would have freaked out over normal pregnancy symptoms alot more, and ended up at the hospital alot too!

It is a great relief to know people have been through the same things as you and come out okay from it, so reassuring!
x

 

[Jadelm]

I'd feel super lonely. And I really don't know if I'd have been strong enough to leave FOB and it would be a complete DISASTER if I was still with him. And it helped to talk about my Dad's illness on here cos at the time he was at his worst I was newly pregnant as well and my Mum was with him caring for him in his room 24/7, FOB was away almost all the time and I had already left uni so it was just me and my cat in my room all day and all night cos I didn't feel like going out and socialising.. so I probably wouldn't have coped at all and had some kind of mental breakdown if it wasn't for all the girlies on here!

Seriously I know we all talk shit most of the time but you've all helped me more than you could know *tearing up a bit* love you girls!! xxx

 

[divershona]

awwwwwwwww jade, you had me tearing up at that even though i know at the time when things were happening with your dad that i wasn't even a member on here it just kinda made me weep a little to know that the girls on here are so amazing that they helped you through that time in your life

i have no idea why but im suddenly crying my eyes out

 

[Eabha'sMum]

i'll join the - love you to jade!
your just AMAZING!!

between this, and 'the truth thread' i am in tears xx

 

[samface182]

life without bnb?!
i don't even want to think about it!

 

[Jadelm]

awwwwwwwww jade, you had me tearing up at that even though i know at the time when things were happening with your dad that i wasn't even a member on here it just kinda made me weep a little to know that the girls on here are so amazing that they helped you through that time in your life

i have no idea why but im suddenly crying my eyes out

Aaaawh it doesn't even matter that you weren't on then, everyday I come on here it's a release from everything so you all do your bit xxx

 

[divershona]

hehe thanks glad to know we can help even if we are just moaning or ranting lol

 

[AriannasMama]

I don't think this pregnancy would be as easy as it is for me. I mean I have distant friends that have had kids, but no one I can talk to as easy as I can on here and not really worry about what anyone would think.

I sorta think its easier to talk to "strangers" about certain things because you dont really worry what they will think. If they think badly of you its not a big deal because they are strangers and their opinion shouldn't matter anyways, but if they give you good advice and can talk to you nicely you can become friends with them.... if that made any sense at all, lol.

 

[AriannasMama]

i'll join the - love you to jade!
your just AMAZING!!

between this, and 'the truth thread' i am in tears xx

I agree, you have gone through more than I could ever imagine going through, and you handle it so well, I would be a total wreck, but you have a good way of seeing the positive in everything.

 

[Jadelm]

I don't think this pregnancy would be as easy as it is for me. I mean I have distant friends that have had kids, but no one I can talk to as easy as I can on here and not really worry about what anyone would think.

I sorta think its easier to talk to "strangers" about certain things because you dont really worry what they will think. If they think badly of you its not a big deal because they are strangers and their opinion shouldn't matter anyways, but if they give you good advice and can talk to you nicely you can become friends with them.... if that made any sense at all, lol.

I totally get what you mean and that's how I felt at first but now it's like I care more about what you guys think than my real friends But in a nicer way cos everything on here is based purely on honesty and embarassing things and rants and stuff so there's no area you can't go into, whereas half the stuff I post on here without batting an eyelid I would NEVER dream of saying to my real life friends! x

 

[samface182]

i wouldn't have a clue about pregnancy, i would be even lonelier than i actually am. i would never laugh and my days would drag in! xx

 

[AyaChan]

me and FOB might actually get along (he doesnt like someone off here you see, so we argued over it alot, and he always insulted bnb calling it pointless, and crap and sad) I went mad lol

 

[Eabha'sMum]

awh xx

 

[Justagirlxx]

my life without BnB... what life!!??

 

[xprincessx]

i would probably be living in a hovell somewhere rocking back and forth due to google being my only source of information and we all know google is evil haha

and i wouldnt have got to know so many lovely people on here x