LadySlipper
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I honestly don't know how you ladies can even think of sex! Lol! Oh course, I've not been very active in the sex department for years. I just can't get into it. I feel I'm the only one. And anything we do is usually out of pity cause I know its not fair to my husband. I think I will wait as long as possible. I just haven't enjoyed sex in years.
Don't feel bad you are not alone in this. Though I will say that sex got more enjoyable after having DS. Before it always seemed to hurt. I think either I was too tense or too tight.
But even still we waited a long time after having him as my sex drive was very low. It was the last thing on my mind (poor DH). Well he didn't want any milk leakage to ruin the mood (grossed him out). Which definitely would have happened while breastfeeding. I would think of trying but lose interest before going through with it. Darn hormones. This time I don't know how long we will wait. Probably a few months at least and also will be planning long term birth control this time too. It has been on my mind more this time around. But the milk issue will still stop it I know. Besides I might be more meh again when it comes to trying. My mind becomes absorbed with baby thoughts and this time added will be toddler thoughts.