Your Story - Telling Your Parents.

[tasha41]

Hi girls thought this might help people who are thinking "how am I going to tell my parents?" / "how are my parents going to react to this?" upon finding out they're pregnant. Just post your story, long or short as you'd like, with as much or as little detail as you want and we'll leave it up here for anyone who needs it

I'll go first!

I got pregnant when I was 18, I was only dating my boyfriend for 6 months at the time, but we had been sleeping together for more than a year. I was on birth control and found out I was pregnant at 6 weeks. I guess deep down I 'knew' I was pregnant weeks before that. I didn't want to believe it, so I didn't consciously admit to it or believe it.

I took a pregnancy test on the Thursday night at my friend's house & then made an appointment at a women's clinic for the following Tuesday to find out how far along I was, and to book an appointment for the "A word" in case I decided that's what I was going to do.. needless to say I never went to it!

Told my boyfriend on Tuesday, I wanted to be absolutely sure before I told him, and I was in shock about it all, etc. We decided to keep the baby and he reassured me things would be alright and we could afford to move out if it came down to it to an apartment, but he knew his parents would be alright eventually.

Well, we were both scared silly about talking to our parents.. but we did it, at 10 weeks we told them. It took me days to tell my mom, I had to tell her because I was starting the school year and needed to know if I should get a refund on my tuition or not. I was home alone with her, and she reads all the time before bed. I was so scared, I called her from my cell phone (I was downstairs in the living room) and told her I needed to talk to her, so that I would be committed to speaking to her about it that night and couldn't chicken out again.

Went upstairs, told her that I was pregnant.. broke down crying and everything. I expected her to cry but nothing- she just hugged me and we talked about what my plans were, etc. My dad was away for the week and returning the next day, I worked 4-10 that night and she told him sometime while I was at work, because I came home to my dad wanting to talk to me.

His face was all red, not sure if he was THAT angry or if he was crying, he didn't yell at me or anything, but did talk about the "A word", told me he though that I should do it but made a point of telling me my mother didn't think I should go for it.. basically expressed his fears that I'd be unhappy and not get to do all the things in life I deserved to do (travelling, school, friends, etc). Told me I didn't even know myself yet, etc.

They did NOT kick me out, yell at me, or anything like that. My dad even told me "You're my daughter and I still love you. Even if I don't agree with you 100% I will support your choice." He insisted I still go to school like normal, for at least first semester. And that I still work too. We had some hard discussions, my dad definitely made me cry several times.. and he did pressure me to get an abortion for a couple weeks but he backed off eventually. It was really hard to hear him telling me to get an abortion, to abort his grandchild, but he has come around more than I expected him to I guess.

My dad still makes me cry sometimes, we have those "hard discussions" sometimes still, but my mom is my best friend without a doubt and has done SO MUCH to help me get ready for the baby. I still live with my parents, and my boyfriend lives with his. Both grandmas-to-be are really excited now, and our extended families have been extremely supportive & giving - lots of help with baby items being purchased for us, lots of people signing up to babysit if we ever need it, etc.

AND, while my dad is a total jerk most of the time.. I can see that he does care, he's given me & my boyfriend a car, he's putting up a fence in the backyard, he's fixed up a lot of things around the house, etc. wants to give us the money for a down payment on a house (only if we get married.. which we will someday, just not sure when someday will be!)

 

[nikky0907]

Good idea Tasha.


Well my story is pretty simple.
I moved away from my parents to another town (in another federal state) in my own place in September 2007 when I was 18 and started university.
In December I had a very short term relationship, more of a fling with another guy from uni and we ended things in January.

I started to feel symptoms in February and AF didn't show up (even though I was on the pill this entire time). So So finally I went to the pharmacy and bought like 6 different brands which all turned out positive.
I made an appointment with my doctor to confirm it and she did and she also gave me a list of abortion clinics nearby ( I live in a small town).

I was 7 weeks when I found out and I took another week to myself to decide what I was going to do. I actually got into a minor car accident and thats how I decided that I was going to keep IT (which is now my beautiful bunny Lola ).

I didn't want to sugarcoat anything, I went straight ahead with honesty and the first person in my family I told was my sister who was incredibly supportive and I will never forget her reaction.
My friends were also very supportive of me and they are truly the best people ever. My best friend actually pushed so much for abortion but later on she was great and even was the one who drove me to the hospital to give birth.

Before I reached 9 weeks I told everyone.
Nathan (Lola's dad) was so shocked he didn't even register it until later , I gave him some time and even though we are not together he has truly been there and we have a good friendship, he is a very good dad ( he has her one afternoon a week and one Saturday night a month).


The ugly part of the story now comes:
I drove down to my parents' because I didn't want to tell them on the phone. I just sat down and blurted it all out.
They freaked out completely, telling me that either I give the baby up for adoption or marry this guy. I refused either one and there was some major yelling and fighting so I left.

We saw each other twice during the course of the next 9 months.
I didn't tell them Lola was born because I didn't need the stress, my sister told them when she was a month old and they called me and decided to visit.
I can now truly testify that even the hardest of parents come around because they were completely enamourated with their grandaughter.

 

[Jkelmum]

I was in spain when i first realised i may be pregnant not from normal symptons like missed period as i had those still ...BUT from watching my belly move which at 14 was pretty freaky !
We got back from spain on the thursday i went to the local family planning clinic where a nice pregnant nurse asked for my sample she put some of it onto a test and said if theres 2 lines its postive .....she left the room. the two lines appeared almost instantly and i started sobbin she came back in and asked when my last period was and i said i havent had sex since feb and we was now in sept she got a doc to examine me who said he thought i was around 28 wks....I walked out of there not knowin where to turn....The way i told my parents was not the best....
I didnt say anything all that week then we went back to school and i told my head of yr who told my headteacher who told my social worker who collected me from school and took me and she told my foster mum i gave birth 6 wks later
From then it was a lot easier i would urge anybody to tell there parents as soon as they find out xxx

 

[AppleBlossom]

Well I intended to tell mine but a letter for a hospital appointment got delivered to their address instead of my uni address. The hospital always prints it's logo on the envelope so my mum got worried and rang me to ask what was wrong. She eventually figured out I was pregnant and I had to go to theirs to tell my dad. My mum was hysterical and couldn't stop crying. My dad was disappointed but didn't kill me like I thought! They got over it after a while

 

[Kimboowee]

Well, i'd been with my bf for about 9 months, i was at work feeling like utter crap, getting in at 6pm and just going straight to bed. I'd had gastrionitus in June and kept getting bouts of it so just presumed i was getting sick again.

I got made redundant on the 5th september from the estate agents i was working at. My sister came to stay with me and my bf that weekend, his parents moved to France in August, and were storing stuff at our house when i came across a medical encylopedia, me and my sister had lots of fun finding out about all these weird illnesses and everything...

Then it got to the tuesday after and i'd had really really bad wind for 10 or so days. It was terrible lol! I told my sister down the phone and she said to look it up in the medical book thingy as a joke, i never knew it could be a sign of very early pregnancy. I laughed and thought well my period isnt due til the next day. Counted back and infact i was 2 days late.

I went and bought a supermarket own brand test, which came up weird, you could kind of see the second line before i even took the damn thing and it didnt get any darker! I threw it in the bin...That night when i picked my bf up from work i decided to go get s digi which came up pregnant in a matter of seconds. Scary stuff!!!

I rang my sister who was in London with my mum and she told her for me...And she was suprisingly ok with it. She never bought up the 'A' word or anything, that was my dad!

my bf waited til i was 14 weeks gone to text his parents in France, who said it took them a day or two to get their heads round it, his dad went heavily on the gin that night lol.

Overall it was ok, we still get the 'omg you're ruining your lives' but from people we thought were friends. If my friends dont wanna meet up with me just cos i've got a bump or cant drink, then i guess they werent friends to begin with but your family will always be there for you no matter what and they might even suprise you =]

 

[charveyron]

I told my mum the same day that I got my (I was 18 ) she didn't say much but told me not to say anything to my dad and she would find a way to tell him!

A week or so later I started bleeding so left for work as normal but went to OH's house and we went to the hospital where they scanned me and told me we were having twins.

At the end of the day I went home and told my mum that there were two babies and she got quite excited and said that she's have to tell my dad - so I went and hid in my bedroom

Anyway he called upstairs to me to come down and I said "no because your going to start shouting and it's not going to change anything and I can't be dealing with you shouting" he said "I'm not going to shout- come down"

So I went down and he was just very quiet - he had a fag and a cuppa tea (my dads fix for everything!) and then started saying that he's buy the cots and the pram and we could have the two upstairs bedrooms for me Oh and the babies etc - he was ok really I think it was more the idea of how the babies got there that he didn't like!

My poor old dad died suddenly when my twins were 10 months old and would have given anything to tell him about my DS and the baby we are now expecting!

 

[xarlenex]

I began to suspect I was pregnant when I was on holiday and anything alcoholic I put to my lips I just didnt like the taste of. I tried buying bottled stuff thinking it was just their spirits, then I realised that the 'period' I'd had the month previous was very light and only lasted 2 days. I came home from my holiday and decided to wait until after the day my next period was due, which came and went, so my boyfriend went and bought clear blue digi tests. I done one that night, the next in the morning, both positive. We decided that morning that I would wait until that night to tell my mum, once my oh came in from work, we wanted to do it together.

That just didn't happen. I was in the living room babysitting my little cousin when my mum walked in and sat down, my little cousin hugged me and I just burst into tears. Right away my mum just said "You're not, are you?" I told her that i'd taken a test. She started to cry and said we wouldnt tell anyone else until we seen the doctor. The next day she had me an appointment, she cried in there with me too. By the following day she was suggesting names! Such a drastic change, and never once mentioned chucking me out, which I fully suspected, and also never once mentioned Abortion. She accepted it far quicker than I did.

My father was another story all together. My parents arent together anymore and he lives quite a bit away, but his mum and brothers and sisters stay around here, I knew they'd find out so I had to fone him and tell him. He asked me if I was joking. Then, the first time I seen him I was meant to be babysitting my brother and sisters and conviently him and my stepmum decided not to go out last minute. Instead decided to stay in and force the idea of abortion on me. My dad doing his stupid motiviational exercises on me that he uses on his collegues to show they can acheive more when they dream. I was in tears and they continued to terrorise me It was horrible.

My dad continued to act like this. Even when I had Parvo Virus, and passed it onto Kyle, even when the doctors told me my baby was more than likely going to die my dad would say "But physically, your ok? I mean, thats all that matters to me" Up until Kyle was around 3 months, he barely spoke to him. Now he's great with him, but still thinks i'm not going to be able to live the life I wanted. Do the things I wanna do. Oh how I know i'm going to prove him wrong!!

 

[xx~Lor~xx]

Okay.. so here goes.

I took a pregnancy test a little while after I had missed a period, my partner was the first to know, he was in the house at the time. We were due to go food shopping with his mum and sister later that evening, and ended up telling them whilst we were in the car. They were pretty okay about it all, excited and disbelief really, and advised us to book a doctors appointment as soon as possible. After telling his mum, I knew it was a bad idea to try and put off telling my mum. I was terrified, I knew my mum was going to take it quite badly, but she would take it even worse if she found out that my partners mum was aware well before her.

The following day I phoned her and asked when she would be home from work, and could I go round as I needed to tell her something. My partner refused to go with me as he was scared of how she would react, which didn't make me feel too good having to face her reaction alone, but I realised in the end it was better, or she may have killed him lol..

So I went round and made her a cup of tea and heated some soup for her, waited for her to come home. I was dead scared of her reaction, but knew the longer I dragged it on, the harder it would be to tell her. I pretty much came straight out with it, telling her that me and my partner were going to keep our baby and were happy about it. As I expected, she was pretty dissappointed, and got upset, immediately saying that we were stupid and I needed to get an abortion. It was getting into an upsetting point for me, and so I stood up and told her that me and daniel had made our decision, we didnt want an abortion, and told her I was going to leave (her house) as I couldn't keep listening to her telling me to abort. She asked me how else I expected her to react, and I told her that my partner's mum was excited for us, and then I left.

I went home and had a big cuddle with my partner. I knew it was going to be difficult. I didn't contact my mum the rest of that day, then that evening she phoned asking if she could come round. She came and asked me when we had told my partner's mum. And said that she had been in shock before and was sorry, and that she would support me. She also asked if I wanted her to tell my dad, which I did.

I didn't contact my parents home for a few days after that, then eventually I went round and by this time if my dad had been angry, he had got over the shock and accepted it, as had my mum.

As hard as it was to tell my mum, I'm glad I did it quickly. The longer I had left it, the harder it would have been to tell them. We told both our extended families a month later. Now everyone is very excited about the little one on the way

xoxox

 

[JayleighAnn]

Well me and my OH where trying for LO and my mum knew, but his parents didn't.

I was at my mums when I tested, as I was too scared to do it at my house on my own lol

My mum was a bit mad at first, said she wished we'd waited and had more of a life, but after about a week, she was fine.

Oh chickened out of telling his parents as his parents still baby him like hes 5months old.

They where on holiday in Spain when he rang them and told them they where going to be grandparents. His mum said "Well I'm not sure what your dad will say" and his dad shouted "he's not got her up the f**king duff has he?" they then rang back about 10mins later to say they where ok with it

When they got back from Spain, his mum came to our house, suggested I have an abortion, told us we where stupid for trying and we'd ruined out lives. Was very angry when I said we wouldnt be a aborting a baby we had tried for and left.

Then when I was 9 weeks pregnant, OH got made redudant, and since he's not been able to find any more work, we've had to move in with OH parents as we couldn't afford our flat anymore and they've been fine with it, his mum doesn't stop telling me what I to do, and keeps trying to tell me my descisions are wrong, but other than that it's all fine

 

[Serene123]

Condom split, morning after pill failed, (not all that uncommon my midwife says,) two weeks later I was sat peeing on a stick. As soon as I looked at it, it was positive. Although, in my heart of hearts, I knew I was. Anyway, I was staying at a friends and couldn't get home, so I text my mum that morning saying I needed her to call me when she was free and that I needed to tell her something. She called. I froze. I made her promise not to get mad and that she would love me no matter what. (By the point she thought I had murdered someone ) She said she will always love me but she can't promise not to get mad.. Anyway, I told her.. She didn't believe me. I told her to ask my sister as she knew. I called her back couple of minutes later, she cried. She cried constantly for 2 days. It was horrible. She was so disappointed. She got over it so quickly and I was so glad I told her straight away. She's my mum, she has to love me no matter what. She now dotes of my daughter and wouldn't have it any other way!

My dad on the other hand...

Dad: "Are you happy?"
Me: "Yes."
Dad: "Good."

 

[loopy lucy]

When i fell pregnant with Ellie, i told my mate i hadnt had a period for 2 months and my mate brought me a test, i did it, it came back postive. went to the doctors for a scan then went home, my best mate came for support, i told my mom and dad to sit down and just told them they were gona be grandparents, they flipped, i left then after 3 weeks they rang me and said they wanted me home and would support me, my mom was my birthing partner for Ellie.

with this bundle of joy thats being expected, i just rang them and said im expecting again. they were better this time due to me having own place and settled with the love of my life. plus they have already gone through it haha., Ellie is my moms princess as well as mine, she even brought her pink skinny jeans the other day haha, she looks gorg in them hehe,

xx

 

[aidensxmomma]

This could get long as I have to different stories to tell. lol.

With Aiden, my boyfriend and I had only been back together for a couple weeks when I actually got pregnant. I knew for about a month that I was pregnant, but I wouldn't admit it. I had told my boyfriend and he knew about the whole situation but we were both in denial.I went to the doctor to go on birth control in early August. All the tests and everything they did came up clear, so I was sure that I wasn't pregnant, although I still had my doubts. And then I waited, and waited, and waited for my period to come. I was so stressed out because of all of it that I had become very depressed and suicidal (I already was diagnosed with clinical depression and bi-polar disorder). My mom and I got into a major fight and I locked myself in the bathroom and threatened to take a bottle of tylenol. I didn't take any, but my mom flipped out and called 911. So then the ambulances and police showed up at my house and took me to a hospital that was over an hour away.

After extensive questioning, they came across the question "are you pregnant?" My very well-thought out answer was "I don't know." So they had me take a pregnancy test. So I heard the police and the doctors talking in the hallway, and the test had come out positive. So I found out from the police and doctors and then a social worker came in to talk to me and all I did was cry. I had expected this to happen, but I just couldn't wrap my mind around it.

The police then called my mom. They told her I was pregnant and made arrangements for her to come get me. I don't remember a whole lot of the rest of that night, but I know my mom was really upset for a few days afterwards.

I told my brother and friend the night I got home and I told my boyfriend the next day. My boyfriend told his mom when she picked him up from my house and she was going to tell his dad, but word got around quicker than we expected and he found out some other way. His parents didn't really have much to say. I'm sure they were disappointed tho. I actually text my dad and told him that way. My dad lives 150 miles away from me and he drives truck for a living, so that was the best way to get ahold of him, with the exception of actually calling him. My dad was also disappointed, but it didn't end in yelling and screaming and whatever.

I'm close with my grandma and when she found out, she went mad. She screamed and yelled and told me to get an abortion and all that good stuff. She, just like everyone else, came around. And they all did it relatively quickly. My mom and grandma planned my baby shower, my grandma took me to a lot of my doctor's appointments, my mom stayed was one of my birthing coaches when Aiden was born (my boyfriend was the other), and my boyfriends parents and older sister even followed us up to the hospital and stayed there for 9 hours until Aiden was born. Everyone takes turns watching Aiden. Even my grandma, who watches him the most out of everyone. My dad takes Aiden for the weekend once in a while, too. So it's all worked out well.

As for this baby. I told everyone before I was six weeks along. Not everyone has come around so well, but there's nothing they can do about it. I've heard a lot of "you're ruining your life" blah blah blah. I understand things will be harder, but not impossible. And with this one I just flat out told my mom and my grandma. Wrote my boyfriend's mom a note, she told his dad. And once again, I text my dad. But he already knew it was coming when I told him "Dad, I have to tell you something." My dad's handling it the best this time around, but hopefully everyone will come around soon.

But to anyone who is having problems telling their parents, it's better to tell them sooner rather than later, and don't take their first reactions to heart.

 

[Kris0309]

Well It was the summer of 2008.I was 19 and recenetly had my boyfriend brake up with me. And I havent got my period in like 4 weeks. Or so not certain cant remember last exact date of it. But I had a strange feeling So I went to the store and bought a test. It came back faintly positive. I figured I must of did sumthign wrong so bought 4 more test after that . All So I text my ex boyfriend and told him I may be but wasnt sure. I was in huge denial. So He was hoping I wasnt. Well I went to planned parenthood and took a test there and guess what another . So I didnt know what to do so that week I start spotting. Thinkinf I was miscarrying i didnt say anything. Then one day i bled heavy twice. Thinking it was all over i went to a drs appt where they did an ultrasound to find a tiny little baby measuring abotu 6 weeks with a beating heartbeat. I continues to hide it for the nest 2 months. until my mom was gettign suspiciou sand one day a letter from the drs i was seeing came in the mail and she opened it and it said congrats on you pregnancy. So my sister asked if it was true and after crying i jus nodded and went home to tell my mom. At that point i was living in a dorm at the university i was attending. I just went inside dropped the grocerys i was holding and cried when she asked me what was wrong she sat me done and asked me if it was true i just nodded and starred down the entire time. She said she would support me in whatever I choose. My grandfather still hasnt taken it to well. But I htink when hes born he will come around But everyoen else is excited. The fob family figured it out and told everyoen except the mom. So we told her when I was abotu 5 months pregnant.

 

[Minimummy]

Guess its my turn

I was 15 when I got pregnant, to a guy that I was only with to wind my mother up. (We didn't have a very good relationship then and we don't now!)
I did a test at the family planning clinic and then smoked myself into oblivion outside afterwards. I couldn't believe it. Of all the guys to get pregnant to, it had to be someone I couldn't stand, Id been with him for like a year and my mum hated him, id come home with love bites on my neck to wind her up! So this really was the worst case scenario.

I ended up leaving home, running away and stomping off in a strop many many times as thought I knew better. I split up with him 6 months after she was born, couldn't live the lie anymore, but we are both fine and now I'm 22 with 3 children! I love them all to death and wouldn't change them for the world, third time lucky Im now with my gorgeous fiance, who I have loved since the day I met him 5 years ago, if only we'd realised sooner eh?

 

[poko28]

I had to come off the pill because I was having a bad reaction to it, I would randomly go blind for up to 15 minutes and then pass out. Then my legs started to get sore so at teh risk of thrombrosis i had to be taken off it straight away. Anyway, very soon after that I was nauseous, and I thought since I hadnt been very well maybe its just taking time to pass, 3 weeks later I took a test. The result was very faded but it was still positive. We went sure though so I took another 2 the next week, both were positive.

We have so far told his family. His Gran said she knew it was going to happen all along, she just said that she wouldnt like to be in my shoes and that was it. His mum was also a young mum and so when we told her all that happened was her jaw dropped to the floor and then she said 'but am too young to be a Gran, Wait until i tell Jan at work about this!!' I had never met his Papa before, which I don't know how was possible because we have been dating for over a year, but anyway, I met him last night. It was kinda 'Hi I'm pregnant with your Grandson's baby' kinda thing! :laugh: Not a good way to make an impression but all he said was 'oh Dear'

They were all better reactions that I expected. I still have to tell my parents though. We're going to do it together on Saturday and I'm SOOO nervous. I don't know whether to tell my mum and dad seperate or together but they are getting told on Saturday for definate. This isnt something that will just go away! Hahah

 

[emma88]

Well me and my OH were slightly trying, we talked and decided that i stop taking the pill but we hadnt actually decided a particular time!!! anyway got pregnant, i first did a test just kind of messing around, then when i saw two lines i was like shit shit lol. told my OH and we decided to keep it between ourselves till after the first scan, as he and his previous gf had teo miscarriages. we didnt want to hurt other people if there was no need to!!! Anyway when it came round to telling my parents my mum was easy because i knew that she was going to be really happy, she started talking about buying things and getting herself all excited.
But telling my dad, that was sooo scary. when i went round to his to pick up my mail my step mum was like havnt you got something to tell us(apparently they guessed from a hospital letter) but ye my dad didnt shout, more just sat there and didnt say much, they asking me loads of questions about what i was going to do. i think he was kinda dissapointed. but overall wasnt to bad of an ordeal and now they are fine and would do anything for me guess im kinda lucky

 

[jen1604]

Well I had a miscarriage the month before I conceived Ophelia so I thought no way in hell could I be pregnant.Then I started being sick and my period didnt show up so I did a test when I was at home on my own.
The first people I told were my neighbours who lived upstairs (we lived in a flat) as they were like my best friends.When one of them opened the door he looked at the test and said 'Oh god,Jen's knocked up again'
We waited until after the 12 week scan to tell anyone else just to make sure everything was ok.I sent my mum a card with a little baby bootie on the front and the scan picture inside and wrote 'Congratulations youre going to be a grandma on 29th June 08.' She didnt even ring me and started ignoring my calls.Plus she said my sisters who are 16 werent allowed to talk to me.She didnt talk to me again until I was about 6 months gone.
My mum and my dad are separated so I called my dad.At this point I was really upset that my mum was ignoring me so when I told him I was crying.The first thing he said was 'are you happy?' When I told him I was very happy just upset about my mum he was thrilled.He said 'in my opinion,a baby is always a brilliant thing' He was so excited.
OH was scared of telling his parents and he didnt tell them until I was 5 months gone.They were shocked but happy amd excited toH's dad said he had guessed but didnt want to ask me incase I'd just put on weight

 

[Beth_18]

wel me and oh had been together bout 18months and we went on holiday to egypt just the 2 of us. i came home and thought i had pick up a egyption bug it was about 3weeks after i went to the doctors thinking this egypttion bug wasnt going! doctor mad me do a sample and told me i was about 5weeks pregnant! which works out that i conceived on the 1st night in eygpy lol

mum came to the doctors with me but waited out side for me she knew as soon as i walked out the doctors room something wasnt right. my mums my best friend and she said it up to me and gave me a hug! she told me to sleep on it before telling dad!

i told oh that night and he cryed (bless him) he was so happy!!! next day came i got ready for work and then went down stairs to my dad and said dad i have something to tell you and he said if you have gotten a puppy you best take it back i said im pregnant and he said " oh erm... worse things happen at sea!.....would you like a cup of tea??" :rolf: it was so much easya than i imagined.

we waited a few days to tell oh mum n dad! i was dreading them more than my own mum and dad but they we excited as oh is almost 21.

im glad i told them when i did as we havnt had a bad word of anyone in our families!

 

[jen1604]

went down stairs to my dad and said dad i have something to tell you and he said if you have gotten a puppy you best take it back
!

 

[YummyMummy]

Mine was not so much telling more knowing... i was on the injection and yh well got pregs but as i neva got periods i didnt guess.. well one day was doing my nails and my girl had 2 do a test and didnt wanna do it alone so me and 4 friends all did one only 2 find i was the only positive one.. i was shocked then happy then over the moon. didnt tell mum at all then wen i was 12 weeks i was in the bath and my mum walked in 2 get something and she looked at me and said ur pregnant i said no she said yes u r then i said yes i am she said ok congrats n walked out..


dad hmm he dnt live in the country so i emailed him.. he was happy abt havin a grandson x