SucreK
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Hey ladies.
Just needed to vent to a group I think will understand. So I have a friend who had her second baby a month ago via C-section. She knows I also had a C-section, so she was texting me to gripe about the discomfort, annoyance, etc. No problem. I am happy to lend an ear.
BUT after the 100th or so text of "I'm soooo uncomfortable!", "I want more pain killers!", "I can barely sleep!", I had to gently remind her that I went through all of that, but was also driving to another state daily (starting day 3 after my C-section) to visit my baby who had been medically transported for multiple surgeries. And that the isolettes were kept at a standing-only height, so I would spend hours on my feet every day. After the C-section. And that I refused the narcotics and took Motrin so that I could legally drive myself to visit my daughter. Oh, and I was also taking care of her TWIN at the same time back home.
I hated taking it there, but she knows my story and I felt like it was really, really tone-deaf of her to complain to me ALL THE TIME. Like, know your audience!!!
Does anyone else have moments like this?
/end rant
Just needed to vent to a group I think will understand. So I have a friend who had her second baby a month ago via C-section. She knows I also had a C-section, so she was texting me to gripe about the discomfort, annoyance, etc. No problem. I am happy to lend an ear.
BUT after the 100th or so text of "I'm soooo uncomfortable!", "I want more pain killers!", "I can barely sleep!", I had to gently remind her that I went through all of that, but was also driving to another state daily (starting day 3 after my C-section) to visit my baby who had been medically transported for multiple surgeries. And that the isolettes were kept at a standing-only height, so I would spend hours on my feet every day. After the C-section. And that I refused the narcotics and took Motrin so that I could legally drive myself to visit my daughter. Oh, and I was also taking care of her TWIN at the same time back home.
I hated taking it there, but she knows my story and I felt like it was really, really tone-deaf of her to complain to me ALL THE TIME. Like, know your audience!!!
Does anyone else have moments like this?
/end rant