rustyswife828
TTC 2nd miracle baby
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Ok this is a rant!!!
I was at work today and I was talking to one of my friends about starting on clomid and she was really excited for me. I have PCOS so I've been on a low carb lifestyle and I've lost 42lbs. I'm not underweight for my height but I get comments from all kind of girls that I look too skinny and ask if I eat. Then I explain my PCOS and changing my diet to help me have a baby and a healthy pregnancy.
So I was talking to my friend and this girl comes up and butts in on our conversation. She said when she first saw me that she thought I didn't eat so I was explained to her about the low carb and PCOS and she said "honey you've got this all wrong and twisted! You shouldn't stress and eat healthy just cause you want to have a baby. A baby will come when it's time for you......It wouldn't be fair for the baby when you're stressed out! I think you can just eat whatever you want and if it's time for you to have a baby then you'll get pregnant. It doesn't matter if you've been with your OH for 6 months or 7 or 20 years!"
Seriously.. I wanted to punch her!! Clearly she didn't understand of why I'm on this lifestyle change!!!!!! I explained it to you and you hit me with the "if it's meant to be it'll be meant to be! Apparently you don't know struggle with infertility! You get pregnant back to back!!!! (Didn't say that but wanted too!)
Anyone else have this kind of frustration with people!
I was at work today and I was talking to one of my friends about starting on clomid and she was really excited for me. I have PCOS so I've been on a low carb lifestyle and I've lost 42lbs. I'm not underweight for my height but I get comments from all kind of girls that I look too skinny and ask if I eat. Then I explain my PCOS and changing my diet to help me have a baby and a healthy pregnancy.
So I was talking to my friend and this girl comes up and butts in on our conversation. She said when she first saw me that she thought I didn't eat so I was explained to her about the low carb and PCOS and she said "honey you've got this all wrong and twisted! You shouldn't stress and eat healthy just cause you want to have a baby. A baby will come when it's time for you......It wouldn't be fair for the baby when you're stressed out! I think you can just eat whatever you want and if it's time for you to have a baby then you'll get pregnant. It doesn't matter if you've been with your OH for 6 months or 7 or 20 years!"
Seriously.. I wanted to punch her!! Clearly she didn't understand of why I'm on this lifestyle change!!!!!! I explained it to you and you hit me with the "if it's meant to be it'll be meant to be! Apparently you don't know struggle with infertility! You get pregnant back to back!!!! (Didn't say that but wanted too!)
Anyone else have this kind of frustration with people!