Zero sex drive while bfing tmi

[xsadiex]

any one else?
I hate it, it's making me feel sad and I can't even imagine how OH feels. It's the last thing on my mind even though i want to.
We've done it about 4 times have to use lube as err...its a bit dry and painful.

Will it improve or only go when I stop bfing?

 

[Casey3]

I totally feel your pain. I honestly don't care if I never had sex again and it's driving me crazy.. zero drive at all, like zilch

We actually haven't done it since I was like 6/7 months pregnant and I think I'm killing my OH Hopefully it gets better one day!

 

[Laurenmomma]

Me too! We only done it a few times n I havnt really wanted to just did as felt bad on oh! Hope it returns!

 

[mj2004]

I'm the same way! It's so frustrating, dh asks for it every damn night, it's driving me nuts!!

 

[MrsGM]

very rarely fancy it either and pretty uncomfy

 

[onlyme101]

Me to.

 

[xsadiex]

sad times, I wonder if formula feeders have the same problem? Maybe whenn our periods return our sex drives will too?

 

[Lollieollie]

Me too! Couldn't care less, would be happy with a kiss and a cuddle but poor oh gets too excited by that and I feel even worse. My period is back and it's made no difference to me unfortunately.

 

[Tacey]

I was like that initially, but it came back after a few months. To be honest, the tiredness was the biggest mood killer for me!

 

[myasmumma]

im in this boat too

 

[Wind]

Me too.

 

[bubbles123]

Well my son was FF from 3 weeks and I still had no sex drive until he was 1 year plus. I agree with what another poster says, I think it's more to do with tiredness and a general feeling of wanting to be left alone after being with a demanding baby all day then BF or FF. I also think it's natures way of making sure you don't get pregnant again so soon after having a baby.

 

[LilianA]

I am right there with you! not only don't think about it but I don't want it at all..im actually dreading next week because I will run out of the excuse of "no sex for the first 6 weeks" and I just can't stand anything touching my boobs with all the breastfeeding

 

[flashy09]

Just seems such a waste to be in bed and not sleeping if the baby is asleep! No sex drive at all!

 

[Parkep]

I was in that boat too!! Then I started reading the 50 shades trilogy.... It honestly brought back my sex drive AND it's a good story. Now I have my damn period and horny as hell lol
Try reading something erotic.. You get down time and it can help.

 

[Maxy1]

Just seems such a waste to be in bed and not sleeping if the baby is asleep! No sex drive at all!

yep yep yep!!!