Natty_babez
Alexa-Jayne & Daisy-Mae
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Hi
To cut a VERY long story short I am currently 18 weeks pregnant with our third child. At the moment the only people that know are my close friends and family, my OH hasn't told any of his family as his sister is pregnant at the moment with her second child and he doesn't want to take the limelight away from her ... she's due in about 4-5 weeks.
At first when we found out it wasn't planned our youngest is only 9 months now and even thought we wanted another we didn't want another so soon so we agreed that we should keep it a secret for as long as possible but after I got used to the idea and we had our 12 weeks scan and told our eldest I wanted to just tell everyone.
It's his sisters baby shower this Saturday and I am starting to show I desperately need to put on my maternity clothes and let it all hang out and be comfortable, however my OH still hasn't told his sister he is constantly trying to put it of even though he tells me it's nothing to do with anyone else and he's not worried what she'll say. I've said unless he does tell everyone this week I am refusing to go the shower I don't want people talking about me as you can clearly see a bump now and to be honest I am sick of it being treated like some big dirty secret now like our baby isn't as important as hers !!!
What would you all do? I am tempted to go down and see her and tell her myself before Saturday but I have no idea how she'll take it and if she's not happy about it the last thing I need is an argument with her, but whenever I mention it to my OH it causes an argument with us and he makes it out like it's not a big deal.
HELP !!!!!
To cut a VERY long story short I am currently 18 weeks pregnant with our third child. At the moment the only people that know are my close friends and family, my OH hasn't told any of his family as his sister is pregnant at the moment with her second child and he doesn't want to take the limelight away from her ... she's due in about 4-5 weeks.
At first when we found out it wasn't planned our youngest is only 9 months now and even thought we wanted another we didn't want another so soon so we agreed that we should keep it a secret for as long as possible but after I got used to the idea and we had our 12 weeks scan and told our eldest I wanted to just tell everyone.
It's his sisters baby shower this Saturday and I am starting to show I desperately need to put on my maternity clothes and let it all hang out and be comfortable, however my OH still hasn't told his sister he is constantly trying to put it of even though he tells me it's nothing to do with anyone else and he's not worried what she'll say. I've said unless he does tell everyone this week I am refusing to go the shower I don't want people talking about me as you can clearly see a bump now and to be honest I am sick of it being treated like some big dirty secret now like our baby isn't as important as hers !!!
What would you all do? I am tempted to go down and see her and tell her myself before Saturday but I have no idea how she'll take it and if she's not happy about it the last thing I need is an argument with her, but whenever I mention it to my OH it causes an argument with us and he makes it out like it's not a big deal.
HELP !!!!!