10dpo sore breasts

[Meezerowner]

hey! AF hasnt come so please dont give up! and I know how your feel about the long cycles - one time i didnt evey O till day 45! goodness! and I agree about holding off testing...saves money too...and when you do get your BFP you will need the money for diapers!

Lol yeah the first response and clear blue are soooo expensive!

I know I'm not completely out until AF, but just feel so defeated. I was *convinced* I was preg cos of symptoms and just thought first response would give me the BFP and that the internet cheapies were lying!

Cos of my weird elongated cycle I prob wont manage a 2012 baby now. Its weird how little things make you sad... I guess cos my MC baby would have been due this year I thought everything would be ok if I could get preg again and have a baby in the same year....dumb I know!

Anyways how are you getting along with your wait???

 

[ThinkPositiv]

hey! AF hasnt come so please dont give up! and I know how your feel about the long cycles - one time i didnt evey O till day 45! goodness! and I agree about holding off testing...saves money too...and when you do get your BFP you will need the money for diapers!

Lol yeah the first response and clear blue are soooo expensive!

I know I'm not completely out until AF, but just feel so defeated. I was *convinced* I was preg cos of symptoms and just thought first response would give me the BFP and that the internet cheapies were lying!

Cos of my weird elongated cycle I prob wont manage a 2012 baby now. Its weird how little things make you sad... I guess cos my MC baby would have been due this year I thought everything would be ok if I could get preg again and have a baby in the same year....dumb I know!

Anyways how are you getting along with your wait???

I understand. a few weeks back our friends announced they were through their first trimester...at the same time we would have been announcing if we didnt loose our bean....and we would have been due August 5th...... and i hear you....i thought it would be no big deal to have another chance at a 2012 baby....this Christmas is at my parents and I SOOOOO wanted to bring the first grand baby to my parents house! my first cycle after our MC I O'd on day 31....but my hubby was suffering bad from performance anxiety and I didnt even have a shot! with such long cycles.... you get really bummed when you know your out from the beginning and there is no 2WW....

 

[Meezerowner]

I understand. a few weeks back our friends announced they were through their first trimester...at the same time we would have been announcing if we didnt loose our bean....and we would have been due August 5th...... and i hear you....i thought it would be no big deal to have another chance at a 2012 baby....this Christmas is at my parents and I SOOOOO wanted to bring the first grand baby to my parents house! my first cycle after our MC I O'd on day 31....but my hubby was suffering bad from performance anxiety and I didnt even have a shot! with such long cycles.... you get really bummed when you know your out from the beginning and there is no 2WW....

Yep I had the same thing happen in Jan with a colleague announcing their 12 weeks just when mine would have been announced. We would have been due July 24th... very similiar to you. It is very difficult because I have not told many people about the MC so I have to keep up a good act most of the time.
I dunno whether I O'vd at all between MC and 1st AF it was just a 7.5 week limbo.

I really hope you get your 2012 baby in time for a family Christmas! Fx for you. Must be difficult for you dealing with hubby's worries aswell... I guess we forget sometimes that it can be tough on them too. I guess the only solution is to take a really relaxed approach to TTC which is easier said than done!

 

[ThinkPositiv]

I understand. a few weeks back our friends announced they were through their first trimester...at the same time we would have been announcing if we didnt loose our bean....and we would have been due August 5th...... and i hear you....i thought it would be no big deal to have another chance at a 2012 baby....this Christmas is at my parents and I SOOOOO wanted to bring the first grand baby to my parents house! my first cycle after our MC I O'd on day 31....but my hubby was suffering bad from performance anxiety and I didnt even have a shot! with such long cycles.... you get really bummed when you know your out from the beginning and there is no 2WW....

Yep I had the same thing happen in Jan with a colleague announcing their 12 weeks just when mine would have been announced. We would have been due July 24th... very similiar to you. It is very difficult because I have not told many people about the MC so I have to keep up a good act most of the time.
I dunno whether I O'vd at all between MC and 1st AF it was just a 7.5 week limbo.

I really hope you get your 2012 baby in time for a family Christmas! Fx for you. Must be difficult for you dealing with hubby's worries aswell... I guess we forget sometimes that it can be tough on them too. I guess the only solution is to take a really relaxed approach to TTC which is easier said than done!

we didnt tell many others either...well, my hubby told no one...i told a few people at work.....
yeah, relaxed approach to TTC.... I think i put on a good front for my hubby...i hid all the ovulation tests and stuff from him....but hes not stupid....he knows time has passed and I am due soonish...even last night with my terrible headache he asked if i had had my period....even he knows i get bad headaches before AF! but i also got a terrible one before I found out I was pregnant last time....so....who knows!