Prayandtry
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My story
I'm in my 20s and I started my cycle when I was 10years old I had very heavy painfull periods so the doctor put me on the pill to help ease my cycle for me they dint really do much help so after a few months taking them I stopped , my periods also became irregular, I would never have a show when I was due on it would just come all at once and it be left red faced and embarrassed, any way I have had 3 sexual partners and never used contraception with any of them (after a while) 1 of which I am now married to who has 2 children from a previous relationship, I have been trying to get pregnant for 10years now and it just won't happen I have had clomid on many of occasions and had lap & dyes done and nothing :/
In January this year my gynecologist told me that I would need the help of iVF of which I had to pay for as my husband already has 2 children, and I can not afford that amount of money but he said this was the only option he could see viable to us, so I went home distraught thinking I'm never going to be a mummy a few months passed and I became very unwell my husband took me to the hospital with bad cramps late on a Thursday evening , to my shock the nurse notified me that I was pregnant but as I have lost blood when I passed urine they would like to do a scan the following morning, Friday morning came I was so excited I couldn't believe this was happening to me my prayers had been answered my nanna had sent me the baby I soo longed for, I laid down, staring at the screen I saw nothing, I turned and look at the nurse her face said it all she turned to me and said Iv very sooty my love but your baby is ectopic at 8+weeks we are going to have to send you upstairs to see a dr as you are going to need emergency surgery. My baby and my tube where removed.
That was April this year (2013) it's now 2weeks before Christmas and my last period was October 15th but for the past 6 days I keep passing blood when I wee not a lot just a show which I never get I. Bee. To the doctors and they have referred me back to the gynocogagist, but for what ???
I'm scared that it is happening again.....
Has anyone else had the same sort of story as mine xxx
I'm in my 20s and I started my cycle when I was 10years old I had very heavy painfull periods so the doctor put me on the pill to help ease my cycle for me they dint really do much help so after a few months taking them I stopped , my periods also became irregular, I would never have a show when I was due on it would just come all at once and it be left red faced and embarrassed, any way I have had 3 sexual partners and never used contraception with any of them (after a while) 1 of which I am now married to who has 2 children from a previous relationship, I have been trying to get pregnant for 10years now and it just won't happen I have had clomid on many of occasions and had lap & dyes done and nothing :/
In January this year my gynecologist told me that I would need the help of iVF of which I had to pay for as my husband already has 2 children, and I can not afford that amount of money but he said this was the only option he could see viable to us, so I went home distraught thinking I'm never going to be a mummy a few months passed and I became very unwell my husband took me to the hospital with bad cramps late on a Thursday evening , to my shock the nurse notified me that I was pregnant but as I have lost blood when I passed urine they would like to do a scan the following morning, Friday morning came I was so excited I couldn't believe this was happening to me my prayers had been answered my nanna had sent me the baby I soo longed for, I laid down, staring at the screen I saw nothing, I turned and look at the nurse her face said it all she turned to me and said Iv very sooty my love but your baby is ectopic at 8+weeks we are going to have to send you upstairs to see a dr as you are going to need emergency surgery. My baby and my tube where removed.
That was April this year (2013) it's now 2weeks before Christmas and my last period was October 15th but for the past 6 days I keep passing blood when I wee not a lot just a show which I never get I. Bee. To the doctors and they have referred me back to the gynocogagist, but for what ???
I'm scared that it is happening again.....
Has anyone else had the same sort of story as mine xxx