13 weeks and low cramps/sore....weak cervix? advice please

[minkymoo]

Hi girls, this is my first pregnancy and I have The Paranoia..

I'm 13 weeks today and had my 12 week scan on Friday. All was fine. Saturday I was fine but all day yesterday I had twinges starting in the very lower left and then all across and very low down. Nothing awful and am putting it down to stretching/and or scan soreness (if there is such a thing??).

I woke up this morning and as I got out of bed for a few seconds it felt very heavy low down but no pain, just a bit sore.

Did any of you who have got past this stage have the same? Is it normal?

I've worried since day one as I had extensive loop diathermy on my cervix a few years ago, I also have a cyst and a fibroid. Midwife did say she was referring me to consultant at hosp. That was 6 weeks ago and no appt came thru. I mentioned it to the receptionist who has booked me in with consultant at 16 weeks but I'm thinking MW wanted me to have an internal sooner. (I'm 36 so a little bit older mum).

I've left a message for MW to call me but just wanted some advice from those who've been there and done it already.

Thanks ladies!

xx

 

[Cookie1979]

I have a similar pain that comes and goes, starts in my left hip, goes across below my belly, I would describe it as a band of pain below my stomach and it goes into my right hip and something across my lower back. Is that what yours is like? I dont know what mine is, I'm seeing my midwife tomorrow so will ask. I've been getting mine about 4 or 5 weeks now, maybe even longer.

 

[minkymoo]

Mine is more like either faint throbbing surges (but really quite mild). it's doing it right now on the left side, really low down lol!. Then other times it like a mild tugging. It's mostly on one side but the heavy feeling is like period pain.

How I am ever going to get to 9 months with all this paranoia I wil never know!

 

[Cheryl xx]

Hi hun. I had this in my last pregnancy and it continued most of the way through and later felt worse if i'd been walking for a while. I was told it was normal stretching pains and my daughter was fine, she's now 5. I have it already this time and if it catches me off guard can take my breath away.

I think an appointment with your consultant at 16 weeks is about normal hun. My pregnancies are consultant led and my first appointmant last time was about 16 weeks. You can ask to see them earlier if you are worried about something.

Try not to worry too much, i know that easier said than done (i should take my own advice lol) xx

 

[Gabby15]

yeah I have been having that alot lately and I am 13 weeks going to be 14 weeks tomorrow also in the beginning of may I had like a watery/blooding discharge is that normal? I'm kinda scared about it. I havent gone to the doctor through all my pregnancy so far beause im scared too and my parents dont believe me that I am pregnant. I dont know what else to do. I told my friend (who is 22) and she keeps telling me to go to the doctor but she doesnt understand that I dont have anyone to take me. im only 15 :/ we got into a fight today and she was being really bitchy because she said she wont help me out with all this anymore she says its stressing her out. she doesn't know what the hell im going through and she says it stresses her out!? yeah what about me!? how do I tell my parents that im pregnant!? im so alone and scared! :'(