You definitely aren't alone, I'm so sorry, can't even imagine how I would feel after going through this 3 times. Big hugs. Honestly the thought of getting pregnant again terrifies me as I so don't want to go through this again..Hopefully by the time I am cleared to try again (heard it may take at least 6-8 weeks for af to come after D&C) I will want to... I know what you're saying that no words can comfort you, esp after 3 times...I don't think it would comfort me either, but it made me feel worse that she didn't even attempt to say anything comforting...may be irrational but the fact that she said nothing like "don't worry, this doesn't mean you won't carry a healthy pregnancy in the future" made me think "she doesn't think my body is capable of carrying a healthy pregnancy". She also kept making reference to my age (just turned 36), as if my eggs are probably all bad