14 months on and I feel like a freak!

[BubbaG]

I dont know what's up with me but something is not right. I had an awful birth, ALOT of stitches, 2 failed vontouses, forceps and tore in 2 places aswell as being cut. 6 weeks pp I felt a heavy pain and could feel something pushing out of me, went to my docs and she said it will 'all go back' just do my pelvic floor exercises! I have and nothing has gone back, of I walk for too long I feel an extreme pushing, it makes me feel tired and heavy. It gets worse at the time of the month.

What's triggered this post is that my sex life is awful now. It hurts all the time, like (excuse the phrase) someone is stabbing me. It gets so bad I scream in pain and push my hubby off me. I can tell he has had about enough, he daren't come near me and I have convinced myself he is going to leave me because of it. I wouldn't blame he I really wouldn't.

Has anyone else experienced anything like this? I can't be the only one?

 

[BubbaG]

Anyone?

 

[Sproglet]

Sounds like a prolapse of the womb- I saw it on Embarrassing Bodies once. I think they can do surgery to fix it since pelvic floor exercises didn't work. So please go back to your doctor- if she isn't helpful then try a different one until you get some answers!

 

[MeowPurr32]

Yes, you need to find a doctor who can see what has prolapsed and refer you to a specialist. Also tell her about the severe pain during sex.

(Hugs to you) Your husband hopefully is being supportive and willing to wait until this is resolved to have sex. You do NOT deserve to be cheated on. That is not what love is all about, hon. You deserve some understanding and support.

I know it's really difficult to deal with the medical side, but please keep seeking help until you find a doctor who can help you.