14dpo+BFN=feeling down :-(

[Ava123]

Hey ladies-

Sorry for the rant!!

I'm 14dpo today on a 33 day cycle and took a clear blue digital test this morn (FMU). Got a BFN

I'm feeling so low. Surely with this test, it would show now??!!

I don't have any cramps yet and the only symptom is slightly heavy, sore bbs.

My AF is due today and hasn't shown, so this is a good sign.

Not sure what I'm looking for, just maybe any1 else in the same boat or any1 else had this happen and got a BFP?

Thanks xxx

 

[Claire_Lou]

Don't forget Digi's need far more HCG in your urine than any other test

There is still hope!!!

 

[Ava123]

REALLY??!! Ohhhhh, I didn't know that?!

Oh,thank u so much for replying-I feel better already xx

 

[spykey_uk]

Yep I'm in the same boat - 16DPO, 4 days late and no sign of AF yet!

Good luck hun! x

 

[Claire_Lou]

I am due AF today but nothing so far! I got a BFN with FRER at 12dpo and was gutted but alot of people seem to get negatives with them too...

If you look around you will find that loads and loads of women don't get BFP's until well into their pregnancy so chin up, theres still loads of time!! xxx

 

[mandij33]

I'm 2 days late and tested 3 times already in the last few days and got 2 and 1 very very faint
I keep telling myself maybe there isn't enough hcg in my urine detected by the tests
there is still hope for us
its not over until the witch pays us a visit.. for every day she stays away we are another step closer to a

 

[Ava123]

Good luck girls! I hope we all get our BFPs!!

U didn't know so many of us would be in the same situation.

Xx

 

[Steph32]

Hi there Ava123, looks like we're on the same timeline here. I'm also 14dpo, AF due today, tested with FRER this afternoon and got BFN. Have been testing since around 8dpo with 10miu and FRERS using FMU most of the time. I skipped testing yesterday morning and this morning because I really thought I wasn't pregnant. But today I've been feeling nauseous so I couldn't resist and took my last FRER! I know there are many women who get BFP later, even though odds are not with me, just hoping! Let us know what happens, hopefully we get our BFPs soon!!

 

[BrandysBabies]

I am 12dpo and already feeling this way! I tested this morning and it was a clear BFN. I have been throwing up for three days now. So I am either PG or have the stomach flu! AF is suppose to arrive on Tuesday, praying she stays gone for 9mths!

 

[Brittanie]

hey ladies im on cd 22 6dpo and all im gettin if bfn is it crazy of me to say i have had to pee like 50 times a day i get sligt pains that come and go in my bbs and actually right now as im typing this im getting sharp pains on my left side idk im so anxios heres my story ........i got my mirena takin out on cd2 but still bled a normal 8 days on was using opks all neg on cd16 had pink spotting which im not sure if it ws ovulation which is wat im going by.....anyways on cd20 i got a pos opk but it was from the answer brand anda lot of women tell me they aent reliable which my husband left for out of town so we only bd the night b4 i got the pos opk but im so sure i ovulated on cd16 but idk imconfused any thought ?????
srry so long

 

[Steph32]

Brittanie, if you are really 6dpo it is still too early to get a + result, even with a super sensitive test. I would relax, I know it's REALLY hard to wait, but sounds like you're doing things right, BD night before OPK is good! I would start testing 8-9 dpo if you have a super sensitive (10-20 miu)-- everyone is different but with my first I didn't get my positive (very faint line) until 11dpo. Good luck!

 

[Brittanie]

man i feel so much better now....is it possible to have the tingling nips andfrequent urination this early and im cramping alot also

 

[Steph32]

From what I've heard it's possible, but remember that a lot of preggo symptoms are similar to pms symptoms because of the increase in progesterone. I can't speak from personal experience because in the early days of my first pregnancy I wasn't tracking so I don't remember! #1 was conceived so quickly so it was all bit of a surprise for me.

 

[Brittanie]

yeah i dont remember with my son bc i wasnt trying it was nearly 3 yearss ago lol im hoping this is our month maybe ill get my prolonged soon thank you

 

[Steph32]

I have a son too, just turned 3! How long have you been TTC#2? We've been trying for about 4 mos... was kinda surprised how much more difficult it is this time around. With DS it happened right away. That kind of spoiled me, and I took TTC for granted. Hope it happens soon, as I don't want there to be too huge of an age gap. Being that I'm 14dpo and all tests are BFN, my hopes are down for this month. But AF has not shown yet, so I'm still hanging on! Good luck to you, fx for BFP! Let me know!

 

[Brittanie]

this is ourfirst month so im not too worried but i want it so bad....my son reallyneeds sumone to play with im not to confident aot this cycle only becaus ei had spotting on cd16 which i swore was O but then i had a almost positive opk on cd20 it was really dark but the brand i heard was not promising i reall hope you get ur bfp keep me updated ive been looking for a ttc buddy ill add u as a friend ;-)

 

[Ava123]

Hey ladies,it's nice to know that we are in the same situation. Even though it's still crappy.

Any1 got a BFP yet? I havnt tested this morn,as I have no tests I think i may test 2moro if AF hasn't shown.

Hi steph32! We are on the same timeline. It's a nightmare. I think I might be out this month,I just feel it!

Xxx

 

[Claire_Lou]

Ive not tested again yet... I was due yesterday but AF didnt show, I had planned to test this morning but hubby suggested to wait until tomorrow. At the beginning of the cycle I came on late on the Sunday afternoon whereas normally its there when I wake up on Sunday so on that basis it could arrive at some point today.

So far just creamy CM so im getting quite excited!

Are you ever late normally? xx

 

[Ava123]

Ohhhh,that's quite exciting! Fingers crossed for you. Sounds promising!

I'm usually on the dot,but when I stress(which I'm trying not too this time)I can be late.

It's hard,as everything seems to be a symptom. I'm sure I'm more sensitive to smells,but maybe I'm imagining it??

Xx

 

[cdngirl]

Ava, your post yesterday was exactly what I went through yesterday. I was 14 dpo and tested with a Clearblue Digital test and got a BFN! I was really upset. I did have some bad cramping after the BFN and was sure AF was going to arrive yesterday. But so far nothing. My temp went up again today which I think is a good sign. But my cycles are so long and irregular I don't know what's going on half the time! I may test again tomorrow morning, just don't want the disappointment of a BFN again!!