I have a bump that I think is obvious, but if someone doesn't know me all that well it isn't obvious. None of my pants fit. I am wearing them fly wide open and a bella band on top. However if you compare me to my friend who is a week and a half behind me there is a huge difference. She looks 2 months farther ahead of me, but she has also already gained 30 lbs, more than twice what I have put on so far. Some people don't really get the big stick out baby at all. My friend has a tilted uterus and when she is PG she doesn't start to show until about 25 or 26 weeks, however gets way more back pain because of how she is carrying and the way the baby is positioned.
My SIL's first sat in there like a frog and so her belly didn't get all that big either. I am still jealous that she didn't get a single stretch mark at all. I am secretly hoping she gets tons this time around. LOL!