16dpo and SO SCARED....to test!

[Hoping44]

Hi everyone I am new to BandB and I am loving how funny and bareable you have made my TWW. Ok so AF was due yesterday. Wait...let me abck up and give you a back story.

I used to be regular 28 Day Cycle. Then after my 3rd little girl my cycle went haywire! Now I have regulated back to 28 days. I O'd and now i'm 16DPO. AF was due yesterday and no show. I'm scared. I want to test my boobs are sore I threw up yesterday I'm bloated constipated and kinda cramping on and off. We've been trying for 5 months and each month BFN.

So I just wanted to share my experience so far. One question though, Should I wait a couple of days to test or should I test tonight if AF doesn't show?

 

[Anxious5]

I would so test tonight !!! I am a poas-aholic , goodluck!!!

 

[Shannen]

Ugh do it tomorrow morning! that way your hcg levels will be detectable because im going thru this too! im only 8/9 dpo so i know ill get a false neggie so i am trying sooo hard not to open the FRER!!!

 

[sheilarae07]

I agree! I was due yesterday and I am so scared to see another BFN! Also, I don't want to waste my 10000000th $6 FRER just to find out I am not pregnant! ha I am having bloodwork done Wed., if I can hold out til then, my doctor will tell me that way I don't have to stare at that one lonely line, hoping another will appear.

 

[mummyto3]

im in the same boata s u af was due yesterday but im testing BFN :S gl f'xd

 

[Hoping44]

Well still no AF (YAY) . But I broke down yesterday and got a BFN. Granted I forced a pee outta me because I was busting to test, and the test was like a year old from a friend of mine, but I have this strange feeling like I am pregnant and I'm supposed to wait. Is that weird? Ugh I feel so obsessive about this! I get mild cramps on the left side and my cervix is really soft. Do you ever second guess yourself?

Oh thanks for being my partners in my obsession!