16dpo & waiting on AF or BFP!!

[CloudNine]

After months of TTC #1, I have always been disappointed when the dreaded shows up...but this time, being late & consistently getting BFN, its almost worse!!!
Instead of AF, I have watery, creamy CM...lots of it! And the oddest pinching, pulling sensation on my sides. Its not necessarily painful, but surprising and lasts less than a second. Also, the other day at lunch I started weeping into my Whopper for no reason! haha WTH??? Normally I start cramping VERY badly the day before af and the day of, but this time I have had no "double over in pain" cramps like usual...been pretty easy actually LOL.

Are any of you ladies in the same boat with no af and BFN? Or got a BFP later? And how about that pinching?? Can anyone shed some light on this? All comments welcome, thank you!!

 

[diverdi]

I've heard lots of people mentioning the pinching, and the increased creamy CM, and the tearfulness.
Sounds good to me. FX'd for you

 

[CloudNine]

WHEW! Ok, that makes me feel much better...I hope this is a good sign!! I thought it was gas at first but now I'm thinking otherwise haha

 

[Jasiellover]

How long have you been trying? Good luck!! Sounds hopeful!

 

[CloudNine]

We have been (seriously) trying for 5 months. DH wants to have a baby badly and I cannot wait for the day I can scream "SURPRISE!!!!"
How long for you and your husband? Any advice on how to keep my sanity?? lol

 

[Jasiellover]

We have been (seriously) trying for 5 months. DH wants to have a baby badly and I cannot wait for the day I can scream "SURPRISE!!!!"
How long for you and your husband? Any advice on how to keep my sanity?? lol

2.5 years here.. 3 years in aug

My husband is the same way! He wants a baby just as badly as I do and this has been such a struggle.

I wish I had some advice on how to keep your sanity but I'm over here stalking baby forums, looking up baby stuff, nursery etc I need some of that advice myself!! Haha I am so baby crazy !

 

[CloudNine]

LOL I am currently doing the same thing!! I am so fixated on googling & researching every little gurgle and twitch that happens...My husband thinks I've gone insane, but what can you say right? haha Google should be banned for us TTCers!! Where are you in your cycle right now? Are you testing now?

 

[Jasiellover]

LOL I am currently doing the same thing!! I am so fixated on googling & researching every little gurgle and twitch that happens...My husband thinks I've gone insane, but what can you say right? haha Google should be banned for us TTCers!! Where are you in your cycle right now? Are you testing now?

LOL me too! I have been on that two week wait website all day reading the posts. I am trying not to obsess but it's so hard I am on clomid right now cycle day 22 maybe about 8dpo? Around there. So nope I'm not going to test unless I don't get my period by June 30th-July 1th. It's so hard!! But last month I had faulty tests and it really broke my heart. Just trying to steer clear from that again. When are you testing?

 

[RockerMom85]

I'm 16DPO and still NO signs of that horrible AF. When I say horrible...I generally know 3 days before that I am about to get it...and so does EVERYONE else. LOL. I am having lots of watery, almost lotiony CM...(getting REALLY tired of wearing pantiliners and changing my undies!!!), tender BB's, really tearful over everything, etc. Still no BFP though!!! GRRR!!!

 

[hippymama23]

Hey girls, I am right there with you!!! I am currently 10 days LATE for AF and getting !!! The 2 ww is bad enough, not to mention it going on BEYOND 2 weeks!!! I feel like im going nuts over here. I am crampy, watery cm, heartburn, bloated, nipple sensitivity, just feeling off I guess you could say!!! GL and I hope we ALL get that REAL SOON!!!!!!!!
to all!!!!!

 

[CloudNine]

LOL I am currently doing the same thing!! I am so fixated on googling & researching every little gurgle and twitch that happens...My husband thinks I've gone insane, but what can you say right? haha Google should be banned for us TTCers!! Where are you in your cycle right now? Are you testing now?

LOL me too! I have been on that two week wait website all day reading the posts. I am trying not to obsess but it's so hard I am on clomid right now cycle day 22 maybe about 8dpo? Around there. So nope I'm not going to test unless I don't get my period by June 30th-July 1th. It's so hard!! But last month I had faulty tests and it really broke my heart. Just trying to steer clear from that again. When are you testing?

It really is hard to not test. I can never resist the temptation, then I get mad at myself for being disappointed! Such a roller coaster of emotions. Faulty tests?? Wha?? That's just awful, boo all over that. I'm so sorry hun. Last month, I too tested BFP on 2 ICs and then AF showed up...its devastating to say the least.
I am currently 2 days late with no AF symptoms. I have been testing since 12dpo, but with no results. On some, I think I can see just a hint of a pink line, but I don't want to get my hopes up. If the witch hasn't come by next week, Im making a gyno appt for a blood test.

 

[CloudNine]

The watery, creamy, lotiony CM seems to be a trend YAY! Is this out of the ordinary for y'all? I'm like the Sahara right before af arrives LOL!

 

[Jasiellover]

Uhhh getting a line and then AF is serious the worst! Well hopefully that lines starts to get DARKER ! Being 2 days late is already a plus! & I too have lots of creamy lotiony CM but I noticed that last month too.

Welcome rockermom and hippymama! I really hope you guys get your BFP's! Being that you guys are so late, it sounds really hopeful!

 

[Jasiellover]

How are you guys feeling today?

 

[CloudNine]

UPDATE!
got a very shadowy, faint line on IC last night...kinda nervous its an evap line and I don't want to get my hopes up..still no af! grr...this is torture!

 

[Jasiellover]

UPDATE!
got a very shadowy, faint line on IC last night...kinda nervous its an evap line and I don't want to get my hopes up..still no af! grr...this is torture!

OMG girl that could be it! When are you gonna test again ?

 

[CloudNine]

I'm going to the store (sometime this afternoon when i finally get my behind off this couch LOL) to get a FRER or Answer. I've just read so many posts ab IC being confusing, lines not getting dark enough, evap lines, etc. So I was told to go get another kind of test. I have an EPT digital but if I don't want to waste it just in case, ya know? uugh...

 

[Jasiellover]

I'm going to the store (sometime this afternoon when i finally get my behind off this couch LOL) to get a FRER or Answer. I've just read so many posts ab IC being confusing, lines not getting dark enough, evap lines, etc. So I was told to go get another kind of test. I have an EPT digital but if I don't want to waste it just in case, ya know? uugh...

Well good luck hope you get a bfp

 

[CloudNine]

Thanks girl, I hope so too. I will update. How are you??

 

[Jasiellover]

Thanks girl, I hope so too. I will update. How are you??

I'm okay.. just waiting it out. Not feeling hopeful at all so basically just waiting for AF to show.