17 scared unsure && posibly pregnant

[chrissy&marty]

hey ive been through something similar so left you my story in a PM.

the way i c it how ever it happened planned or not, stupid or not it has so now you have to deal with it.
i hope my message shows that you are not alone and that dealing with this is possible and u can do it.
x

 

[nightkd]

I think u guys are being a bit harsh, I think she's just scared of what her parents'll think etc etc, I don't think she was being that serious.

It might seem like the end of the world, but everything'll fall into place.

Hope your BF will stick by you, it's his responsibility too.

Gd Luck
xx

 

[Nik_]

If you're not ready to have a child and you don't think you can provide it with the life it deserves, you should really think about adoption. That way a couple who can't have children could have a chance at raising one and giving your baby the life it deserves if you really don't think you can provide that for it. You could have an open adoption and could still see your baby.

 

[codex]

I'm finding it hard to get my head round this. I know I might sound like I'm being harsh & telling you things you already no & I know at some point most people have had unprotected sex but the way you talk about how you knew you could get pregnant & your mum told you if you got pregnant the family would disown you & your sisters have been disowned for the same thing I cant understand why you would have unprotected sex so many times & now your pregnant & thinking about ending your life bcus of it. You knew this was going to happen but did it anyway (both of you) x I'm finding it hard to be sympathetic sorry

I hope you do the right thing for your baby & yourself & please go get yourself some condoms they are free from the DRs (i know too late now but for the future)

I also agree. You say you had scares yet continued to go about it like nothing. You say you are the smartest of your sisters yet you are doing the same thing as them. You say you do not believe in abortion yet you say you don't feel like living because you find you are pregnant???
Stop being so dramatic, stop repeating mistakes and move on. What's done is done and a baby in no way stops you from finishing your schooling. I know many girls that had babies while in college still went (child went to daycare) and did just fine.

Sorry to sound harsh but it is so frustrating to me when girls just keep acting like it can't happen to me even though I am doing nothing to stop it.

 

[Poppeteer]

Have pm'd you

 

[Kirsty10x]

(Have to edit this cause ive just read that you know that you are)

If your old enough to have unprotected sex then your old enough to face the consequences .. when you look in your heart you will find the answer .. all im saying is I could never give up my baby, not in a million years.

Last year (when I was 17) I fell pregnant with a guy I had been with for a year, I didn't have a clue what to do and my mum always said if I ever fell pregnant she would make me have an abortion .. but after I picked up the courage to tell her, she was annoyed but understood my decision to keep the baby and face my consequences. Unfortunately, I had a miscarraige and we were all devastated, even though my mum didn't want the baby in the first place .. is there no way your mum would come round??

Would you be able to go through the 9 months and then give your baby up for adoption?

Good luck, and I hope the advice has helped xx