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[Phoenix82]

Big hugs girlies x

 

[Jannah K]

Hoping miracle happens & we all get bfp soon!!!

 

[Phoenix82]

I know sweetie, I feel like any minute I'll go to the loo and AF will have started
It NEEDS to happen soon for all of us xxx

How is everyone feeling today?

This is my 9th month ttc baby #1 and I'm getting REALLY down about it not happening!!!!!!EVERYONE around me is preggo or trying and I just want it to be my turn - bored of BFNs and AF is an understatement

 

[Tatemp]

Hey girls, how is everyone doing.
I don't have much news, I do have a cold.
My temps have not dropped after AF arrived, but since I don't have any other symptoms I think it's because of the cold.

 

[Jannah K]

Hello lovelies
I got no update either beside cramps..feel like AF arriving any minute...
Phoenix I know how u feel. I have never gotten bfp myself

 

[Phoenix82]

I'm so fed up with it not being my turn and all I want is to be a mum!
Sorry for being moany I'm just struggling to deal with constant no's even though I kinda knew this month wasn't the month.

I just worry I may never get there and maybe I'm not meant to be a mum, I don't think I could take the amount of no's a lot of people have had - I don't think I'm strong enough x

 

[Jannah K]

Phoenix you are in my prayers
U will be a mom! Even if road is rocky...
I feel so lonely without my parents & siblings in States... all sisters older & younger got kids so all busy...would love to have a child....esp I wanted to have multiple kids... doesn't help when around o have to get oh on same page each month....so much as a woman we go through

 

[Phoenix82]

Thanks Jannah that's very kind of you.

I'm in he same boat as you everyone else in my family has kids just not me.
Oh hun i didn't realise your family didn't live in the states!!! That must be REALLY tough on you. Do they know you are trying? Can you talk to them?

It must be so hard getting the oh on the same page every month, I don't get why he isn't prepped knowing it needs to happen. My oh gets tired of it and says it'll be good when we stop. Although he thinks 4 times is enough (every other day) but I just don't know. Maybe I'll get a turkey baster lol!! I cannot believe people do that but it would be a whole lot easier xxx

 

[Nanninoo]

Hey girls no update from me either been in bed most of the day since a migraine struck me at lunch time had to call oh who was out to come home quickly to look after our son. I was in so much pain with my migraine I get them really bad blurred vision to the point I can't actually see and go partly blind, slurred speech, and paralysis down half my face that is similar to a stroke it's horrific going to book an appointment in with my doc tomorrow as the pain is so bad I can't function at all and have to lie in bed in darkness for around 7 hours until it finally subsides! I really hope he changes my medication or at the very least refer me to a neurologist for further tests like an MRI

Hope you girls are ok?

Jannah - yes I hope miracles happen for us all fingers crossed for bfp's very soon

Tatemp - I agree it's possibly your cold that's keeping your temp up I read that can happen if your ill whilst basal temping it can mess it up, hope you feel better soon

Phoenix - it will happen hun but sometimes it just can take abit more time than others unfortunately. I concieved naturally for the first time after 24 months TTC all the bfn's and then 2 yrs later what a shock I finally conceived (that ended in a MMC sadly) but I conceived so I knew it could happen it just took time which was so frustrating then I went another 24 months before I got my next BFP with the help of clomid that time but it happened and look I now have my precious DS after a total of 4 years TTC and 2 losses we got there in the end!! I used to say to myself I would never become a mum it was devastating getting all them bfn's and like yourself all my friends and family members were either pregnant or had children I lost all hope but i finally got there, I'm sure you'll become a mummy soon keep positive xx

 

[Jannah K]

Just found out another family friend having second baby
I don't want to go to family gatherings from oh side as I feel so left out..
My family doesn't know & I can't tell them....
Oh thinks it will just happen ...I dunno...

 

[Phoenix82]

Hey girls no update from me either been in bed most of the day since a migraine struck me at lunch time had to call oh who was out to come home quickly to look after our son. I was in so much pain with my migraine I get them really bad blurred vision to the point I can't actually see and go partly blind, slurred speech, and paralysis down half my face that is similar to a stroke it's horrific going to book an appointment in with my doc tomorrow as the pain is so bad I can't function at all and have to lie in bed in darkness for around 7 hours until it finally subsides! I really hope he changes my medication or at the very least refer me to a neurologist for further tests like an MRI

Hope you girls are ok?

Jannah - yes I hope miracles happen for us all fingers crossed for bfp's very soon

Tatemp - I agree it's possibly your cold that's keeping your temp up I read that can happen if your ill whilst basal temping it can mess it up, hope you feel better soon

Phoenix - it will happen hun but sometimes it just can take abit more time than others unfortunately. I concieved naturally for the first time after 24 months TTC all the bfn's and then 2 yrs later what a shock I finally conceived (that ended in a MMC sadly) but I conceived so I knew it could happen it just took time which was so frustrating then I went another 24 months before I got my next BFP with the help of clomid that time but it happened and look I now have my precious DS after a total of 4 years TTC and 2 losses we got there in the end!! I used to say to myself I would never become a mum it was devastating getting all them bfn's and like yourself all my friends and family members were either pregnant or had children I lost all hope but i finally got there, I'm sure you'll become a mummy soon keep positive xx

Thanks Naninnoo

So sorry to hear you are feeling horrid!!! You need them to find out heats making them so bad sweetie, it could be meds but you can't go on like that.

The witch has arrived today (very slightly) but she's here none the less!
Onto next cycle once she's done argggggghhhhhh
Feeling meh but hey ho at least I can go for a proper lava shell massage now

 

[Nanninoo]

Phoenix sorry to here af has arrived
Bfn for me today

 

[Jannah K]

Hru feeling nanninoo??
Phoenix I am sorry to hear AF arrival...
I am okay....lower back ache & cramps ongoing...now bloated too...AF coming any min

 

[Phoenix82]

Don't worry I'm just frustrated at how long it's taking, I kinda knew it wasn't my month.

Fingers crossed yours isn't tho!! When are you due to get AF?

 

[Jannah K]

I m not on clomid cycle neither do I know when I ovulated due to the flashy smiley...
As of today...lower back ache...cramps not there....a lot of cm....I keep going to washroom thinking AF is here
Found out another friend expecting without even trying

 

[Phoenix82]

I m not on clomid cycle neither do I know when I ovulated due to the flashy smiley...
As of today...lower back ache...cramps not there....a lot of cm....I keep going to washroom thinking AF is here
Found out another friend expecting without even trying

Ohhhh fingers crossed. Any idea when AF should show or are you irregular? Another one !! Oh annoying - great for them but arghhhh for us

 

[Jannah K]

My cycles are irregular...I would think by tom if AF should come....a lot of cm is so weird!
I tested on Friday and it was bfn

 

[Phoenix82]

Boo!!! I had tons of cm last cycle - never normally do - odd huh??

I meant to say I was on the depo injection over 2 years ago having no AF at all. When I changed from that to the patch my AF become evil. Heavy bleeding every month, flooding and feeling rotten. But since stopping the patch in May last year my AF has been 2-4 days of v light bleeding. So light in fact some days opt for a liner as it's more comfortable. It's defo a bleed but not much.

My doc says the blood test showed o and I've read light AF doesn't mean there is anything wrong but I can't help but worry that is what causing the delay?

 

[Nanninoo]

Not to sure when af due as iregular cycles which doesn't help usually long 40+ but last month it was 28 days long so will see what time af shows it's face this month. I Know how you girls feel 2 of my friends on Facebook have just announced they are expecting talk about feeling jealous and down in the dumps why can't life be kind to us and gives us those much awaited bfp's but life is never simple is it sigh! God really does like to test us hey! Feeling really down now and starting to think it's going to take me another 4 years to have a baby like it did with my first
Don't think I can take the emotional stress with all the pressure if it's going to take that long again
My OH just keeps telling me stop stressing and don't think and talk about it then it will happen! Yeah that's easier said than done....that's men for you, they have no idea what us woman actually feel like! X

P.s
If any of you girls have facebook and want to be friends then pm me your names and I'll look you up x

 

[Jannah K]

My lower back pain not going away....esp at night its very painful ...I did Google search & it said ectopic pregnancy, endometrosis can cause it
Any thoughts?
No AF yet but it is irregular so u never know