Totally agree with Lisa, CALL YOUR MIDWIFE> That is nuts that they didn't give you any information, or even let you look at the screen. Is that even legal?? I am upset for you. It reminds me of all the ultrasounds I have had in the past year and a half with doctors that spoke little to no english, the whispers, strange questions, doubts that I was even pregnant (Happened with this one and the one I lost in Feb). I am so sorry you had to go through this... I hope you hear good news from your midwife. By 9 weeks the baby should be pretty clearly there, could your dates be off? Why were there two of them? Maybe they were just in training and had no idea what to look for?
My dates definitely could be off. I told them at my first appointment that my periods were irregular but my midwife said my uterus felt the right size for 7 weeks (this was two weeks ago). But I found out on the 28th last month, 4 week ago so even if I was super early catching the pregnancy I'd have to be at least 7 1/2 weeks by now. And they should be able to see something at 7 1/2 weeks right? Something measurable? What worries me is if I'm measuring less than that... If I'm measuring 6 weeks or 5 weeks then something has to be wrong. Right?
My husband says it looked to him like they didn't have their machine calibrated right or didn't know what they were doing. That it was fuzzy and looked more like static than an ultrasound. And they kept saying they couldn't see clearly. There was a student and the tech and then they brought in the supervisor. If their equipment wasn't working correctly I don't understand why they wouldn't stop and use another machine? Or reschedule me if another wasn't available? Something? And my husband says he thinks he saw her record a HB but she didn't bother to share? WTF!
I am calmer now but still very angry.
I haven't called my midwife yet... Is it awful that I don't want to call because I don't want to hear bad news? I feel like I want to hang onto Bo (baby's nick name for now) being okay just another couple of days... I want to know what's going on but I also want it to be something good. And I'm not at all confident it's going to be good.
One way or another I am going to demand another ultrasound when I see my midwife. Especially because I'm getting the feeling they won't be able to accurately date the pregnancy from this ultrasound and that was the whole point of having one!
My husband told me we need to develop a secret code language to use in front of people. He said if he'd known what to expect from an early ultrasound or what I was feeling or thinking he'd have stood up for me and said something to them. Unfortunately I'm timid and avoid confrontation to a fault. Can't tell you how many times I've wished I'd screamed at someone after it was no longer an option. Even now I can't believe I just laid there and let them treat me that way.
Hopefully I'll have better news a little later. Will keep you guys updated. Thanks for all of the support. Really made me feel better to know I wasn't acting like a crazy lady.
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