3boys, I think it's fine for other people. But I never liked princesses, dresses, dolls, or pink. Was always much more interested in dinosaurs and mud fights. I wouldn't know what to do with a girly-girl. I'm really afraid I'd have no way to relate to her. Hubs and I are all nerds and videogames, not Barbies and damsels in distress.
Plus my sisters had all boys except for one girl who is 14 now. So I know my mom wants another "little princess" in the family. I've gone so far as to decide we'll find out the gender, but won't tell anyone because I know she'll buy us a ton of pink stuff even if I beg her not to.
But we are not big into gender rolls in our house. So ultimately, we'll let the kids choose who they want to be. If my child, boy or girl, wants to wear pink and play with dolls, I'll accept it. But I think we'd all have more fun together the other way around.
Nmp, that does sound like a fast jump! I spoke with a Clear Blue representative last year, and I'm pretty sure 3+ means your hCG is at least 2000. Do twins run in your family?
My first doctor appointment was yesterday. I'm due October 3rd. My first scan will be February 18th, when I'm 7w5d.