2015 October Owls! | The chicks are hatching! *16 boys & 8 girls so far!*

[tallybee]

Thanks for the support lady's sorry I'm not on here as often. as busy as my doctors and work have me these days feel like pulling teeth scary and feel so slow.......

Just quickly popping in to say scan went well.. baba measuring 8+3 and strong. next scan at 12 weeks..

I on the other hand I am really ill, they said I need to sip tiny amounts every 10 mins and nibble tiny amounts every 30 mins and if I get worse to ring my gp as I will need to go in... can't keep nothing down. im going to sleep now.. my day off vomiting and sleeping..I will have to book this week off sick xx

Glad to hear scan was all good!! Sorry you're so ill though. I hope it eases for you soon. It's miserable

Well I had a strange night lastnight lol... I didn't know where I wanted to be or what I needed... I felt like I was gonna pile so ran to the toilet and nothing... Just a lot of dry heaving never been this bad before With what there call morning sickness... So got back into bed and somehow managed to fall asleep when my partner woke me up to tell me my boob was leaking!!!??? WTF I've never had this before ever! I stopped nursing my daughter 14 months ago? Anyone else had this? X

I imagine this is pretty normal, mine randomly leaked for some time after stopping bf before. I keep dreaming they are now but they're not lol. Had a bit of dry heaving recently too but only actually vomited a couple of times so far.

I just found baby's heartbeat on my new doppler! Weirdly, I found two fast heartbeats, one on either side of my uterus. Both way faster than my own heartbeat. We only saw one baby on the scan, but they were tucked waaaay off to one side of my uterus.

that's interesting! !!

Afm - we just got home after something like 28 hours travelling and waiting at airports! It feels weird!

Thailand was awesome and I managed to eat lots of gorgeous local food and not be sick lol! We swam in the sea, rode an elephant, my daughter swam with dolphins at a park place!!! It was amazing.

We managed to keep the pregnancy under wraps too. Being there with my dad step mum brother and his gf made it quite hard but keeping to waiting til after 1st scan at 12+3. Bit scared of what my dad's reaction will be tbh he has been horribly rude about my being a mum 8 the past. I know he means we'll in his way but he can have a very funny way of showing it iykwim.

I hope everyone is ok. Looking forward to being back in the chat here!

 

[GingerPanda]

8w2d. There are plenty of ladies in their 8th week finding the heartbeats on dopplers. Mine's a 3mhz Sonoline B. Got it brand new for $55 with free shipping!

The nurse at the doctor's office said if they didn't see two babies on the ultrasound, then I'm not having twins. But it's really weird to get the heartbeats so far apart...

 

[Flibberty87]

So it's confirmed, I've lost my owl :'(

I don't think I can do this anymore. It's so hard on me physically and emotionally.

 

[MrsSmith54]

Glad to see so many good updates congrats lady's I have to say today is an awesome day for me since I'm sick to my stomach and it's hard to keep food down and the nausea away. My breast are on fire on and off while I try to get my job done but these are all good signs so I couldn't be happier to be sick. More blood work tomorrow and then dating scan thursdays .

 

[GingerPanda]

Flibberty87, I'm so sorry, honey.

 

[pink_bow]

Huge hugs Flibberty. So sorry xx

I can't keep up with this thread! I really need to ring and book in with the midwife! I keep forgetting. ..

 

[tallybee]

Massive flibberty xxxx

 

[tallybee]

Perhaps I spoke too soon about not being sick. Feeling rough as hell now lol.

 

[Lil_Pixie]

I'm so sorry flibberty life is so unfair sometimes

 

[Flibberty87]

Thanks ladies. My mother is on a mission to get us a round of ivf as that our best shot at a successful pregnancy.

If any of you lovely lot have any ideas for fundraising, give me a shout. I set up a gofundme page months ago but so far nobody has donated anything.

Unfortunately we can't have it funded by the NHS because DF has a daughter and apparently having her sleep over one night a week is plenty for me to feel like a mother.

The universe keeps crapping on me lately. I need some good karma!

 

[GingerPanda]

I would post your GoFundMe on Facebook and any other social media you might be on.

 

[Lil_Pixie]

It's such a postcode lottery. My bil was approved for if even though his wife already has 5 kids. They didn't get it in the end but they were allowed it. In the same area a friend and her husband with no children can't have if because she was 38. It's such a heartless system.

 

[Natasha2605]

So so sorry flibberty xx

 

[Flibberty87]

GingerPanda - I tried that. It took a lot for me to do that as a lot of people don't know the troubles we've been through.

Lil_pixie - I know exactly what you mean. 2 of my friends have had children with exes then had ivf with their new partner. And those are children that live with them 24/7. Apparently even if you adopt it makes you ineligible for funding.

All the doctors keep saying is oooh age is on your side, you have years yet. I'll be 28 soon. I know I'm not old by any means but it's taken me 20 months to get pregnant after my last mc. If that happens again I'm going to be 30. Then what if I want another child and that takes me another 5/6 years.

I'm seriously considering going on the pill and adopting. We get married in August so after that we'll consider it. its a long process apparently and it's hard to get a child that's under 5

 

[3boys]

Flibertty I'm so so sorry. I hope you get your dream soon x

 

[Cariad_x]

You'll need to remove me. We lost our bean last night absolutely devastated.

 

[Serenjay]

Sorry to hear that Flib

Aww Cariad I am so sorry sweetheart xx

 

[GingerPanda]

Cariad, I'm sorry to hear this.

So sad for all the losses.

 

[Dark_Star]

So sorry for the losses. I wish you ladies emotional and physical healing.

 

[3boys]

Oh cariad I'm so sorry. Words are never enough I hope you heal quickly x