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[newbie_ttc]

i am back dear friends... currently fuming! DH has pushed a button with me today. We are having a party for his birthday/house warming and I looked on the FB invite today to see that he has invited the one female "friend" of his that I have a problem with! from the very beginning of our relationship, he has been secretive about said friend and we have gotten in some big arguments about her. I cannot control who he is friends with but I can control who comes into my home Said friend has since been removed from the guest list

you have every right to be mad

the funny part of the whole thing is, the whole time i was thinking, I am so glad I have already O'ed b/c there won't be any baby making going on tonight!.... obesessed much?

 

[Mollykins]

i am back dear friends... currently fuming! DH has pushed a button with me today. We are having a party for his birthday/house warming and I looked on the FB invite today to see that he has invited the one female "friend" of his that I have a problem with! from the very beginning of our relationship, he has been secretive about said friend and we have gotten in some big arguments about her. I cannot control who he is friends with but I can control who comes into my home Said friend has since been removed from the guest list

you have every right to be mad

the funny part of the whole thing is, the whole time i was thinking, I am so glad I have already O'ed b/c there won't be any baby making going on tonight!.... obesessed much?

I remember a cycle, not too far back where OH and I had a disagreement... I remember being so mad and thinking to myself, "Of course he would! Of course he would just piss me right off around O! ARGHHH!" So, I know how you feel!

 

[newbie_ttc]

i am back dear friends... currently fuming! DH has pushed a button with me today. We are having a party for his birthday/house warming and I looked on the FB invite today to see that he has invited the one female "friend" of his that I have a problem with! from the very beginning of our relationship, he has been secretive about said friend and we have gotten in some big arguments about her. I cannot control who he is friends with but I can control who comes into my home Said friend has since been removed from the guest list

Hmm.... I think that this is a matter of respect now. He knows that you are not comfortable with her and yet what? He still incorporates her into your guys' life? IMHO, I would be fuming too. I came in contact a while back with an old boyfriend and I informed my OH of it and he was comfortable with us speaking, well long story short, my OH decided he wasn't comfortable with us speaking anymore and asked me to stop. I did. Why? Because I respect my OH that much.

May I ask what exactly you have a problem with? What about her has you on edge?

well, it's a long story that dates back to when we were just dating. Not that I mind telling it, but the short end of it is he was caught lying about this woman who was, according to him, just a friend. If there is nothing between u two, why lie? I don't have a problem with her b/c we've never met and she has never, to my knowledge, done anything disrespectful to our marriage. But b/c he chose to hide his friendshipw with her some 6 odd years ago, I have never been comfortable about their dealings since. Call it a gut feeling I guess

 

[Mollykins]

Aww Trin! I have a trying child too. Not ADD but still trying. She sends me reeling sometimes with the things she chooses to do. Many sympathetic your way lovey.

 

[Mollykins]

i am back dear friends... currently fuming! DH has pushed a button with me today. We are having a party for his birthday/house warming and I looked on the FB invite today to see that he has invited the one female "friend" of his that I have a problem with! from the very beginning of our relationship, he has been secretive about said friend and we have gotten in some big arguments about her. I cannot control who he is friends with but I can control who comes into my home Said friend has since been removed from the guest list

Hmm.... I think that this is a matter of respect now. He knows that you are not comfortable with her and yet what? He still incorporates her into your guys' life? IMHO, I would be fuming too. I came in contact a while back with an old boyfriend and I informed my OH of it and he was comfortable with us speaking, well long story short, my OH decided he wasn't comfortable with us speaking anymore and asked me to stop. I did. Why? Because I respect my OH that much.

May I ask what exactly you have a problem with? What about her has you on edge?

well, it's a long story that dates back to when we were just dating. Not that I mind telling it, but the short end of it is he was caught lying about this woman who was, according to him, just a friend. If there is nothing between u two, why lie? I don't have a problem with her b/c we've never met and she has never, to my knowledge, don't anything disrespectful to our marriage. But b/c he chose to hide his friendshipw with her some 6 odd years ago, I have never been comfortable about their dealings since. Call it a gut feeling I guess

Hmm... tricky situation I say. Stick to your

 

[kit_cat]

I made a Frankenbake which turned out to be very nice: potatoes, brown and oyster mushroom and baby stem broccoli with a yoghurt and white wine sauce. Served with a crunchy salad. YUM!

Oooooo, can you send me some over please Trinity...I'm starving That sounds loverly

Sorry to hear about your bleach tradgedy.....not surprised you were unimpressed with your DS Was everything ruined?

everything he was banished to his room for the night. The thing is, yesterday he tried to cut his brother with a pair of scissors. he is very trying! He has adhd and is on Ritalin which made a huge difference (I am VERY MUCH NOT a Ritalin fan, but when it's indicated it really helps) but now he's slipping back into the compulsive behaviour. I don't know what to do anymore

Oh no...all ruined My friends son was diagnosed with ADHD and is on Ritalin. I've seen her taken to the edge with him so many times. My hat comes off to both you and her. You're amazing to manage to work with the condition as I see the strain it puts on her, her marriage and even her whole family at times. You really are a pretty amazing person y'know Trinity

 

[newbie_ttc]

i am back dear friends... currently fuming! DH has pushed a button with me today. We are having a party for his birthday/house warming and I looked on the FB invite today to see that he has invited the one female "friend" of his that I have a problem with! from the very beginning of our relationship, he has been secretive about said friend and we have gotten in some big arguments about her. I cannot control who he is friends with but I can control who comes into my home Said friend has since been removed from the guest list

Oh dear.... I wouldn't be happy either. Especially if OH is already aware of your feelings. Is he just being thoughtless? Is she an ex of his or do you just not like her?

technically not an ex, although they did go out once according to him, back in his college days. I have always tried to be diplomatic about the situation, u know, not make a fuss about the friends he had before we met, so I never said to him directly that I don't like them being friends, so I guess that's why he thought I was ok. Today however I told him in no uncertain terms that I am not comfortable with it. Now what he chooses to do with that bit of information is up to him, but he had sense enough to retract her invitation

 

[kit_cat]

Oh my goodness gracious me!! I think one of my workmates has just texted me a joke by accident.....it's the most gross, filthy joke I've heard for sometime. I'm laughing so much right now....he's going to die when he realises he's sent it to me

 

[Mollykins]

Oh my goodness gracious me!! I think one of my workmates has just texted me a joke by accident.....it's the most gross, filthy joke I've heard for sometime. I'm laughing so much right now....he's going to die when he realises he's sent it to me

Share! Though maybe by pm if it's so bad.

 

[Sarachka]

I'm saving up my wee to do my first opk of this cycle. What fun!

 

[Mollykins]

I'm saving up my wee to do my first opk of this cycle. What fun!

 

[kit_cat]

Oh my goodness gracious me!! I think one of my workmates has just texted me a joke by accident.....it's the most gross, filthy joke I've heard for sometime. I'm laughing so much right now....he's going to die when he realises he's sent it to me

Share! Though maybe by pm if it's so bad.

I've just had another text apologising for the error and saying to delete it...YEAH RIGHT! I will PM it....not necessarily public thread fodder.....

 

[LittleSpy]

My DH has ADHD. Pretty much impossible for him to focus on and succeed in doing anything he's not supremely interested in doing.

The bump & I are doing well, thanks for asking Kit & Molly. And by "the bump" I do mean bump. I swear I'm starting to show already. Or I guess the bump could just be from all the holiday cookies I baked (Um.. and ate ) this weekend.

M/s (still just nausea) has reappeared daily this week which is a bummer. I really enjoyed those several days last week without it.

Kitcat -- how are you & your getting along? You have a fetus now!

 

[newbie_ttc]

Oh my goodness gracious me!! I think one of my workmates has just texted me a joke by accident.....it's the most gross, filthy joke I've heard for sometime. I'm laughing so much right now....he's going to die when he realises he's sent it to me

Share! Though maybe by pm if it's so bad.

me too! how awkward!

 

[Mollykins]

My DH has ADHD. Pretty much impossible for him to focus on and succeed in doing anything he's not supremely interested in doing.

The bump & I are doing well, thanks for asking Kit & Molly. And by "the bump" I do mean bump. I swear I'm starting to show already. Or I guess the bump could just be from all the holiday cookies I baked (Um.. and ate ) this weekend.

M/s (still just nausea) has reappeared daily this week which is a bummer. I really enjoyed those several days last week without it.

Kitcat -- how are you & your getting along? You have a fetus now!

Aww! You preggy turtle you! Go ahead and eat those cookies... you know your little bump wants 'em.

 

[Mollykins]

I just text it to my OH.

 

[newbie_ttc]

My DH has ADHD. Pretty much impossible for him to focus on and succeed in doing anything he's not supremely interested in doing.

The bump & I are doing well, thanks for asking Kit & Molly. And by "the bump" I do mean bump. I swear I'm starting to show already. Or I guess the bump could just be from all the holiday cookies I baked (Um.. and ate ) this weekend.

M/s (still just nausea) has reappeared daily this week which is a bummer. I really enjoyed those several days last week without it.

Kitcat -- how are you & your getting along? You have a fetus now!

hey there babe! 4got to speak to u earlier

Hope that m/s goes away real soon and stays away! don't feel bad about the cookies! My vice has been candy and DH thought it was a good idea to bring several pounds of hersheys chocolate home last week! I am trying to loose weight, not gain it

 

[Mollykins]

Random fact:

Oregon, United States and London, England are roughly 5k miles away from each other.

 

[kit_cat]

Oh my goodness gracious me!! I think one of my workmates has just texted me a joke by accident.....it's the most gross, filthy joke I've heard for sometime. I'm laughing so much right now....he's going to die when he realises he's sent it to me

Share! Though maybe by pm if it's so bad.

me too! how awkward!

I'll PM you now.....

 

[kit_cat]

I just text it to my OH.

He'll wonder what on earth type of people you are rubbing virtual shoulders with on here!