mummyApril
2 daughters and a son
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Trin i wasnt been mean kinda saying at least james is healthy and here ok etc sorry if it sounded that way everyone i didnt really know what to say about it as obviously i have had both my boys normal
So sorry April i know as Trin says you are right to grieve sorry lovely
*gets thorny branch-cheers Kit !*
Don't be silly!!!! That isn't what I was saying. All I'm saying is that I know that it looks different from the outside from how it feels on the inside. The mom who had a caesar for pre-eclampsia last week had no choice but to have a caesar, but she feels like a failure even though logically it doesn't make sense. Her husband just can't get it. Birth is so emotional and often irrational
Put the thorny branch away!![]()
Well said Trin..April, I also felt rather disappointed and numb after my birth experience..like it happened to someone else. It was so far removed from what I'd imagined and hoped for. I was still very grateful for the intervention though otherwise the outcome could have been very different but I understand how you feel![]()
